An article about how to love yourself, how to start respecting yourself and how to raise your self-esteem.

The quality of your life depends on your own attitude to himself.

People with low self-esteem are insecure. And without confidence - nowhere.

Confidence is needed for success in all areas of activity:

• relations
• business
• sport
• politics
• etc. etc.

Without self-confidence with low self-esteem:

• difficulties, doubts, fears are generated in all undertakings.
• hard to make decisions...
• it is very difficult sometimes and it is completely impossible to achieve what you want (goals, ideas, plans, ideas, etc., etc.).
• it is difficult to communicate with other people, make new acquaintances, there are experiences, fears, awkwardness, not comfortable, etc.
• a person feels inferior, unworthy, incapable, hence Bad mood, depression, etc.
• it seems to a person that everything is against him, any criticism against him hurts (hurts) excessively, and all this sensitivity, together with shyness and expectation of something bad, makes such people avoid society (people), but loneliness also does not bring them excessive relief, because I want support, love, happiness and joy.

When everything is good with self-esteem, when you respect yourself, love, know your worth, you give yourself the right to a lot - joy, success, happiness, wealth, worthy friends and maximum peaks in life.

• You cope and are not afraid of difficulties;
• You make decisions, achieve what you want, achieve success in life;
• You calmly communicate with people, make new acquaintances;
• You feel complete, capable, worthy
• In short, you are doing great.

So if you want to increase the quality of your life, start with a relationship with yourself.

Moreover, if you want others to respect you, then start with yourself!

Understand that everything is in your hands: develop, work hard and you will be rewarded according to your deserts.

You must have 100% faith in yourself in everything! This is the key to your success.

Call this feeling in yourself, believe and believe in yourself, in everything:

• Reprogram your brain
• Change your way of thinking
• Change your thinking, attitudes, beliefs

Believe me, you are not a loser, you can do anything, you can achieve anything - anything you want.

• You can do this
• You are doomed only to success

This is how you should think.

Remove the viruses from your head, and download the correct beliefs, programs.

The rule is this: what you really believe in, what you sincerely believe in, what you are absolutely convinced of => become your reality. Got what I just said?

I understand why you need to remove viruses from your head and download the correct installations?

This is because a person does not see the world as it is, each person has his own picture of the world, based on his own faith. What is your faith = such is the result.

That is why it is extremely important to change your thinking.

This is where your incredible success begins! Take action!

It's simple: when you achieve your goals (your goals, ideas, ideas, desires, dreams, etc., etc.), when you win, your self-esteem begins to grow rapidly.

With each achievement (victory) = your self-esteem grows at an unprecedented pace.

As a result, your inner self-confidence rises and rises.

Therefore, reach, win, take your own!

Important: your victories (achievements) may not be recognized by everyone (other people, those around you), the most important thing is that this be an achievement (victory) for yourself.

I will give you a simple example: a child does not know how to ride a bicycle, but now he has learned. For many people around, adults, this is not perceived as a victory.

And for a child, this is a real victory, this is success, this is a real achievement. Understand?

So it is with your achievements (victories).

Understand, there will always be someone for whom your achievements (your victories) = nothing at all.

• For someone, earning $1,000 is something unrealistic, it is such an achievement, such a victory, such a success = what is simple.
• And for those who earn more than $ 1000, 5 to 10 - 20, etc. for them it means nothing at all.

Therefore, do not seek approval from others, the most important thing is that this be an achievement (victory) for yourself, but forget about the opinions of others.

You form your own self-esteem, you pump yourself up, you work on yourself, you develop yourself, you must respect yourself.

Tip: ideally, all your victories (achievements) should be versatile. And not in one thing. So you will develop harmoniously / diversified (in many ways).

For example, achievements (victories) in:

• sports
• in business
• in a career
• in relationship
• with girls/women
• in personal growth
• etc. etc.

And not in one thing (for example, only in money and nothing else besides money).

Number 3. Set goals and achieve them (do it)

Look, for reaching point #1. achievements (victories) you need to set goals!

When you have correctly set goals, your efficiency increases so much that you can’t even imagine now.

Believe me successful people always set goals. Is always.

Without correctly set goals, it is simply impossible to achieve what you want (to embody dreams, desires, ideas, ideas, plans, etc., etc.).

Conquer women, and not just any, but beautiful, bright, well-groomed, smart, etc.

Such women will incredibly strongly raise your self-esteem and give you self-confidence.

Nuance: really high-level girls will not even communicate with just anyone.

Therefore, in order to conquer worthy girls you yourself must be something of yourself. That is why you need to constantly develop and work on yourself.

With any girls (well, you understand, I hope) there will be no desired effect, always raise the bar with the levels of girls, develop, strive for more.

The rule is simple: you can’t progress (pump) playing with weak opponents or with the same ones like you. Should be higher level. Otherwise, there will be no progress.

You probably know that if you want to learn how to fight, you need to learn from someone who can fight well.

• With someone who doesn't know how, you won't learn anything.
• With those who are your level = too.
• Progress will only be with those who are better than you.

The same goes for our theme of self-esteem boosting with decent girls.

When you raise the bar with women, you develop, you progress.

This item is essentially related to item #1. victories (achievements).

A man without a dough is a loser (bad earner).

If you go to a job that you hate and get a penny there, you have to deny yourself (and not only yourself) almost everything, well, maybe it's time to change something, because in this situation, how can you feel good?

How can you feel confident without a dough (in our world then)? … it is obvious.

There is never too much dough)) the more the better...

A man with a loot feels much more confident, better (in every sense) than without a loot.

With money, you can do almost everything, you are the king, so earn money 🙂

Do what will help you develop a certain way of life.

Those. do those things that will increase your self-esteem and self-confidence.

Go in for sports: go to the gym, join the pool and swim, go to the martial arts section, in general, do some kind of sport that you like.

Take care of yourself! The more you like yourself = the higher your level of self-esteem.

Believe me, sport really greatly increases self-esteem, increases inner self-confidence, tempers character, makes you tougher, healthier and more attractive to the opposite sex 🙂

Start eating well (healthy foods):

• Stop eating any junk food (dumplings, crackers, fast food, sausages, sausage, etc., you are what you eat)
• Eliminate harmful substances (alcohol, cigarettes, etc. nonsense)

Understand: when you eat quality food (when you have a healthy lifestyle) = you have:

• more energy
• you feel much better
• you start respecting yourself

And all because you invest in yourself (invest in yourself), and accordingly, you begin to value yourself as an asset that you value, thereby you begin to love yourself, to be treated with respect.

• When you drink/smoke = you deliberately kill your health. And that's what people who don't believe in themselves do. Weaklings. You can tell me anything - but it's true.
• Overweight, body fat - it's the same thing. This means that you eat any food and do not take care of yourself, incl. with your health. How can you be respected if you don't respect yourself?

Start dressing expensively and stylishly when you are beautifully, stylishly, expensively dressed - your self-esteem instantly rises, you feel and behave completely differently than in ordinary sweatpants with training)).

Start taking care of yourself appearance, body, take care of hygiene, etc.

Remember: the more you like yourself = the higher your level of self-esteem.

Start diversifying:

• read books
• articles
• literature
• attend webinars/seminars, courses, trainings, etc. etc.
• improve and improve yourself, create versatile hobbies for yourself - all this will help you love yourself, begin to appreciate, gain respect for yourself.

If you want to raise your self-esteem and gain respect, start with yourself!

Council number 7. Don't compare your life with other people's lives.

Don't compare yourself to other people. Never. Under no circumstances!

One of the real causes of low self-esteem is negative thoughts about your life compared to the lives of others.

The fact is that no person will compare himself with someone who is worse than him!

And in life there is absolutely always someone who will be better than you in this or that or even in everything. This is where negative thoughts and envy ala begin:

• He is better than me
• he has his own apartment
• he has a lot of money
• cool car
• beautiful cool girls with him
• he travels to different countries
• he has better clothes
• he has such a great life
• He's better better better, but I don't...

Never try to be like someone else. Live your own life!

Take care of yourself, and be yourself, and all this envy suffocates, as a result of:

• self-esteem is underestimated
• internal self-doubt arises
• negative thoughts appear
• begins criticism of yourself and the person that negatively affects you!

When you criticize yourself for something = you are programming yourself for it.

You give yourself harmful harmful attitudes, beliefs, you prescribe a malicious code (virus) in your inner world (in your head), as a result you have problems and outside world because your inner world serves as a mirror of your outer world.

So don't criticize yourself. Made a mistake, messed up, drew the appropriate conclusions (learn the lesson(s)) and take it into account in the future, period.

Move forward and only forward, no matter what.

Criticism of other people contributes to the formation of an insecure and notorious person.

Do not waste your strength, your energy, your time on this, it makes no sense, absolutely none. Focus on yourself. For your purposes. And just keep moving forward.

Tip #8. Forget the criticism / opinions of other people.

Never think about what other people think or think about you.

If you have achieved something and are achieving it in life, if you stand out from the gray majority of people in some way, there will always be those who will water you with you know what ... Always.

If you will obey and be led to all this nonsense (criticism) = your self-esteem will fall. Do not stoop to the level of such people, otherwise they will crush you with their experience)).

You should know who you are and what you are, you don't need to prove/find out anything to anyone or take a steam bath because of someone else's opinion. Do not waste your strength, your energy, your time on this, because this does not make any sense for you (only harm).

You have goals - that's great, move forward towards them and achieve your goal! That's all.

I'm sure all these tips will help you. Be sure to put them into practice. Good luck!

I think that all parents dream that their children fulfill our requests, that they listen to our opinion and know that if we talk about something, then this is really useful and necessary information.

But very often we are faced with the fact that when we say something to a child, if he hears us, he very rarely reacts. And if he reacts, then for the tenth, hundredth time.

What to do? How to build such relationships so that children respect us and consider us an authority, listening to our opinion? We read the article obedient child in 10 steps.

1. Respect your child

No phrases like “You are so-and-so!”, “Only people like you!”, “How can you?!”, “Look at others!” and other things that may affect your child's personality.

The human brain is designed in such a way that if someone insults us, respect for this person automatically disappears, and it is almost impossible to hear and perceive the information that the person who insulted us says.

In fact, this protective function brain. If someone tells us something bad about us, we stop considering this person as an authority. And accordingly, all the value of his words for us disappears.

2. Be a source of interesting information

70% of interesting, informative, new and only 30% of corrections and some kind of moralizing.

It is very important that if you want you to become an authority for your child, and he really voluntarily listens to your opinion, you must keep up with the times. Your child must understand that he can turn to you in any situation, that you can always prompt, and that you have the information he needs.

If you see that his focus of attention is decreasing, know that you went too far in moralizing and in some information that is not very personal for him. Return again to interesting information, return to what will help you build your relationship with your child and, accordingly, naturally achieve obedience and respect for you.

3. Set an example, don't be groundless

It is very important that your words do not diverge from your actions.

I think that if you see any person who declares some very important truths to the public, but then you find out that he lives in a completely different way, your respect and trust in him will drop very sharply.

The same is happening with our children. If a mother tells for a very long time, with instructions, how bad it is to say bad words, and then the child sees that her mother, in a conversation with someone or on the street while driving, when she was cut off, uses these words, then he understands that not everyone, what mom or dad says is important, not everything should be followed because mom, telling me one thing, herself acts differently.

The classic situation is when parents smoke, and the child is told that smoking is not allowed. I'm not talking about the fact that you need to come and smoke a cigarette in front of him.

But if your child has grown to the age when he asks you: “Mom, is smoking bad?” you tell him: “Bad!”, if he asks: “Mom, do you smoke?”, then a much better effect will be to say: “You know, this is really a huge problem for me. I smoke - it's very bad. I have such and such consequences, and I really hope that you will never do this!”

4. Don't Ask Rhetorical Questions

A very common situation, which, unfortunately, I also encountered at the birth of my first child.

When we enter the room, and toys are scattered there again, or when we come to school, and there again the teacher says that he did not prepare for the lesson or did something wrong, or did not do his homework the way it was supposed to to do, and not because there was no time. And because he simply did not consider it necessary.

And the parent in such a situation begins to say: “How many times can I repeat to you!”, “When will this finally end?”, “I have already told you 180 times!”, “All children are like children, and you!”, “ Why are you behaving like this?”, “Will it ever end or will it not end?!”.

What should I answer Small child when they come to him with such an offer? “Mom, you told me this already 25 times! For the 26th time, I realized that I would not do this again and this would not happen again!

But it's not real, is it?

Often, if a mother enters a room and it’s not cleaned there, and she starts saying: “Toys are scattered again, things are lying around in the closet again!”, She says all this at the same time, and collects it all herself. Because the child, focusing on these rhetorical questions that do not require an answer from him because he does not understand what to say, he skips all further information.

Not only that, he understands that mom can talk just for the sake of what to say. And again, our words become just a background for him. He only hears these first phrases, and further concentration of attention absolutely falls.

Much better, if you want to get things done, is to speak in clear and understandable sentences: “I want you to clean the room. I will be pleased, please do this and that!”

Don't be afraid that it will seem like authoritarian phrases. These are clear and understandable instructions for what we want to achieve from our children. If you say them politely, it is much clearer and much more realistic for children to figure out what their parents generally want from them.

I want to reveal another secret that the same formula will help women communicate better with their men, because very often, if we also begin to address our men with such rhetorical questions - how many times do you have to tell? - they just like the children, they do not hear us.

5. Don't expect the impossible

Do not demand that your child, after your first request, immediately follow all orders, tasks, and simply obey you after the very first word.

We are not soldiers, and our children are not soldiers either.

Moreover, I want to say that the brain of a small person up to 14 years old is for sure! - it is arranged in such a way that if he is busy with something - he reads, he watches some kind of program, he draws something, or he just sits and thinks about something - then his concentration to everything else drops very much.

Indeed, a child really doing something may not hear us. While this causes a very violent reaction in us, some kind of resentment, and in the end we repeat it once, a second time.

When we are already losing our temper and screaming, this irritating factor is very strong, the child shudders, reacts, starts to do something, and in the end it seems to us - a standard phrase for many mothers - “You only need to shout at you in order to you did it!"

It is much better if you see that your child is busy with something, go up and touch him. Such a tactile touch, a tactile appeal to the child immediately draws attention to you.

You come up, patted him on the shoulder or on the head, hugged him and said: “Please do this or that!” - the reaction to such an appeal will be much faster, much more willing, and the child will really understand what you want from him.

6. Don't manipulate your feelings

When a mother, trying to force a child to act in one way or another, wants to arouse pity in him, or, as we say, awaken conscience, telling him that “... dad has two jobs, I'm spinning like a squirrel in a wheel, still a little brother, don't you see how hard it is for us? Can't you do your elementary job - do your homework?

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Unfortunately, very often this is all mixed with a feeling of guilt that parents try, perhaps even unconsciously, to arouse in a child, saying that “... we are doing this for you, dad, everything works so that you go to a good institute entered!"

What's happening? A small person cannot cope with a sense of guilt. He still does not understand this whole importance that dad goes to work so that he has something in the future. He lives here and now, he is not able to endure and somehow regret or somehow, perhaps, accept all the pain experienced by the parent, all the burden of his life or some questions.

And the child unconsciously begins to move away. His psyche begins to defend itself against what can destroy it. How is the psyche protected? Ignore, unwillingness to communicate, lack of any contact. When we ask, "How are you?" - "Fine!"

So if you want to get something out of your kids, tell them honestly and without too much emotion that "I need your help right now." "I would be very pleased if you could help me." "I can't do it without you now!" “If you can, I will be very grateful to you!”

Such things are much more effective than if we try to put pressure on pity and induce some kind of guilt from our children.

7. Don't use threats

Sometimes, if our children do not do something right away, and time is running out, or we have repeated the tenth, twentieth time, many parents resort to threatening: “If you don’t do it now!” or “If you don’t shut up in the store right now, I don’t know what I’ll do to you!” “I’ll give you this ... Come home, you will get it from me!”

What happens? It turns out that children, who naturally should see guardianship, care and protection in their parents, begin to see us as a threat, and act out of fear.

I don't think any parent wants to have a relationship with their children based on fear. Because if the obedience of our children is based on fear, it always leads to only 2 things:

1. This is that sooner or later there will be a rebellion, and at the age of 14 we will receive complete disregard, snapping, rudeness already on the part of children. It will seem to us - where do they come from? But this is all the spring that we squeezed with such threats, disrespect, some aggressive behavior towards the children.
2. Or the second point - if we pressed hard, and our child was not so strong emotionally at this age, then we just broke him.

In this case, he will already respond not only to our threats and succumb to them, but also to the threats of any people on the street. He will not be able to stand up for himself because he will simply have this function of defending his opinion and his desires broken.

If you need to achieve something, it is better to offer cooperation, some other alternative to threats.

Let's say, "You do it now, mom can buy butter in the store, and we'll make cookies with you!" or “If you help me now, then I will be happy to collect toys together with you later and we can play something together!”

It's even better if we offer some kind of barter. For some reason, many people do not like this scheme, but in fact it is not scary that we offer our child a trip to the cinema or some gifts in return. It is important that in the end, if we have achieved what we want, the parent should focus not on the gift, but on what the child did.

He did some action, tell him: “I am so pleased!” "It was so great!" "You did it anyway." “You did so well—much better than I could have expected!”

If we act in this way, then over time the child will understand that it also gives him pleasure to please you, and no additional mechanisms will be needed.

8. Be grateful

Very often we take the good deeds of our children for granted, especially if they have already grown from a very early childhood.

In fact, it turns out that if he does something - a good mark, or he did something, or he himself folded the toys, made the bed - there is no reaction. The child sees the reaction from the parents only when he did something wrong.

What happens? The natural need of children is to please us. Why? Because through the reaction of parents to themselves, the child forms his attitude towards himself. Through this reaction, he is differentiated as a person. If he hears only negative from us, this feeling of being as a person - self-confidence, a desire to be good, an understanding that you are important to someone who loves you, it is not filled.

In the future, the child can fill this function in other places: on the street, in some company, where it will be easy for someone to say: “You are so good!” And then for this "Well done" he will be ready to do anything.

Therefore, thank your children, say thank you to them, and do not be afraid that this will be often.

I'm not talking about putting on a chair and clapping your hands for every spoonful of porridge eaten. But I'm talking about the fact that it's worth noticing the little things that our children do every day, because in fact, what seems ordinary to us is often hard work for another person.

9. Remember what you want to achieve

Always remember what you want to achieve by saying this or that phrase to your child. Ask yourself - what kind of reaction do I expect? Why am I going to say this now?

If you ask yourself about this, then in many cases you will understand that you are going to say this phrase solely in order to throw out your negativity, your irritation, your fatigue.

As we have already said before, doing this to a person who is younger than you, whose psyche is even more touching and much weaker than yours, is simply unacceptable.

Therefore, if you can always ask yourself this question, you will, I am sure, avoid very many conflict situations and do not say very many words that you would not like to say.

This formula sometimes seems like just some pipe dream. It's a skill—the ability to ask yourself that question—it's really a skill. When you learn to do this, it will help you not only in communicating with your children. It will help you in communication at work, in communication with your husband.

Before each phrase, you can take a breath inside yourself and ask: “This reaction now - what will it lead to? What do I want to achieve?

Often this question, like a cold shower, relieves our irritation and we understand that at this stage we do not want to behave in the best way, which gives us the opportunity to choose the right strategy for behavior and communication with our children.

10. Don't expect perfect behavior from children.

Shouldn't we expect perfect behavior from our children? because we will never get it.

Our expectations will always lead to irritation, resentment and displeasure. Children in life, just like adults, will have their own stages, their own: 3, 7-8, 14 years old, when no matter how we behave, at some point they will say “No” all the time, they will snarl.

All we have to do at this moment is to love them, because when a person is good, it is very easy to love him. Especially we need love precisely when we do not the best deeds.

I am sure that in the life of every adult, if we are wrong, there will be at least one person who will always believe in us and say that “Yes, you are wrong. But I know that you are different. You are really good, and we will cope with all the difficulties!”

Therefore, I wish you to become just such people for your children, and then they will always respect you, not just listen, but hear and fulfill your requests and wishes with pleasure.

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One of the common problems of many modern families is childish disobedience, disrespectful attitude of children towards their parents. It not only worsens the relationship between them, but also negatively affects the atmosphere in the family as a whole. How to force (or still better to teach) a child to obey their parents, to respect their requirements, will be discussed in the article.

Extremes should be avoided in raising children. If the baby is constantly pulled with shouts, orders and prohibitions, a weak-willed, frightened creature will grow out of it. And vice versa, in families where the child does not understand the word “no”, he gradually turns into an uncontrollable creature.

What tactics in education to choose, how to teach a child to be obedient and at the same time have their own opinion, their own point of view. These questions are asked by every normal parent. Psychologists and educators recommend choosing a certain “golden mean”, which the following rules will help you find:

1. For each baby, there must be certain requirements and prohibitions, which he must strictly comply with.
2. There should not be too many such restrictions in order to educational process did not acquire an authoritarian style.
3. Before you say a resounding "no", think about whether this prohibition conflicts with the baby's natural need. Wouldn't it be more correct to say, for example, that you can wander through the puddles, but first you should change your shoes into rubber boots. The next time a similar situation arises, you will not have to puzzle over how to teach your child to obey his parents the first time.
4. All rules established in the family must be agreed between both parents. After all, you often have to deal with situations when mom categorically forbids something, and dad allows it. The child simply does not understand which of the parents to obey him and whether he should do it at all.
5. Pay attention to your tone. It should not be imperative, but explanatory. In an orderly tone, you will not teach to obey either your daughter or your son, no matter how much you want it.

Preschoolers: how to teach the little ones to obey their parents

Even if your child is 2 or 3 years old, most likely it will not be possible to force him to obey his mother, no matter how much you want it, but you can teach a baby at this age to fulfill your requests. Try to spend more time with your baby in joint games, reading, communication. In the process of such a pastime, it will not be possible to do without rules and prohibitions. But you must always justify your claims.
Be consistent: if you allowed the baby to do something once, you won’t be able to forbid it again without a scandal. Prohibit only that which may be dangerous to the health or life of the baby.

How to connect with a teenager

It is impossible to teach respect, as well as to force to obey parents, a teenager. All parents can do is retain (if any) or gain the respect and authority of their growing children. Try to participate in their lives as much as possible (but do not interfere unceremoniously), organize joint trips, trips. Try to become a friend of your son or daughter.

Do everything to make your relationship trusting, so that with all your experiences and problems that arise, the teenager goes to you, and not to the company of friends. And this will become possible when he is sure that he will meet support and understanding in the family, and not screams and humiliation.

Respect and love

Do not make fun of your child's mistakes and failures. Do not draw a parallel with other children if your baby is at a disadvantage compared to them. Do not rush to do something for him if he did not succeed the first time. Let him succeed on his own.

Parents should not look for instructions that will spell out how to teach their child to love and respect them. It simply doesn't exist. Children love their parents simply because they are their mom and dad. But they are respected for some qualities, deeds. The child will treat you with respect if he sees that you respect:

• those around him and himself
• his character and desires,
• its boundaries and personal territory.

Speaking about raising a child, parents rarely think about how to teach him to respect himself. Self-respect is not pride and, moreover, not arrogance. This is the realization that you are worthy good relationship to yourself that you are important to people close to you. At the heart of the formation of this feeling in the child is parental praise. Don't skimp on her.

Hello dear readers! Family harmony rests on two pillars: respect and trust. It is very important to instill both these qualities in children. But it is not always clear how to do this. Therefore, today I would like to talk with you about how to teach a child to respect parents, older generation and other people. By taking just a few right steps now, you can achieve huge results in the future.

Respect in the family

How does a child learn to eat with a fork and spoon at the table? Dad and mom show how to do it, train with him, show by example. Respect is the same skill that you need to teach your children. Just like that, a person will not be able to understand what it is and how to behave in relation to others.

Therefore, your task is to show the baby what respect is. To do this, you and your spouse must treat each other with respect. If you have problems in this matter, then my article "" will help you a lot. Let dad show how carefully and affectionately he treats mom. Then the son will adopt such behavior.

In addition, the relationship between parents builds a future model of behavior with the opposite sex in your baby. No wonder they say that girls are looking for a man who looks like their father, and guys are looking for a girl close to the prototype of their mother.

Therefore, if dad treats mom with care and tenderness, then the boy will try to behave in a similar way with young ladies. On the topic of a correct and healthy attitude to communication with the opposite sex, I have an excellent article that will help you cultivate the necessary qualities: "".

Try to show your humane attitude towards other people. To passers-by, sellers in the store, educators and teachers, relatives and so on. Your behavior will shape right attitude from the baby to others and to yourself.

You can teach a child to value himself by showing his significance and importance. As well as your own. Each person is unique, has individual abilities, can do what others do not know how. All this is necessary to realize the value of each person and oneself in this world.

Respect should apply to everyone, not just selectively to some people.

Moreover, respect should also extend to the work of others. The fact that mom cleans houses, cooks food and reads fairy tales before going to bed is not just her duty. This is work to be thanked for. How to teach this to a child?

Your relationship with children

From all of the above, it is clear that you can instill respect for people in a child by your own example. This is one way to teach your baby what you want.

There is another equally important way - to respect and love your children. The question is based on reciprocity. Therefore, if you do not respect the boundaries of his personal space, for example, then do not expect your son to respect your personal space. You, as an adult, show how to behave.

Confidence. Probably the most important point in education. Do you trust your baby? Can't stop worrying about him and sometimes even go crazy? Then the article "" is especially for you. Your excessive guardianship and care can only aggravate the matter. Give children space, freedom of choice. This, in turn, will help you form the right attitude towards responsibility.

After all, when a person knows how to take responsibility, is not afraid to answer for his actions and words, then he treats others with great respect. He understands how much effort this or that action is worth. When you appreciate the actions of your baby, then he will learn to respect the work of adults.

For example, if he made a craft, tried to help you, albeit not very skillfully, made a gift for you, put the toys back in place - evaluate his actions, show that this is important to you and you are grateful to the child for help. More yourself ask him to help and share household chores. Say "thank you" more often.

Know how to thank your children, then they will reciprocate.

What are you talking about

Another way to help your baby learn to respect his family is to get together more often, talk about all the relatives, tell stories from their past. How much do you know about your family tree? What do you know about your elders? In this matter, the book by Satenik Anastasyan will help you a lot. My family book».

The idea is for the baby to get to know his family better. Not only about mom and dad, but also about grandma, aunt, uncle, cousin or cousin. In a playful way, you write down information, stories, stick photos and just chat. You can diversify the book by adding a separate page about your kid's favorite teacher, for example. Or make a similar album for his friends.

Several Yet useful tips. Genuinely ask for the opinion of the children. For example, you want to make repairs in the apartment. Don't leave the kids indifferent. Find out what color they want to paint the walls in their room. How would they place the furniture in the living room and so on.

Or you want to go on vacation with the whole family. Don't make this decision just with your husband. Ask your child what he would like to do during the holidays.

Do not take his things without asking. If you just take his toy, phone or diary, you will thereby show your disrespect for his things, and therefore for him. Just ask him to give you what you want. Only in this way will you show the boundaries of personal and other people's space, which must also be respected.

If you are punishing a child for something, then explain in great detail what and why. Tell him what behavior you expected from him, what went wrong and how he can correct the situation in the future. Just putting it in a corner is the worst choice.

How does your relationship with your spouse look like? How do you communicate with other members of your family?

Be patient. Education is a long and difficult process. But your efforts will surely bear fruit. Best wishes to you!