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Today I will talk to you heart to heart. My next post, in which I will look into the very depths of our souls with you. I often ask myself this question - what exactly do you want? And I'm trying to find an answer to it. I will talk about this in this post.

Good day, my dears.

"What is it that you want?"

Have you asked yourself this question? ... or you can even put it another way: “How often do you ask yourself this question?”

Very often, the answer to such a seemingly simple question literally stuns many people with whom I communicate and perhaps ask this question.

Let's talk about this in more detail in this article and I will express my thoughts aloud on this matter here.

So - why the simple question "What do you want?" causes a slight smirk, and often simple surprise?

People stopped dreaming. Or should this statement be written with a question at the end of the sentence? Perhaps this is so. Personally, when, after several years of my training at the military school, I went to work for "uncle", I did not stop doing it.

To be honest, this probably led me to the fact that while still being, I, one by one, known reasons, even then I thought that I would become an entrepreneur, and not go to work.

Now it makes me smile, because what then seemed to me a dream is now my reality.

When I ask this question to those people with whom I communicate, to my friends, very often I hear short story about the fact that right now they have everything " not as we would like and what is possible in the future» they will start to think and do all the things that will eventually lead them to their dream or just conceived ideas.

So a month, a year, a life goes by...

There is another.

To the same exact question, they will most likely answer like this: “Oh, I would have used it earlier ... I was younger, I lived in another city ...” And so on, as they say, according to the list. Clinical case, I would say. Complete disbelief in your own strength and your dream.

Those. and here and there, I can still hear some kind of sensible and positive thought about what these or those people really want, but now they don’t want to believe in it.

Why is this happening?

To answer in one sentence here, in the context of this article, most likely will not work. And to be honest, I don't want to. Why mess with something that doesn't really give me pleasure. Everyone has their own "cockroaches" in the head.

I want to raise a slightly different idea with this article.

Do not betray your dream, follow it, focus only on it. Perhaps all of the above here sounds like the banal chatter of another blogger - theorist, perhaps, but I can say one thing: you deserve your dream, no matter how absurd it seems to you in this moment.

And therefore, to the question “What do I want”, I always firmly and clearly answer what I really want and passionately desire at the moment, and you know ....

HAPPENING!!!

After all, it’s not for nothing that they say: “We all come from childhood”! So be in it now!

How we spend one day is how we spend our whole life.

There are thoughts that make you think. Tal Ben Shahar's book is a treasure from this point of view: a collection of parables, wise thoughts and cases for every day. It is about how to learn to hear your heart and turn on your head. Here are some interesting passages about choice.

Come to terms with
who do you think you are
or
Be the one
who do you want to be

Each of us sees in ourselves two images: I-real and I-ideal - the image of the person we would like to be. The self-concept, as this concept is denoted in psychology, affects our thoughts, ideas about ourselves and the world, actions, and ultimately how we live life. And yet, despite the enormous influence of the self-image, it can still be changed.

A person is able to create new attitudes, more useful and correct, which over time will replace the previous ones.

Tal Ben Shahar wrote a list of eight statements that became his guide to a better life, and rereads it every morning, trying to feel what kind of person he would be if he lived up to these statements. And, of course, he makes efforts to live up to his ideal.

Interestingly, negative attitudes do not disappear at all. Not at all. However, over time, if you work hard and persistently with alternative attitudes, they lose their significance and their unlimited power - and we succumb to them much less.

be harsh
in relation to yourself
or
Treat yourself
with kindness and generosity

We have all heard this rule: do not do to another what you would not want for yourself. Not everyone noticed that we treat ourselves well a priori, although in reality this is not always the case. Or rather, it is almost always not so: we find something to reproach ourselves for and blame ourselves for. We are often far less forgiving and less generous to ourselves than to others. Why do we treat ourselves worse than other people?

Come to think of it, we don't punish our friends every time they're not as good at something as we'd like. We are not so strict with our children when they make a mistake - on the contrary, we try to comfort and support them.

In fact, we are quite capable of treating ourselves with the same compassion. Once, a Mind and Life conference was held in India, which brought together Western neuroscientists, as well as well-known Buddhist scientists and practitioners, including the Dalai Lama himself. One of the conversations revolved around the theme of compassion.

The Tibetans were very surprised to learn that in the West the concept of compassion only applies to other people - that is, it is an altruistic emotion. The Dalai Lama pointed out that the Tibetan word "tseva", meaning "compassion" or "care", can refer not only to others, but also to oneself. Love for yourself and love for people are inseparable, they are two sides of the same coin.

The time has come to return what was lost - to restore the self-evident, natural right of a person to love himself. Can you?..

Run on the last
out of breath
or
Fill tanks promptly

Our life is a series of devastation and replenishment of energy reserves. For example, we use the energy resources of the body all day long, and then restore them during sleep. Or we spend calories, and then we eat to make up for the resulting deficiency. The same emptying-replenishing cycle can be traced in our emotional and spiritual lives as well.

Some things help us relax and recharge our batteries. There is a mass good options- meet friends, listen to your favorite songs or draw, go on vacation. And there are cases and situations that deplete our energy - reduce our reserves. For example, stress, anger or work without breaks and rest.

There is such a thing as a niche for energy recovery. What this niche will be depends on us.

It helps an open person, an extrovert, to go to a party and make a couple (dozens) of new acquaintances. An introvert wants to be in silence and read a book. Whatever it is, it's important to reboot. And if we do not understand in time that we need to replenish energy reserves, this will be reflected on the physical level - in the form of somatic disorders.

What renews your energy? What is your recovery niche? Refuel tanks, revive, upgrade, restock!

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In the section on the question what do you want? given by the author Unknown The best answer is What do you want? How often in life we ​​do not notice, That day after day we go the same way: We meet the same people, Resignedly at 6-30 we get up. Work-home, work-home, work… The rest is just a dream. “If I had money, I would not be someone And I would be happy. But where can you get them? - One man thought so for years, - Oh, I would have a house, a beautiful wife! » When we cannot do something in life ourselves - We dream, we dream, as if in reality. And so he asked questions for a long time: “Well, why do others have it? Houses, apartments, women, wheels! I want too! No worse than the rest! That, once, when he was walking at night, A gray-haired Wizard approached him: “I will help, tell me what you want? Ask, I will give, everything will be fine! " "Blimey. But does that happen? No matter what you ask, and you will fulfill everything? “Well, I thought, asks - it means he knows, Tell me, tell me all your dreams.” “Well, if so, then my desires: A luxurious house, a beautiful wife, To make her favorite climbing, So that the egg-cup is always full! » «Your desires are clear to me, Lie down, sleep, and tomorrow - on a new path! Let the awakening be pleasant, And, if you can, forget about me ... " Morning came, he woke up: "God!!! » A luxurious house, a beautiful wife, Well, Jennifer Lopez, as it is, looks like, The little egg is right there and full and full! “I'll go, I'll spend a hundred or two hundred bucks, Or maybe a million at once? But no matter how much he tried to spend a day, he did not notice the end of all the money. A day passed, followed by another and a third, But nothing changed in life. All the same house, wife, but this money. “Where is happiness? How can I achieve it? He asked once, but there was no answer. He again began to look for the Wizard: “Do you know the answer to this problem? Tell me, tell me, what else do you want? I have everything, you know - I tried myself. But there is no happiness. I am alone in the house. The wife is not happy. My finances? Yes, finances, is that the point? Tell me, Wizard, what's wrong with me? " "You want to know? So listen and pay attention: You wanted a house with beautiful wife You wanted money - well, get it! You didn’t ask for warmth, comfort in the house, And you didn’t ask for love from your wife, You asked for a lot of money for some reason, But without the freedom that they could give. Warmth, comfort, love and understanding, Freedom, strength, joy of being, Answers to the questions of the universe - And this, perhaps, is your destiny! “I understood what my task is now, I want everything! When will you give it to me? "Well, since you understand, then let's go differently - Go and do it. You will create everything yourself! » The Wizard is gone. House, wife and money Gone after him, he was left alone. But now he knew, and was sure of it, What he wanted. Goals sir!

Then the door handle twitched and someone knocked insistently. The guys looked at each other. The brunet deftly got out of Taehyung's arms, straightened his jacket, went to the door and clicked the lock.
- Excuse me, sir, - the guy smiled benevolently. - The door slammed itself, apparently the lock is not working.
- I'll tell you to find a master and fix it, - a middle-aged man with a small bald patch was standing at the door.
After that, the man went inside, and the brunette left the toilet, finally winking slyly at Tae.
Taehyung quickly recovered and hurried to leave this place as well. When he returned to the hall, the presentation had already ended, and everyone was just talking. Tae decided to find Song Naeun, but it was better, in his opinion, to just get out of here. Soon he found his girlfriend in the crowd, who was talking with a friend.
- Oh, Taehyung. Where did you go during the presentation? - asked Naeun
-Yes, it was necessary to move away, - Tae smiled at the girl and put his arm around her waist.
At that moment, Mr. Kim approached them with some man, most likely this is his next partner, who, of course, is very important and they need to get to know each other.
- Taehyung, it's good that you're still here. I wanted to introduce you to Mr. Jeong. Now he is my partner, tomorrow we sign the last contract
- Hello, Mr. Chong. Nice to meet you, - Tae pretended to be a very diligent boy.
“Hello, Taehyung,” the man smiled slightly. After that, Tae wanted to fall through the ground, or not be born at all, because the same brunette approached them, and not alone, but accompanied by some girl, apparently his girls. - Oh, meet me, this is my son.
"Jungkook," the boy held out his hand for a welcoming handshake.
"Taehyung," Taehyung held out his hand.
“Taehyung, can you introduce your companion?” Mr. Jeong said.
-Oh sure. This is Song Naeun, - the girl smiled sweetly.
“Jungkook, now it’s your turn,” Taehyung’s father took the initiative this time.
“Yes, this is my girlfriend, Yoon Bo Mi,” and she smiled just as sweetly as Naeun. To be honest, she really looked very nice and made a good impression. But Taehyung paid all his attention to Jungkook, now he knew his name. He never took his eyes off him throughout the conversation.
“I hope you two become friends,” Taehyung’s dad said.
- Oh, of course, Mr. Kim. I have no doubt, - having said this, Jungkook looked straight at Tae, a slight smile flaunted on his lips, but it seemed to Taehyung some kind of malicious.
After that, Mr. Kim and Mr. Chong left, leaving the young people alone.
After a few minutes of conversation, the girls found common ground and separated from their boyfriends a bit. Taehyung has been storming his brain all this time. Why did he get into all this? What got into him anyway? He almost fucked some guy in the toilet. It's not like he's gay. Or what?
“What are you thinking about?” Jungkook’s voice pulled Taehyung out of his thoughts.
"It doesn't matter," Tae said shortly.
“Did you really think about what was in the toilet?” Jeon arched one eyebrow. Tae didn't even know what to say. Therefore, now he was greatly helped by his ability to translate topics.
“Our fathers became partners, right?” Jungkook nodded in agreement. “Which means that we will see each other often.” They want to befriend us anyway.
- Well, in principle, I do not even mind. You are different from all of them, - Guk glanced around the people present in the hall. - Therefore, I do not mind getting to know you better.
- So in the toilet it was an attempt to get acquainted closer?- Taehyung said with a smirk.
- Well, what if so? Are you against? Jungkook glared at Tae.
“Actually, no,” Taehyung admitted honestly. - You are different from all these people too, I like it. I did not expect to find such people here.
- Then ... Maybe we'll run away from here? - Hook said conspiratorially.
- And what about them? - Te glanced at their beautiful companions.
“I think they won’t be very upset,” after that, Jungkook, taking Taehyung by the wrist, went to the exit from the hall.

* a few hours later *
The guys sat on the roof of the building where the event was held and enjoyed the beautiful view of Seoul at night, drinking a bottle of whiskey for two.
“You never answered,” Jungkook said as he sipped from the bottle and handed it to Taehyung.
- What did I not answer? - taking a bottle, the guy asked.
- You didn't answer: what do you want?
“I think you already understood what I wanted,” Taehyung moved closer to the guy.
- Yes? So you just wanted to fuck me in the toilet? - Guk said in an offended tone, turning to face TaeTae.
- Not. I just wanted you, - Taehyung said it almost to the very lips of the guy.
“Is this different?” the guy asked, arching an eyebrow and not taking his eyes off the guy’s lips.
- Of course. I want you. I want you to always be there, - after that, Tae covered the guy's lips with his own.

~ End ~
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