The editorial office of AiF received a letter from a frustrated 35-year-old Irene N. from Nizhny Novgorod: “Amazing! Men themselves persuade a woman to have sex almost on the first date, saying: “We are adults, it will end with this anyway”, “Let's not think in standards”, “We are so drawn to each other, in life and there is so little good, why deprive yourself of joy?

And then they shed after the first night! And my friend, having achieved intimacy from me, now declares: “If you are with me like that, it means that you go to bed with everyone, having barely met!” Why was he in such a hurry to have sex with me then?!”

Despite the seeming frivolity of the question for many couples, he nevertheless became a stumbling block.

- A whole chapter in my book is devoted to the inconsistency of male desires! - says "aif" psychologist Anetta Orlova. - Most representatives of the stronger sex believe that they have a clear image of the ideal woman they are looking for in their head. But in fact, these are ... two images! The first ideal: a virtuous keeper of the hearth, a caring mother, a woman with a lot of moral values ​​who takes care of herself. When a man meets such a woman, it would seem that he should marry her as soon as possible! But ah! He quickly gets bored with such a lady. Because it turns out that another ideal woman "lives" in the man's head! This is a priestess of love, bright and sexy. Which is devoid of complexes, is in harmony with its body, is ready to give love and is open to sexual pleasures and experiments.

In the depths of his soul, a man dreams of meeting one that combines both holiness and depravity. Remember the saying: Ideal woman: in bed - a prostitute, in the kitchen - a hostess, in society - a lady. And we, knowing these conflicting desires of a man, need to learn how to competently maneuver between them. For one thing, don't give up too quickly. On the other hand - do not overdo it, do not overdo the man. Because sex is still not an end in itself, not a prize, but one of the many ways in which adult men and women interact.

Pay off... with yourself?

So, what should the ladies do when the representatives of the stronger sex behave with them in the way that the reader Irina described ?!

When a man just meets an attractive woman, his natural mechanism immediately works: to get in touch with her as soon as possible, to master, to know completely. During this period, he absolutely sincerely believes: physical intimacy is exactly what he needs now! He does not think then "leave" the woman and "accused of debauchery."

But, if almost at the second meeting he satisfies a deep need for rapprochement, he has doubts: “Somehow everything turned out too quickly ...” And he even experiences some disappointment: civilization is civilization, but no one canceled the hunter's instinct .. .

Today, the so-called “morning syndrome” is widespread: two practically strangers wake up in bed after a stormy night and, looking at each other, experience not yesterday's passion, but ... some kind of awkwardness. In terms of numbers, on a 10-point scale, their physical closeness has already reached 10, and emotional closeness - only 2-3 points. In such cases, it is difficult for a man to cope with embarrassment and he wants to run away. Therefore, after sex, a woman does not need to call first, and even more so blame him for "getting his own and gone." By doing this, you will not only not help the cause, but will further exacerbate men's doubts about continuing the relationship with you. Remember: if he took a break, your pressure can push him even more. But, if you already decide to call, communicate without any claims and anguish.

- It is desirable that a man invest something in a woman before he gets sex,- says Anetta Orlova. - In the biological environment, everything is clear: for a young male to receive the location of the female, he must bring her food. In our case, investments are not monetary investments, but emotional, temporary ones. A man should feel that he is conquering a woman.

By the way, it's a big problem when a girl enters into sexual relations not because she wants a man, but because she is uncomfortable to refuse. It seems to many that if a man invited her to a restaurant, she should pay with something. This is complete nonsense. And women also go for quick sex for fear of losing a fan. Hearing "I want you! Why postpone?”, the woman wants to please the man so that he does not go to another. This is also complete nonsense - you need to have sex when BOTH want it.

■ Don't take the masculine words "we like each other so much, why put it off" so literally. In fact, by offering sex, he doesn't count on it at all!

- Masculinity and sexuality are closely related, according to the representatives of the stronger sex, - says Anetta Orlova. - A man believes that if he goes on a date with a woman, it is simply his gallant duty to demonstrate that he wants intimacy. This rule is sacred in all cultures. So the man seems to say: “I want and I can. You're awesome, I like it." At the same time, a man, hinting at a woman about sex on a first date, does not at all think that he must get it today. He persuades just in case, suddenly it will work out. No - no big deal either.

■ Use improvised and often funny methods to prolong the courtship period.

- The easiest and, in addition, a win-win way is to make sure that under no circumstances will you yourself want to sleep with him says the psychologist. - How? For example, put on simple and diverse (from different sets) underwear! Or trousers, and under them - torn tights ... In such a situation, no self-respecting woman, even at the peak of arousal, would never allow physical intimacy, so as not to lose face. Or, going on a first date, you need to deliberately limit the time, they say, you have to go somewhere later. It is desirable to say something pleasant for male ears. Not "I'm going to pull out a tooth," but "on Fridays I have classes - belly dancing." Do not agree to "come for a minute to visit." Answer with humor: “Listen, we are adults and we understand what it means to “drink tea”. I like you, but I need time to get to know you."

And the last thing: if you did not follow all these recommendations and nevertheless rushed into the abyss of passion, then please, relax! No need to say in the middle of the process: "I'm not like that." Have fun. Men appreciate such women. ( See ideal #2.) Well, we'll talk about sexual experiments in one of the following issues.

Despite the fact that men unanimously repeat that they cannot understand women in any way, it is still not so easy to understand them themselves. After all, the psychology of men is different from the psychology of women, and as D. Grace rightly said: “women and men are like two different galaxies: they are like Venus and Mars.”

No matter how it is in everyday life, work and in simple interactions with each other, understanding men is a vital thing. And, for this reason, in this article we will talk about such an important topic as understanding a man.

Don't give up

Often women simply give up trying to understand their men, thinking that this is an impossible thing. Many, because of the great resentment accumulated over the years, do not even try to figure out why the guy did exactly that, why he said this and the like. In fact, in the relationship between the two sexes there is a strategy and understanding mechanisms that need to be understood. In order for these mechanisms to start working, you need to act correctly. But first of all, it is necessary to know these mechanisms, and indeed the psychology of men.

After you understand the way of thinking and psychology of men, you will see how in some magical way your relationship changes for the better.

A real woman does not ignore the axioms and truths that nature itself has laid in men.
So, if you have tried many times to understand your man, but all your attempts have failed, then do not give up. Not everything is lost, it is possible and possible to understand a man. And that is exactly what we will do.

Five basic facts about the psychology of men

In such a difficult and important matter as understanding a man and his inner world, one cannot do without understanding important facts.

A woman has a very strong influence on a man - despite the fact that since childhood we have been tortured with the myth that the leader in a relationship is a man, this is far from being the case. Since ancient times, it was simply believed that since a man is the breadwinner and breadwinner in the family, then the "power" in the family and in relationships is also in his hands.

Yes, men are the stronger sex, they are used to fighting, competing and showing their "courage" in this way. However, their courage fades and they become vulnerable when it comes to relationships with a woman. And the whole secret is that men do not have an innate ability to find the right approach to the weaker sex. And therefore, it is much easier for men to conduct difficult negotiations, demand a raise from the boss, take big risks and accomplish feats: after all, all this is in their genes.

However, when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex, they have a fear: what if I turn out to be insolvent and cannot cope. That is why the strength and competence of a woman is that she learns how to properly motivate her man. In fact, in most cases, women make one big mistake: they start helping a man in finding prey. And this, in turn, gradually "decreases" the man in the man.

So if you want your guy to achieve success, become more successful, earn more, then you need to properly motivate him, remembering how much you influence him. Remember, every man wants his woman to be confident in his strength and courage, so that he feels on a horse. So create this atmosphere for him, motivate him. And in this case, he will do everything, even more than what you might think.

The second indisputable fact is that: a man loves when a woman takes the lead - do you still feel like a princess should sit in a tower and wait for a brave prince to come and free her? Then it is clear why you are still alone or with the wrong prince.

No matter how much they say: "The first step should be taken by a man," remember, this is not true. After all, as already mentioned above, it is much easier for men to enter into a competition, even into a fight with a man, than to start an acquaintance with a woman, since in a competition with another man he does not have such a great fear of being a loser. Why? Yes, because men are practical: they must create a specific plan and begin its implementation. And even a relationship with the fair sex is a strict plan for them, both dating and family issues and domestic problems.

And men perceive women as a fortress, and you still need to find an approach to it, you need to interest a woman. That is why, when saying "the first step", a man understands those actions that are aimed at arousing a woman's interest. At the same time, keep in mind that when getting to know a woman, men always have a great fear of jeopardizing their courage by being rejected by a woman.

That is why, you need to meet him halfway: a simple smile or a friendly greeting will help him in a difficult choice: is it necessary to take risks and come up to her?

I will tell you one more secret: a man is already “in love” in absentia with the one who shows her interest in him. It follows from this: if you met a man and you liked him, then smile! It's a tool that works wonders, so why not use it?

1. A man acts with a woman exactly as the woman herself allows him - men know how to use and use. And if a woman turns out to be weak, then she may be trapped. If you feel that a man is only spending time with you until he finds another, then it's time to end this relationship. Remember, you need to respect yourself. The problem is that guys can not quite understand the difference between the relationship "I'm fine with this girl" and "We have a relationship with her and we are going to start a family." That is why, if the relationship with your boyfriend does not go to long-term plans, then you need to talk to him about it. Remember, the man himself will not do this, so sometimes you need to find the strength in yourself and put an end to it.
2. Jealousy in men in the blood - that's why, dear women, do not provoke his jealousy. It seems to many that this will bring them closer, however, in reality, this can lead to the opposite effect. We have already said that competition is the essence of male nature. And for a real man, it’s just torture to think that someone has appeared who is somehow better than him: prettier, smarter, richer (there are many options). Therefore, do not use this method, not every man can go through this torture.
3. And the last, most important fact: in men, their "Ego" is sacred. The way to a man's heart is not through his stomach, but through his own ego. He chooses the woman who believes in him unconditionally.
   No wonder they say that behind each successful man costs Strong woman. If you look at history, you can find a million examples of how a woman, believing in the idea of ​​her husband, showing patience, eventually became the wives of successful and famous husbands. Nothing special can be added here. Remember that no matter how strong your man is, he needs your support. Every woman can "make" her man the best in the whole world. Hence the conclusion, if your man is not so successful, then this is your fault. The woman who can be a friend to her man and stay true to him and his ideas will win. All this is bearing fruit.

These are the basic facts that need to be considered by those who are trying to understand a man. As you can see, it's not that difficult. The main thing is to understand the main "mechanism".

Important nuances or something in secret

In order to understand a man, a woman needs to understand and accept an important fact: every man (if everything is in order and he is a normal man) can cope with direct male duties on his own. This means that a man does not need practical advice regarding his finances or how he would like to spend his time. Also, some women for some reason think that they need to be reminded of their obligations regarding family and wife.

It is important to understand that your man already has a mother, he does not need a second mother. And in order to achieve success and prosperity, he needs a faithful woman who will sincerely believe in him, take care of him. What does a man need? The answer to this question is very simple: a man needs a woman who is on his side, no matter what.

It's difficult? Yes, because often a woman loses patience, can no longer believe, and this only spoils everything. After all, scandals and cries cannot "push" a man to exploits.

It must be remembered that a man is looking for a source of motivation in a woman. So become for him an inexhaustible source that will push him and give him self-confidence. This is priceless for a man.

And one more important point A: This is trust. If you have chosen this man, then you need to trust him. Imagine, you get into a taxi and start telling the taxi driver which pedal to press, how to drive, where to turn and all that. Of course not, you just "pay him", that is, motivate him and trust, believing that he can handle it himself. Also with your chosen one, all you need is to motivate him and trust him.

Conclusion

Not knowing and not understanding a man, women make many mistakes. Keep in mind, games of jealousy, dishonesty, unethical methods that supposedly help keep a man will not help.

Why are there so many divorces in the world today? And all because a woman cannot understand what a man needs, cannot become for him a “refuge” that he needs so much. When a woman believes in a man, it affects him in a magical way. Try it and you won't go wrong.

Above are those life truths that actually "work." Apply the above truths in your life, in your relationships, and very soon you will see how your relationship changes.

Once you know the basic facts about men, it will be much easier to understand them.

Be happy, take care of yourself and your loved ones.

Difference by gender is not the only aspect that distinguishes women from men. In applications for divorce by ladies, there is usually a stereotypical justification for the problem - a mismatch of characters. Behind the wording lies a mass of mutual reproaches that neither side seeks to resolve. Claims template, with the exception of 1-2 points. It turns out that male model behavior leads to the same result.

In addition to habits formed consciously, there are many factors that are “responsible” for a person’s behavior. These are energy, psychotype, genes, reflexes, social beliefs. Therefore, you should not blame him for all the sins, but study the aspects that manipulate the personality on a subconscious level.

Black and white yin-yang

The masculine energy is directed outward, it encourages creation, the materialization of ideas. This is:

• intelligence;
• concentration;
• logics;
• head.

Hence the decisiveness, directness, stubbornness, strength. They are formed in the archetype by the energy of aggression and power. Along with the basic instincts, the listed qualities in a veiled or open form appear in everyday life. How to understand a man when gentlemen are cynical and selfish, because they are aware of their natural superiority, and only at first they try to “look decent”.

The topic of gender equality is best left alone, since in 95% of the couple the stronger sex dominates. Although often individuals are not examples for relationships. If a lady immediately accepts the rules of his game, even if she notes unpleasant moments, she should not count on the fact that they will be able to correct them in the future, because. internally, she already obeyed. Without motivation from the person, external results are only temporary.

Feminine

It is focused on the acceptance of cosmic energy, while men are fed by streams coming from the earth. Despite the ability to accept and high sensitivity, they do not know how to understand a man and male psychology. Ladies have:

• creativity and emotions;
• intuition;
• natural wisdom.

There are two types of energy in each of us, but only when they are balanced do people have harmony in relationships, dreams come true and. Unrealized opposite flows form unpleasant situations.

Love, ideas are creativity, but they cannot be realized without a dynamic yin. Quite the contrary, the situation will be repeated in a man if business or relationships are based on cold calculation in the absence of yang.

Differences in male psychology

When comparing psychological aspects men are different:

• relationship expectations;
• methods of raising children;
• leadership style and problem solving techniques;
• at the same time less dependence on someone else's opinion;
• more developed volitional qualities, high self-esteem with low self-control;
• low levels of shame, conscientiousness, but there is a sense of guilt;
• hypertrophied desire for dominance, possessiveness;
• low stress resistance, vulnerability;
• sexual irresponsibility.

How to understand a man: the secrets of communicating with him

Males have many fears. They feel insecure in front of a woman, although they see her as an object of desire. This feeling is formed in the archetype and is explained by the fact that she is able to give and take life. At the same time, they are afraid not to satisfy the partner and the prospects for potency. Impatience for other people's opinions, recognition by others of their weaknesses forces them to dominate in a couple and society in order to control processes as much as possible.

How to understand a man and male psychology, if an unconscious comparison of potential brides with their mother leads to the choice of a spouse who is similar in appearance or character to her. The expectations associated with these are often not justified, and it appears.

Another cause of misunderstanding is the inconsistency of desires and choices. A weak man chooses a companion with character. To feel comfortable, he needs to show brute force, force him to see a personality through violence, openly demonstrate male chauvinism. A woman reads information about a partner on the fly, and the absence of a strong rod is associated with her loss of support. Then the tactics of behavior involuntarily change, because. she is on an unconscious level ready to cede leadership to him, and his weaknesses are annoying.

How to learn to understand a man

Before blaming your partner, you should:

• try to understand the motives of his behavior;
• change tactics in communication;
• do not make unfounded claims;

Remove annoying factors.

1. In his presence, it is better to forget about the phone, social networks, long conversations with a friend.
2. Refuse to encroach on personal space.
3. Do not provoke questions with an answer that you do not want to hear.
4. Tears are blackmail. They block the psyche. Over time, immunity is developed, and apart from annoyance, a person experiences nothing.
5. Express yourself without hints. The rational mindset brushes aside minor information, trying to concentrate on the main thing. With such a presentation of the material, the interlocutor only gets annoyed.

Even if the relationship is spoiled, with mutual desire, contradictions can be resolved. First you need to restore emotional contact. A partner needs your sincere interest in business, support. A delicate attitude will allow you to pick up the "key" to your loved one and save the relationship.

✅ How can you realize that exactly THAT MAN appeared in your life, which is so necessary, with whom you will feel real woman?

The calm, measured life of any, the most accomplished, independent woman, is filled with new bright colors when she appears in her. that's the man. Any free woman dreams of meeting the one with whom it will be wonderful like never before, not at all like before.

How to determine that your man?

However, as a rule, many have no idea how to recognize it. When seeking advice from specialists of various kinds, from a psychologist to an astrologer, many girls say something like this:

“I have a boyfriend, but it seems to me that this is not my prince. When will HE appear according to my horoscope?” To the natural question: “How do you recognize your man, what should happen to you?”, They usually answer: “I will feel, some kind of internal click will tell me.”

Perhaps the readers of this article think so too.

However, this is not true. Just the same, it clicks and sticks only when a man appears with whom you fall in love at first sight. It blows the roof so that it is impossible to pass by. One gets the impression that it is HE, you felt it. The trouble is, however, that most women are quickly disappointed after such a storm of emotions. It turns out that this is not HE at all, and then it becomes very painful from such a meeting!

How can you realize that exactly the man who is so necessary has appeared in your life, with whom you will feel like a real woman? This is not to be missed!

We must start with the fact that all men appear in our lives with you for a reason.. They are very useful, but each comes with its own purpose. To make it clearer to readers, we will distinguish three groups.

1. Teacher

Such partners appear to a woman to teach her something, but disappear as soon as the lesson is completed. Teachers are all: picky and kind, gentle and evil, destroying your life or causing pity. Such men develop feminine qualities in you, increase your self-esteem, at the same time they teach a lesson- how to build a relationship with your soulmate.

There may be one teacher, or there may be several, but the lesson is the same. Stubborn women can get him as a legal husband or a permanent lover on long term. However, as soon as a woman learns the lesson taught, such a man leaves her. All conditions for divorce have been created. Since now a completely different man should come to a woman - study is over, real life begins.

2. Random travel companion

It happens that a woman has a relationship with a man due to a fatal set of circumstances.. Here, either she gives him a lot, or her man puts a lot of emotions and strong feelings into the relationship. But the woman does not feel love for him, or at least just warmth.. It happens that a couple cannot decide to break up because circumstances do not let them go from each other. But as soon as they fill up with such relationships, exchange a certain amount of energy, a divorce occurs.

One of our clients was proud of her excellent relationship with her lawful spouse. She was the keeper of the family hearth, and he gave her vitality and faith in yourself. But then the day came when they talked heart to heart and realized that nothing was holding them together.

There was only some gratitude for the calm and quite happy years living together. There is nothing more. They decided to leave, and after a short time both found new partners. They formed wonderful couples, which gave a powerful further development. They even made friends with their families and go on vacation together. This happens sometimes, but the best option development of events.

Much more often it happens that a woman seems to get stuck on a certain man, although he is basically indifferent to her. She considers him to be the very gift of fate, puts all her energy into him and literally prays for him. The best solution in such a situation is to love from afar. You may just want everything best man but never get close to him. Generally speaking, this is a big topic for a separate article, now we will not dwell on it.

3. A man of a lifetime

Now just the group that interests us. It is with men for life that you need to build a family. They give a lot to a woman, fill her life with happiness, with them a woman develops and flourishes. It's about about revealing the feminine nature. Some of us just need to go through both of the previous options for men in order to be ready to start a family.

Often a woman has immature family relationships just for the reason that she did not dare to first pass the life lessons prescribed for her, and got married before the necessary moment. A woman simply did not wait for her man, and in this case she agrees to at least some life partner or continues to live in illusions, waiting for a prince on a white horse.

It is important to understand that a worthy partner will appear only when you have either gone through the school of life in practice or have been brought up very well.

Relationships with men for life, in principle, can be quite complex or even incomprehensible, but there are a number of factors that demonstrate to us that this man is, in fact, needed at the moment. It is he who will bring good to the woman.

Not necessarily such a relationship will last until the end of life, but these factors absolutely show that this partner appeared on your life path for a reason.

How to determine that your man?

To begin with, let's clarify. The happiest and most accomplished female visitors of ours, who have created relationships with the most worthy partners, did not feel anything at the first meeting. They did not have any heavenly illumination, and it did not become a crazy love.

Relations developed gradually, without any madness and haste., so often shown in popular films.

It's safe with him

The first sign that shows that you need this man is security.. Next to him you feel completely protected. This is the most important thing in a woman's life. If such a feeling does not arise, then it is not worth going through life with such a companion.. At the same time, your man does not have to have impressive muscles and master the techniques of karate. But it is with him that you will be safe, you will always be sure that he will not let you offend, no matter what happens.

It will not be a noble knight of our time, a representative of a well-known family in the city. You can say more, he himself may have a dangerous job, but with him next to you you will not have to worry about your own safety, as he will take it into his own hands. It would seem that we are not on the front line and do not sleep with weapons at our side, what threatens us? But this is the essence of female nature, we need a strong person who can protect future children.. He will not be afraid to give birth, because in any situation he can find protection. This is the essence of all women on the planet - the desire to feel completely safe.

Most men get annoyed when their women are simply seduced by big money and social significance, but they cannot be blamed for this. In this way, a woman tries to get security, if she cannot rely on her half. She's looking for the monetary value of this because material well-being and power is also able to protect.

If you are already in a relationship, think carefully and answer yourself - are you safe with him? If so, then a woman can afford to relax and reveal her natural feminine qualities. This is fervor and a pretty smile, girlish carelessness and complete immediacy. We think that most of our readers have experienced similar feelings.

you open up

HE will help you to reveal your feminine qualities, or rather, even they will begin to reveal themselves. If that man is next to you, then you will learn how to cook deliciously, begin to follow the latest fashion and, in general, your appearance. Your natural feminine qualities will begin to appear - tenderness, softness, warmth.

Strange desires will arise, for example, to give him a massage that you have never done before. You will look forward to him from work and meet him at the doorstep, even if you were previously completely independent and managed your own time. And all this, oddly enough, happens naturally, without any effort on oneself. You just stop recognizing yourself.

Now there are many trainings designed to help a woman in family life, teach management skills household, parenting and so on. But with him, all this wakes up by itself, fortunately, the missing knowledge can be gleaned from the Internet. The main thing is that you want to be a worthy companion for this man. By the way, they also have about the same thing next to their beloved woman. The best are included masculine qualities, strength, enterprise, desire to earn money for his family.

Summarize. Answer yourself, how much have your feminine qualities flourished with the advent of a new life partner? Do you want to take care of him like a woman?

You pay more attention to your appearance

Do you want to wear fashionable clothes and sexy lingerie underneath. You began to carefully study cosmetic novelties. On the Internet, you are primarily interested in sites related to female beauty. In stores for a long time you look at the counters with various trinkets and jewelry. Your look has become happy and mysterious. And all this was noticed by your relatives and colleagues. This means that your man awakened in you the desire to be beautiful. This is one of the main female instincts.

An alarming sign should be considered a desire to relax.“He’s already mine anyway, why do I need regular makeup and a strict diet now?” If such thoughts arise in a relationship with a partner, this is a very bad sign, this will not lead to good. Do you want to put on something more comfortable at home, for example, sweatpants, style your hair somehow and walk around in front of him like that? Love me the way I am. This means that your man does not awaken your femininity, the desire to remain beautiful forever.

Now, if you, while waiting for your man, want to take a bath, smear yourself with fragrant cream in order to turn into the most delicious woman in the world, then this man is yours. Moreover, all these things happen absolutely naturally, without any effort on oneself.

At some point, you will want to become better, acquire completely new skills and qualities. This does not mean at all that you want to become good girl only for his sake, to become worthy of his love.

This man will awaken your inner energy, you will have a desire to explore completely new areas of activity for yourself. This applies not only to some intimate moments, but to anything. Some kind of internal transformation takes place with you, completely new abilities open up. All this is thanks to him.

Mental trauma is healed

Real loving man able to remove all memories associated with telegonia. YOUR man fills your inner space with his own energy. All past relationships fade into the background. Sometimes, it seems that they did not exist at all before him. The memories remain, but you catch yourself thinking that all this happened somewhere in another life. Maybe not even with you. Some past attachments, emotional traumas are treated by the acceptance and boundless love of this man, who is always ready to take care of you.

In addition, an internal transformation is launched. You want to forgive all past grievances, even if there were a lot of them throughout your life. You no longer need this heavy load and you let it go. internal state loving woman filled with gratitude and warmth. By the way, male love is also capable of much.

you love yourself

If a man is ready to devote himself to a woman, some time passes, and she begins to see herself with different eyes. You are loved, which means you are beautiful and priceless. Psychological rehabilitation takes place, self-esteem grows. The beloved woman is revealed in a completely new, extraordinary light.

Such state of mind beneficial effect on your well-being. You almost always good mood and the people around you notice it. Any painful symptoms that haunted you last years appear less and less frequently. Happy woman very rarely gets sick.

sexual contact

With the man you love, your sexual relationship is no longer just some body movements. In bed there is a strong emotional exchange. You feel sexual contact not only in the appropriate place, but also in the very heart. It is not necessary that intimacy with him should be accompanied by some kind of enchanting orgasms. You should not die of pleasure at such moments. At the same time, YOUR man may not be a fantastic lover at all. However, regardless of the technique of such sex, after its completion you will feel great. You become feminine and happy, and the brain turns off completely.

As for some sophisticated technique at the moment of intimacy, this is not difficult to learn. It must be said that in a relationship, looseness and passion come gradually.

Partners who are very kind to each other, at first even hesitate to show excessive passion, and do not talk about any of their preferences for a long time. This is also seen in men. In relation to the woman he loves, he does not allow any liberties that he considered normal in bed with an ordinary sexual partner.

A man in love is very careful about his beloved. At the same time, a woman, feeling such respect, gradually opens up in bed. It doesn't matter how rich her sexual experience is. She can be quite an experienced lover, but at first even shy of her desires.

You should not focus on the technique of your beloved man. Do not try to compare how good he is in bed, if there is someone to compare with from a past relationship. Listen to your feelings during and after the contact. This moment is the most important.

Are you ready to follow him?

A very significant factor for a woman who decides to connect her fate with this man. You want to follow him, not because female share and so it has been from time immemorial. You really want this. You trust him so much that you are ready to drop everything and go to the ends of the world. If only with him.

But if the path chosen by a man seems doubtful to you and does not inspire unconditional trust, then this is a bad sign. It is worth thinking about the correctness of your choice. A woman is able to rediscover herself only by fully trusting her beloved man. Only in this case, all her female power is revealed, capable of working miracles.

Do you want to have a child for him?

This is the most important of all factors that determine exactly the man you need. You want to give birth to him not because of the age that has already come, or simply based on healthy logic. No. This desire comes from within, don't need no reason. Just the thought of future children with this man makes you incredibly happy. You want to continue his family, educate and love his children!

findings

Of course, not all of the listed signs of your man appear at the same time. They can appear gradually, passing the baton to one another. Think about your current relationship. They can become full-fledged only if you have gone through all your lessons and distributed the debts presented by fate.

When communicating with a man, listen to your feelings that arise when he is around.. If you are inspired by his ideas, you feel peace and warmth - this will bring good results.

But violent emotions and a powerful attraction, ending in euphoria from meeting him, do not bode well. True love comes imperceptibly, like a timid light that is born in your heart. Gradually, it grows, from which it becomes warmer not only around you, but also in the whole universe.

Do not try to wait for an insight, an inner click, having met a new man. Feel safe and light next to him. We wish our dear readers true, boundless love!published

P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness - we are togetherwe are changing the world! © econet

Most often between a man and a woman there is a misunderstanding. The female brain cannot perceive some information submitted by the husband. This leads to very deplorable consequences: quarrels, misunderstandings, fights, partings, divorces. How to understand a man and determine his behavior in a given situation? Will be discussed below.

How to understand what a man loves

Since the representatives of the stronger sex are not accustomed to chatting for hours about this and that, then, as a result, they are more silent in general. By the way, they are generally laconic. But if a young man fell in love, then it is easy enough to determine. First, it changes in appearance. Begins to take care of himself, use perfume. This is for the conquest of women. Those. preparation for competition.

They can also provide non-verbal cues.

1. He begins to pay too much attention to the girl. Rather, in order to be close to the adored.
2. Improving your behavior. Most likely, for praise, brag.
3. Lover's power of attorney. A man more and more often can only talk with his beloved, for the rest he seems like an angel.
4. Eternal praise beloved. A man in love is ready to praise his soul mate for hours, which causes a storm of positive stories for the second.
5. Jealousy. The male is a hunter by nature. Therefore, he does not intend to share a soul mate with anyone. In some cases, it comes to psychosis.

How to get a man you like

As you know, girls are born and survive more than boys. Therefore, the competition among girls is simply huge.

What is the first thing a man looks at?

1. "A man loves with his eyes." And this is a fact. Some vectors of the psyche in men and women are arranged differently. That's the difference in priorities. In men, contemplative vectors are more developed. That is, the vigilance of the guys is naturally high. So appearance girl should pay special attention.
2. Cheerfulness. By the way, this works not only on the male field. A smile on the face indicates the absence of problems and the presence of a good mood, which others like. Since there is a stereotype that it is easier to communicate with such people and make closer acquaintances.
3. Wisdom of a wife. The stronger sex is quite freedom-loving. Therefore, one should try to protest in a roundabout way. Through cunning.
4. Delight. Compliments aren't just for women. Men also like to listen to pleasant things, especially those concerning him.
5. Good sex. The stronger sex loves sex. Moreover, they like it when it does not lie like a “log”. Therefore, it is useful to apply various postures, to find your erogenous zones. But you also need to know your body well. This is how you can reach the peak in bed ...

Husband is cheating… What is the reason? Polygamy of the valiant sex, these are just stupid excuses. He always goes where it's best. Tastier food, better look, do not scold. Where it is warm, cozy and comfortable.

Beating the wife. Why? Domestic Violence… What could be worse? What drives a husband at such moments? You can read about the husband of a tyrant

1. Alcohol. In a state of intoxication, a person can easily enter an uncontrolled state of passion and not know that he is committing a terrible act. If after the first time followed by the second, then divorce is inevitable. Or a woman will have to walk periodically in bruises. Depends on how often the spouse is in this state.
2. Treason. This is a terrible act, a betrayal, a blow to the living. It will catch both pride and pride. Therefore, in some cases, a man is justified.
3. Excessive feelings of jealousy. Control over the second half and her disobedience can infuriate a guy. Therefore, if the character is temperamental and quick-tempered, it is better not to tease once again.
4. Low self-esteem. As a rule, it arises from a difficult childhood. A disliked child grows into a monster. This type of men is very mean.

What are men most afraid of?

These are various fears: rejection by a woman, humiliation, dependence on something. Also, the stronger sex is afraid of their insolvency, bad reputation, fraud and loneliness.

Greed in men. This trait develops in defective or poor families, as well as in selfish people. But do not confuse the ability to save money with stinginess. A man either from a poor family, or uncertain about the future. In order not to get into debt holes. Only one can get rid of this feeling.

The man is a narcissist. Constant self-admiration, self-care, these are signs of self-love. Narcissism is divided into the following types:

• the guy talks about his virtues often and to many;
• gets angry at the voice acting of his shortcomings;
• indifferent attitude towards others;
• perfectionism, growing into dissatisfaction with oneself in being with other people;
• idealization of one's life and eternal competition with other people;
• evidence of self-worth;

Relationships, breakups. Love, romance... Everything ends sometime. How does the stronger sex behave in different situations?

1. Woman initiator. The male sex does not show depression more often, but experiences it many times harder than women (perhaps this is due to the stereotype that men do not cry). More often they wash down grief with alcohol or engage in dangerous sports. In general, they are immersed in their interests.
2. Both initiators. Relations have come to an end, come to naught, scandals every day ... Often a gap occurs due to a lack of convergence of interests.
3. Male initiator. Most often occurs due to the appearance of another female. Therefore, in order not to injure the female psyche, they begin to attack, insult the once beloved girl.

The article describes only the common features that unite men. But since each person is an individual, then the reactions can be different. Therefore, in order to understand a man, you need to look for an individual approach to him.

All for now.
Sincerely, Vyacheslav.