The kindest, most faithful friend,
You replace all your friends
Know that I value friendship
I only keep a secret

My heart stops
The world around loses colors,
It became very difficult to live
Just to be friends with you...

There is no more strength to hide everything,
Because you should know this:
My feelings are high
From great love to you!

Is there love between a woman and a man? Each person may have personal opinion on this issue, but friendship between males and females is indeed possible. It can arise out of the blue and exist for many years, while being as strong, mutual and cheerful as male friendship. Therefore, one should not take as a dogma the assertion that there are no friendly relations between a man and a woman, because one of the friends can fall in love with another. There is no need to be afraid of this, and if you really want to be friends with a person of the opposite sex, then feel free to make friends with him.

Intergender friendship can cause a guy or a girl to fall in love. That is, flirting and flirting on the part of a man or woman can grow into a friendship, not a relationship. Initially, this can upset the person who experienced feelings of love, but if the friendship is good, they will quickly fade into the background and will soon be forgotten.

Friendship does not exist only between men and women who loved each other and decided to remain friends when parting. After all, even if the separation went well and by mutual agreement, it may happen that one of the partners harbors a grudge or, on the contrary, retains the same love feelings. So there can be no question of any friendship between a guy and a girl after parting. The exceptions that happen are only confirmation of this fact.

It also happens that friendship between a woman and a man is the result of long communication between people. Initially, in such a friendship there is not even a hint of love. However, one friend can really fall in love with another, for example, a girl can fall in love with a guy with whom she was only friends. Such changes in attitudes are now observed frequently. Therefore, it is not surprising that many girls face the question of how to confess to a friend in love, so as not to spoil the friendship.

Preparing for recognition

1. Before confessing your feelings to a friend, you need to think it over well. The fact is that you may not have love as such. You may confuse this strong feeling with ordinary infatuation or deep sympathy that may arise during the time that you communicate with a person. You need to learn to share these feelings in order to avoid possible problems. After all, if you confess your love to a friend, and then you realize that you don’t have such feelings for him, then this can ruin your friendship. Moreover, if he reciprocates and you start a relationship based on false feelings, then they will not last long. Together with relationships, you will lose a person forever, since there is no friendship after parting. So check your feelings with time before laying your cards on the table.

2. Usually falling in love passes as quickly as it appears. So if you think that you have fallen in love with a friend, then do not tell him to immediately talk about it. Wait for a while, as these feelings may dissipate like morning mist. If they don't fade away, go for it!

3. If you are sure that you feel exactly the feeling of love for your friend, and not the usual sympathy or affection, then you need to admit this to the guy. Otherwise, you will suffer in ignorance and guesswork about how a friend treats you and whether he experiences similar feelings. Anyway, it hurts every day to see the object of your love, communicate with him and spend your free time, but know that you are not together. Believe that in this case, recognition is not as scary as ignorance. After all, if you love a person with whom you do not communicate, then the feeling for him can be cooled with the help of ordinary ignoring. However, this method will not work with a friend, because if you start ignoring him, then your relationship can deteriorate significantly, which no one would like.

4. Don't wait for a friend to make the first move. Even if you are sure that your friend is not indifferent to you, this does not mean that he will take the first step. The fact is that now the guys are quite modest and the girls have to take all their hands. In addition, a friend may have a fear that he will ruin everything with his confession. Therefore, if you love a guy, then you should not wait until he makes the first move. Be brave and do it first.

5. Do not be afraid that your confession will spoil the friendship. If you sincerely confess your feelings to a guy, and he reciprocates, then your relationship will reach a whole new level. From ordinary friends, you will turn into a couple in love. In the same case, if a man cannot answer you in the same way, this does not mean that this will ruin your friendship. A true friend correctly understand everything and draw the necessary conclusions. If he does not want to transfer the relationship to a new plane, he will make sure that your confession will not affect the friendship in any way. He will try to avoid this topic so as not to offend you. Well, if he starts to tease you with your confession, making you hurt and unpleasant, then such a friend is not needed at all. Try to avoid such people and not let them into your life.

6. It is imperative to prepare for recognition so as not to get confused at the last moment. Even if you calmly communicate with a friend on a variety of topics, this does not mean that it will also be easy for you to confess your love to him. So prepare in advance the words that you will speak to him if you want to make a personal confession. It would be ideal if you write the text of the confession on a piece of paper and say it out loud several times to understand how it sounds. You should not memorize this text, you just need to remember the main points from it.

If you doubt that you will remember everything and be able to pick up Right words while talking with a friend, then you can take a piece of paper with you and read your confession directly from it. There is no need to be afraid that it will look ugly, since it is important for you to convey your idea, and not to surprise a person.

7. For your declaration of love to a friend, you can choose absolutely any way. The main thing is to make sure that he understands everything correctly. It is on this that his reaction and further development of events depends, and not on how you do it.

How to confess to a friend in love?

1. If you often communicate with a friend, including on the phone, and also spend a lot of time with him together, for example, go to the movies, clubs, concerts or other events, then it will be much easier for you to confess your love to him. Moreover, the chance that the guy will reciprocate will increase, which many would probably like. Well, if you have the opportunity to go on a joint trip, even if not together, but with a company, then the probability of a positive outcome of your recognition will increase significantly.

2. If you do not communicate closely with your friend, then try to increase the time of your communication. Find common interests that will allow you to spend more time together. For example, if your friend goes to the gym, then sign up for the same place.

This will allow you not only to start to get to know the guy more closely and communicate with him more, but also to improve your figure, health and well-being. Don't worry, it can also happen that after you start spending more time with your friend, you become disillusioned with him as a potential loved one. Therefore, start spending as much time as possible together, and let it put everything in its place. After all, time is not only the best doctor, but also an ideal judge. So don't be afraid to trust him.

3. If your friendship is just emerging, then in this case it will be quite simple to confess your love to a guy, because perhaps he is waiting for this from you. To do this, just talk with a person and tell him about your feelings and about the desire to move the relationship to another plane. This can be done, including in an intimate setting, when you walk together or stay alone in a room. During this conversation, remain serious so that the friend understands everything correctly.

4. Change the style of communication with your friend and start flirting with him. If your communication has always been restrained and chaste, then try to change the style to a relaxed and frank one. Hug your friend when you meet and kiss him on the cheek if you haven't done it before. Start flirting with him, but without fanaticism. Do this gradually so as not to frighten off a friend, as he may misunderstand such a sharp change in communication style. If a friend also feels sympathy for you, then after you start flirting with him, he himself can take the first step towards you.

5. Change yourself. If you want a friend to take the first step towards you, then start changing your image. Surely the guy got used to you for all the time of communication. Therefore, drastic changes in your image and style will make him look at you in a completely new way. Appear before him in the form of a woman, not a friend.

6. If you are not ready to confess your love to a friend in person, then you can do this using SMS or a message on a social network. This method is now gaining more and more popularity, so it is worth paying attention to. You have the opportunity to work out the text of the confession well and send it to a friend. In this case, you will not need to worry about his reaction, because you will not see how a friend reacted to the message.

Before opening up to a friend, you can test the waters by sending a simple "I love you!" message. If, in response to this message, he tells you about his feelings, then your confession has happened. Well, if he starts writing that he doesn’t need love and relationships with you, then write to him that he misunderstood everything, and you love him just as a friend. This way, you will find out about his feelings, but do not ruin your friendship.

7. Invite a friend to try dating. If you've been friends with a guy for a long time and you have a wonderful and open relationship, then as an experiment, you can safely invite him to try dating. And if your friend does not have a girlfriend and he likes you, then it is likely that he will agree to this proposal.

Before you start this sham relationship, you can agree in advance how far you are willing to go. In addition, you will also need to discuss the possibility that one of you will find another partner. If this happens, then you will need to return your relationship to its previous level.

During such an experimental relationship, it must be clearly understood that they exist only for fun. You can't fool yourself into thinking that you're in love with a friend. Such self-deception can end badly.

8. Spontaneous confession can be a great way to tell a friend about your feelings for him. During one of the next joint walks, you can stop your friend and express your feelings to him directly in the eyes. At the same time, it should be noted that you do not insist on an instant transfer of friendly relations to a new plane, but simply inform him.

9. You can confess your feelings to a friend with the help of a good mutual friend whom you trust. If you are afraid to personally confess your love to a friend, then you can turn to a mutual friend. Ask him or her to secretly tell the person about your love and find out from him what he thinks about this. If a friend answers that he does not have any feelings for you, then nothing will change for you. If he also loves you, then the information he received will allow him to take the first step.

10. An accidental declaration of love to a friend can be the most in a simple way tell him about your feelings. To do this, it is enough to drop the phrase “How I love you” in a conversation and look at his reaction. If he does not pay attention to these words, then you can repeat them a few more times. If after that no reaction follows, then it is better to postpone your confession for another time.

What if you or your friend is in a relationship?

If a friend already has a girlfriend, then it is better not to disclose information about your feelings. Don't ruin other people's relationships. In the event that you are in a relationship, but also love your friend, then you will need to make a choice. You can't date one and flirt with another.

How to confess to a guy in love

Most The best way– do it honestly and openly. For example, if the object of your feelings is your good friend, then you probably go somewhere together with him, meet somewhere to chat face to face. In this case, follow the usual pattern, make an appointment and come to it as usual. If you meet in a simple cafe, you do not need to choose an expensive restaurant for this meeting. Communicate in the same way as always, but you can, for example, start preparing the ground by giving compliments. From how a person will react to them, you will understand how you move on. And at a convenient moment, just talk about your feelings. This method is honest, and you will receive answers immediately to all questions. But the disadvantage of this method is that it can be extremely difficult to decide on it. In such tense situations, not everyone knows how to remain calm. And if you, nevertheless, cannot decide, then do it at a distance.

There are many ways to confess your love from a distance. One of them is SMS in love. This method is simple but very reliable. its plus is that in case of failure, you can turn everything into a joke. The scheme is simple. You write to a person about your feeling ambiguously, for example, “I love you so much” is the most banal option. If he has feelings for you, an SMS dialogue will start between you, during which he will try to find out what exactly you had in mind. Well, if there is no reciprocity, you can send an SMS that will decipher the meaning of the previous one, for example, “You supported me so much at such and such a moment, I am so glad that you are my friend.” As a result, do not spoil what is, and do not keep silent.

And lastly, this is the worst thing you can do in such a situation. After all, we are given one life, maybe you will miss your chance for happiness! So the main thing is to decide and tell a person about your feelings, openly or not, it's up to you, but, as the saying goes, "He who does not risk does not drink champagne."

Best friend confessed his love!

It often happens ... You were friends, and then it suddenly turned out that he loves you. And it doesn't matter - you are friends with kindergarten or met a few months ago at a disco.

The fact that the guy wanted more than friendship is natural. For him you really best girl in the world, because no one but you understands it the way you do. In no case do not think that he is just having sex! After all, the fact that he wants more than just friendship, with you, already distinguishes you from among all the surrounding girls, suggests that he wants to freely express his love for you, to express it in everything, including in intimate relationships.

BUT WHY?!

The first question that a girl has in such a situation is: “Well, why?! Can’t guys treat like a friend?!”

And the second question that arises immediately after the first one is: “What should I do now?”

There are many answers to both of these questions, and none of the options will be absolutely correct. Decide which one suits your situation best.

YOU ARE THE ONE TO BLAME

In fact, many guys can treat a girl like a girlfriend. But just as much depends on how the girl herself behaves with them. Perhaps you don't even notice it. Any girl is a coquette, it's just in the blood for many. Either way, you must be flirting. You do it not on purpose, but because you subconsciously perceive him as a man. And you're always a little flirtatious with them.

What to do?

Take care of yourself and your behavior. Pay attention to how you talk to your friend, how you look, how you look, how you behave. Try to avoid flirtatious and languid looks when communicating with him. Do not hug him or sit on his lap (even if it seems to you that this is a simple act of friendship). Do not put on a meeting with him seductively short skirts and blouses with deep cuts.

AND IN FACT?

Perhaps he decided that your relationship should move to a qualitatively new level. I decided so because I realized that you are the best in the whole wide world.

What to do?

Talk to him heart to heart. Find out what exactly he lacks in the current situation. Slowly, step by step, together you will have to figure out how to solve this problem. If he lacks stability in your relationship (he is not sure if your friendship is strong), come up with some kind of ritual in which you vow to always be best friends. If he needs affection and tenderness, help him meet a cool girl. If he wants new sensations from life, then invite him to go skydiving or rock climbing together. And so on. The main thing is to get to the core of the problem. The fact that he likes you and you are just an awesome girl is understandable, but this is not the answer.

He does not always want exactly what he is talking about. Maybe he didn't really understand himself. And he talks about his feelings simply because there is such a stereotype. Because he saw it in the movies. Because that's how it should be, that's how everyone does it. Remember that not always the words of another mean the same thing that they mean to you.

What to do?

You can try to explain it to him. But it's unlikely to help. Then try to play a game with him. Agree that from today and all next week you will meet. You have a unique opportunity to play to the fullest. You call him twenty times a day all week, write a ton of text messages, interfere in all aspects of his life, annoy him with advice (“Button up your jacket, you’ll catch a cold, honey!”), Ask for parties with him, to which he traditionally went only with the guys. And you keep going until you get bored. At the end of the week, see what happens. First, he can see that everything that happens is not at all what he wanted. Then he himself will be glad that it was just an agreement, and you did not start dating for real. You can laugh together, you will convince him that you are a great friend, but a disgusting girlfriend, and you will remain good friends. Secondly, he will understand that he himself did not know what exactly he meant by his proposal to meet. And when faced with reality, it will reverse.

WHAT IF IT'S LOVE?

What to do if you think: why not say “yes” to him?

Favorite people, first of all, should be friends. Often the longest, most harmonious and happy relationship are built up between former friends. Well if you understand that main mistake one thing you can do when you start dating is to change the relationship itself. They can be enriched, not changed! Before you started dating, you valued each other as soulmates. After you become a boyfriend and girlfriend, you can impose standard obligations on each other. It’s better, calling yourself a guy and a girl, just add sex and care for each other to the relationship. After all, you are valuable to each other precisely as friends. May your essence remain the same. The less restrictions and obligations you impose on each other, the more likely it is that you will be fine. Just remember that by venturing into this kind of intimacy, you run the risk of losing a friend. And if you break up with him, you will lose two people at once in one person: both a friend and a loved one.

Beautiful declarations of love - poems

You are the most wonderful man

whom I met!

And there's only one reason

Say nothing!

I love you, but I don't know

How did this happen to me!

Kiss me, hug me...

How sweet, oh my dear!

Why do I love you? Don't know?

I just feel bad without you.

I don't understand myself without you.

Am I without you, as if without fire?

Everything goes out in the world, like in a fog

And gray faces all around

And storms are splashing in a glass,

Neither the skirt nor the heel pleases ...

When you're not around, I get sick

I break in a thousand mirrors!

When you are near, I light up

It's like a ray of sunshine has fallen!

I feel good with you, you know

I can't say what and why...

But I know one thing when you leave

I just freeze and can't even breathe...

How to confess your love to your best friend

in love into your best friend and don't know what to do with your feelings next? Open up! You should not keep everything in yourself, suppress your love and pretend that nothing is happening.

According to psychologists, the strongest relationships and marriages are based on friendship. We are in constant search of our ideal second half, and at this moment she is nearby, you just need to take a closer look and want to consider this fact. Of course, you may be afraid to reveal your feelings to your friend, so as not to spoil your relationship and not lose his favor. No need, no need! If your friendship is actually real, then she is not afraid of any confessions. Try to anticipate your friend's reaction to your revelation.

Simulate this situation: when crossing (jumping) over a large puddle, take your friend by the hand. What is his reaction? Did he pull away? Released your hand immediately after successfully overcoming an obstacle? Or is he still holding your hand in his? By his reaction, you will immediately understand whether you should force things or whether you need to wait a bit. AT last case, repeat a kind of attempt of rapprochement and probing the soil in a few days, and compare the results of his reaction to your proximity, your touch with the previous one!

Make him an unexpected confession! At a time when he is not even aware of the feelings raging in your soul and heart, reveal to him the whole truth. Explain, looking steadily into his eyes, how strong emotions you feel for him, and that he has a choice: to accept your love or reject.

You can also arrange for your friend to write confession. Pour out your suffering and feelings on paper, then invite him to some romantic place and read the contents of the note. Perhaps, imbued with the intimate atmosphere of what is happening, your friend will also suddenly understand what he feels for you. the senses much stronger and deeper than just friendship.

Try to be together more often: go out into nature, go to the cinema, to a cafe, go, in the end, on a joint trip to the sea. So you will have more chances to win the favor of your friend-cavalier. If neither you nor your best friend have permanent partners, then you can try to meet each other. And what if something comes out of it, and it will work? Moreover, if there is a spark between you, then it can transform into a passionate blazing flame. In the event that, nevertheless, nothing comes of this venture, do not despair, you can always return to the stage of your relationship from which it all began! But there are situations when recognition, nevertheless, should be postponed.

Let's take a look at them concrete examples:

1. Your friend has a constant young woman. Do not interfere in their relationship for anything, do not put sticks in their wheels, do not try to quarrel. Remember, their feelings concern only the two of them, you do not belong in them. And they must also make decisions on the continuation / termination of this relationship on their own, without outside help.

2. You yourself have a boyfriend. Look, don't play! After all, as you know: if you chase two hares, you will not catch one!

3. He did not accept or share your feelings. If you find the strength to remain just friends with him, do it. Do not insist, otherwise you risk destroying your friendship.

4. Next to a friend, you feel calm and comfortable. This is good, but not enough to build strong and harmonious relationships, think, maybe you take completely different feelings for love?

5. You don't want to see your friend in the arms of another girl. Jealousy and selfishness by no means adorn a person and this is not at all a reason to make your friend your life partner. Therefore, do not be a child and let your friend decide for himself with whom to be next to him.

6. You firmly believe that your confession will destroy your friendship. Do you think the game is worth the candle in this case? I think no! After all, real, reliable friends is very difficult, so is the shaky hope for the illusory happiness of such a sacrifice worth it? You won't be sweet by force, and if loves only one, then the relationship is doomed to failure!

How to confess your love to your best friend

Reflect

Many do not dare to find out the relationship so as not to spoil them in the future and not to lose a friend. Drop doubts. If you are true friends, then they are destined to remain. But first, let yourself reflect and make sure that you are ready for a new relationship. Maybe he's just your hobby? You feel sympathy for him or even love, but these feelings are changeable and can easily melt away. In this case, indeed, there may be a cooling of relations and even a break, but this will not happen because of recognition, but because your romantic feelings will disappear.

Do an experiment

If you're nervous, try testing out his possible reaction to your confession first. To do this, conduct a small experiment. There are many little subtle tricks that you can use to find out if he has reciprocal feelings for you and whether he will reciprocate them. Here is one of them: without crossing the road, avoiding the rain or spray of a passing car, take his hand and run! This simple technique will allow you to answer your question, which you will get at the end of your short run: are you still holding hands or did he release your hand just after the "danger" was over? What is his reaction? Is he embarrassed? Are you both uncomfortable? All of these are good signals. After evaluating the situation, you can decide whether to rush to force your relationship. If you don't get any clear signals after this approach, try again in a few more days and compare his reaction with the previous one.

Act spontaneously

At the moment when he least expects it, take it and give him the whole truth. Just break away from your activity, turn to your friend and tell him that the feelings you have for him are so strong that nothing can stop you and you are even ready to survive his possible rejection. You think about him in the morning when you wake up, it's hard for you to part with him every evening. Explain to him that you open your heart to him, and he has a choice: to reciprocate your feelings or just leave. Yes, there is a certain risk in this, but the chance that it can be yours is worth it.

Plan your confession

Put down how you feel on paper beforehand, then invite him to some very romantic place and read yours out loud to him. Let this be a kind of proposal to move to another stage of your relationship. Say something about your shared past, present, and what your future looks like. Whatever method of expressing feelings you choose, remember that in this moment the first sparks of the future flame of your love are lit. Maybe someday you will remember and tell your grandchildren the beautiful story of your recognition. Try to make this moment unforgettable.

Let time show

Try to spend more time with your friend than usual. For example, go to the movies, discos, concerts or sporting events with him more often, have dinners together more often. If possible, go somewhere together for the weekend or vacation. If you spend more time together, your chances of success will increase.

Experimental dates

Why don't you invite your friend to just try dating? If both you and he are in a free search, and both sympathize with each other (and since you are friends, it cannot be otherwise), why not take advantage of the circumstances? Agree that if nothing comes of this experiment or one of you finds another passion, you will be ready to return to the previous level of relationship.

Just do it

If you think your feelings are likely to be reciprocated by him, try one of the romantic gestures that others have already used.

Congratulations and greetings!

Finally, your birthday has come!

On holiday I want to wish you a lot of things:

Happiness, wealth, love and good luck flowering,

So that the dawn at your doorstep dozes off!

To fill the glasses with success,

So that well-being is on the way!

May your life be brighter than carnival nights

So that on the road you can go more fun!

So I give a message with an eternal hexameter,

To keep this one from loss and resentment.

There will be a favorable fate, a smile - careless,

May your life burn brighter than the flame of the sun!

Boy you are always calm

And behave with dignity:

Do not throw words into the wind

You keep promises.

music lover and book lover

And in life - monogamous.

You don't smoke, you drink in moderation

In general, you live right!

You know and know a lot

You can always help us

You are a great friend!

You are an example for everyone around

I raise a glass for your birthday

I wish you success in business and health

Also a brand new car.

So that car owners look with envy

Thick wallets in pockets

Vouchers for the sea, resort novels

In short, so that everything works out for you

And with us, with friends, met more often!

Such an ordinary day

Your fate will be slightly corrected.

Friends, girlfriends dashing shadow

Leave lovely gifts.

And I hasten to put into my mouth

Words teasing centuries.

And I will sign in the corner of the sheet -

I congratulate!

Happy Birthday!

On your birthday buddy

I will voice the wishes of a thousand.

Health, joy, success,

Good luck, cheerfulness and laughter!

Pud "green" in winter and summer,

So that the tail is always a gun,

For a girl to love you

GAI to score on you,

I would like to have a housewarming party.

Let your life be fun

And I'll add a spark:

After all, our friendship is for centuries!

Happy Birthday Buddy!

We've gone through fire and water

Thousands of troubles, thousands of obstacles,

Adversity did not break us!

We are knee-deep in the sea

And the heat of conflagrations is not terrible.

Be happy, my faithful friend!

We are strong in friendship, comrade!

I wish you, my friend, what I wish for myself:

So that the sandwich does not fall butter down,

And the thieves did not climb the ledge,

So that you get up in the morning from that foot

And he paid his debts on time,

So that the wind does not blow your hats,

And so that you have enough strength for everything!

Happy birthday!

I want everything to work out in your life

Conceived to come true

Career growth to be rapidly high,

The limit of dreams was unspeakably distant.

I want to meet a beautiful girl

To buy a car that you like

And may all congratulations be fulfilled,

What do you hear today

On your birthday!

If your conscience is alive!

If you remember your friends!

If friendship is not just words

And not a scale for three!

You throw away all your affairs

Quit messing around in the dacha,

Pack your suitcase soon

Meet your friends again!

Follow fate without looking back

Love and be loved.

Let everything be all right in life

And don't forget old friends.

In a difficult hour when you fail

One to go through troubles

You remember us. We will be able

We can come to the rescue.

I wish you a good journey

Walk this path with friends

Health so as not to take

And never be discouraged.

Smiles, joy, good luck,

Live to a hundred! And not otherwise.

A good friend is like the wind.

In case of misfortune

He will take away both sorrow and misfortune,

Like leaves that crumble in bad weather

In the autumn cold garden.

And in joy - he is a powerful shaft,

Safely on the path of your enemies.

I love reliable, real friends.

I appreciate it. And I raise a toast to them.

Beloved friend, I wish you a lot of money,

A car, a summer house and a beautiful wife.

Let failures fall from the threshold,

And your dear mother-in-law - a pig!

Diseases, failures and defeats,

Falls down and grief from parting.

And all sorts of empty acquisitions,

I want to avoid you, my friend!

It's your turn in the constellations

Reveal on the day of the calendar.

All congratulations for you

Collected the stars in the skies.

I wish on your birthday

Smiles, happiness for the soul

And, so that pennies do not torment,

Your waste in a generation.

Be happy, my dear friend!

Live successfully, without mistakes;

And let the number of smiles

You will be warmed up.

Heartily

I wish you

Stay like this forever

What were you like when you were a child?

Cheerful, joyful, simple.

May there be no sorrow in your life,

May happiness meet you everywhere.

Be kind, and gentle, and waiting,

Forever loved, forever desired.

My best friend!

Midday, hustle and bustle

You are a bright holiday

Dream come true.

You have so much

Given from birth!

You conquered me Long, long time ago

So conquer Fate!

And let her

Your attention

Immensely flattered

Will give you joy

Glitter of victories

Love and happiness light

For many years.

About your birthday, a bird sang to us

And I managed to tweet so much:

That you are understanding, kind and sensitive,

Strong intellect and you know a lot about a joke,

At any moment you will help with advice,

You can lift your spirits at the same time!

“One can only dream of such a friend!” -

The bird chirped again and again...

Let this bird talk terribly

And yet we totally agree with her!

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Love makes us happy and sad, raises us to heaven and inflicts painful wounds, but we all strive to feel its touch. She is many-sided and many-sided. Love can be mutual and happy, unrequited and unhappy, passionate and painful, tender and romantic. She has many shades and mysteries. But all women are waiting for her arrival and hope that she will be the one and only, happy and unique. Sometimes it happens that love overflows your heart, but you never heard important words from your beloved. In ancient times, you would have been waiting for a man to finally decide to express his sympathies, but now, in an age of rapid development and speed, a woman can no longer wait too long for the object of her adoration to dare to confess her feelings.

How to prepare for a declaration of love to a man

Also try to carefully observe your chosen one and do it as calmly as possible. You need to feel whether he is ready to hear such words from you or is it better to wait a little while, just expressing his sympathy with flirting and coquetry, if you are not a couple. If you and your beloved man already live together or have been dating for a long time, think about what scares him with the prospect of being the first to tell you about his love, maybe for him this obligation to immediately make a marriage proposal, but he is simply not ready yet. Then your declaration of love can be made in a mild form, without requiring him to respond to your words. Or better, wait a bit until the man himself decides to make a confession, because if you are already together sooner or later it will happen anyway, so in such a situation just enjoy his company, because he is already with you, expressing his love by what he chose just you from many other beautiful girls.

How to confess your love to your boyfriend

Your confession to the person with whom you are together can cause joy, fear, and even an unexpected reciprocal declaration of love for you. The main thing here is not only the reaction of the man, but also your determination, once and for all to close the question of why you are with this man. You want him to know about it, so prepare a romantic dinner, light candles, learn an incendiary strip dance and you don’t even need words to confess your love, he will understand everything without further ado.

If you are just dating a man, and he is already a mature and experienced person who is used to living alone, you should not openly talk to him about love. With age, people hold on to their habits more and more tightly, and strive for a calm and measured life. Your declaration of love, before he made it himself, can knock him out of the usual rut of a bachelor life. It seems to require some reciprocal and decisive steps from him, and this can cause him to move away from you for quite a long time. Adult men cherish their freedom very much, and any encroachment on it will most likely be perceived unfavorably. Here you need patience and affection, otherwise he may simply run away from you, frightened of such pressure. Inveterate bachelors are afraid of women like fire, who are trying to tie them to themselves as quickly as possible. Therefore, act with female cunning, and he himself will rush to be the first to confess his love to you. You can show him your feelings silently, but he will understand you. A gentle look, attention, sympathy for his experiences, your indispensability - all this will become the impetus that will make even an inveterate bachelor say: “I love you!”.

How to confess your love to a boyfriend

If you don’t know if a friend has the same feelings for you, don’t tell him right away that you love him, you will have time to do it later. Or maybe he will do it first, and you just have to answer. You can say that you like him, that you often think about him, you are very good next to him. If he has the same feelings for you, then he will not hesitate to take advantage of such a great opportunity to confess his feelings, and if not, these words can refer to him as a friend.

How to confess your love to a stranger

How to confess your love to your husband

If you want to confess your love, do it, but do it in an unusual, unobtrusive and feminine way. The age of knightly rules has long sunk into oblivion, so modern woman deserved the right to be the first to express her feelings.

There is a statement that there can be no friendly relations between a man and a woman. However, life situations develop in the most diverse way, proving the opposite.

The question arises: "How to confess to a friend your love for him?". Friendly communication, as a rule, does not cross certain boundaries of relationships. Therefore, a sudden revelation of love sympathy will be erroneous, because instead of the expected reciprocity, it can cause a negative reaction from the other person. In such a situation, a rash and hasty confession of feelings will have a deliberately unsuccessful outcome.

In order to avoid an awkward situation, which may subsequently affect the friendship between people, you should choose the right moment. It is permissible to confess feelings for a friend not directly, but with the help of hints. An example is a fictional situation in which old friends, after some time of friendship, began a relationship as a couple of lovers. Most likely, the interlocutor will express his opinion on this situation. Thus, it will be possible to determine the attitude of the object of sympathy to such situations.

Opportunity for a declaration of love

Convenient moment for frank conversation can be determined in the process of unobtrusive friendly communication. You can start with small experiments, narrowing the established boundaries of friendly interaction: compliment more often, change the look, mannerisms and tone during communication. It is known that non-verbal signals sent by the human body carry a large amount of information. Observing the reaction of the interlocutor, you can determine his attitude, mood and emotions.

When talking, you should establish eye contact with a friend, touch him more often, gently stroke his hand. It is important to evaluate the interlocutor's reaction to the changes taking place during communication, which will indicate his readiness to hear a declaration of love. If a friend remains relaxed, does not use closed gestures, and responds with mutual touches, then talking about feelings is quite appropriate.

A declaration of love and serious intentions towards a friend can have a double meaning. For example, speaking of strong love feelings, and, having met an unexpected reaction (indignation, confusion, denial), we can say that the recognition is friendly and comic.

You can also confess your feelings for a friend in a letter. Having stated your attitude and thoughts, you can ask the object of sympathy to give an answer in the same form. Unlike personal confession, this method eliminates awkward pauses in conversation and a ruined meeting. In the worst case, not getting the expected reaction, you can ask a friend to save trusting relationship without focusing on recognition.