From the Don Juan of the past, pick-up artists differ in their systematic approach and special cynicism in relation to the object of seduction. A girl for them is an OZHP, a female person. Assessed by ten-point scale sexual attractiveness and as a person is not considered.

The pickup epidemic (from the English pick-up “to hook”) will spread especially quickly among young fragile minds. It is they, the freshly baked machos, who do not give us access to supermarkets, get on the streets with stupid questions, beg for a “phone” in nightclubs and restaurants. In their pick-up parlance, it's called "going out into the field." For example, the task: to collect at least five phones in an evening, or to have sex on the first date ... Do not be surprised if later on the Internet on pickup.ru or lover.ru you find your photo with detailed story(heavily embellished) about your recent adventure with a temperamental stranger.

Pick-up classic

Pick-up artists are taught two basic "pick-up patterns". By using these basic scenarios, you can easily recognize a graduate high school seduction.

The pickup classic is a "three date", the so-called ru.pickup classic style. The scheme is something like this: a guy comes up to you, for example, in a club and says something unusual, in no case “can I meet you?”. You smile and the conversation starts. In the process, he often kinesthetizes (touches you), or uses neghits (tricks), or other tricks according to circumstances, his main target for this evening is your phone. After writing down the number, it disappears, leaving you confused. In no case will he call right away, he will wait five days for you to suffer. Then he calls and makes an appointment (namely, he himself, and not asks you), on this date his task is to demonstrate to you that he is “not like everyone else”, i.e. it breaks your pattern of communication with men and creates rapport, you are left with the feeling that you have met a “soul mate”. On the third date, he takes you to some unusual place where the joint adventure literally blows your head, this is called "rooftop". One pick-up artist, for example, buried a box of champagne and glasses in Tsaritsyno Park in advance, and he and his girlfriend "found a treasure." According to the scenario, the roof-breaker should be the last blow to your defense system, and you should throw yourself into the arms of a pick-up trucker. The final.

A special pick-up chic is “fast”. Sex immediately after meeting. Here it is necessary to “fool” the girl’s head with various methods (often already drunk, because the usual place for fast food is a nightclub). Kinesthetics, metaphors (“fairy tales for adults”), neghits are actively used ... In this case, the pikaper is especially persistent and even rude. Feeling your weakness, he will drag you “to a secluded corner” almost by force, because. you can come to your senses at any moment and run away. Final, i.e. sex takes place either in the same club in the toilet (or other secluded place), or in the apartment (his, yours or rented specifically for such purposes).

We are not afraid of the gray wolf

You can recognize a pick-up artist both by typical tricks and by putting him in test situations. The coincidence of three or more points is an almost complete guarantee that you have met a representative of this breed.

His tricks:

• Acquaintance began unconventionally. The young man addressed you with unusual words, or there is a suspicion that the situation is set up by him.
• From the very beginning of communication, he constantly touches you: either he offers to tell fortunes by the hand, then he supports, then he hugs, then he straightens your hair.
• After meeting, he took the phone and immediately left, then called a week later and made an appointment without further ado.
• Very quickly and for no apparent reason, you had the feeling that you had known each other for many years and that you had a lot in common. We got trust and don't know why.
• His phone has a lot of women's numbers by first name, not last name.
• You were invited on a date to a very unusual place, they made a big deal.
• On the third date, the young man in a very persistent manner pushes you to "spontaneous sex", models the situation of "accident".

Your tests:

• Don't go where it invites you new friend, insist on your date place. The average guy doesn't care, but the pickup trucker will fight back.
• Ask to buy you something. Not paying for a lady is the main law of a pickup truck, so the pickup artist will try to avoid “payback” in every possible way. The guy here is offered two options for action: the first, hyperbole - to buy everything in a disproportionately larger volume than necessary. Coffee - a coffee pot, ice cream - a bucket, Coca-Cola - 2 liters, etc. It is assumed that the lady "leave behind." Ask such a “ring with a brulik” ;-) The second option is frankness:
  Buy me a cocktail!
  - Ok, will we have sex?
  Say "it will", and then look at the development of the situation.
• Actively ask him: where did he study, what does he do, what success has he achieved ... It is known that men love to brag, especially if they have something to do. But the pick-up artist will not like this direction of the conversation, he is more interested in learning about you, and then using this information. Most likely, he will act mysterious and try to turn the conversation to your biography.
• Try to use pick-up terms in his presence, preferably with errors, if you start correcting - you're caught!
• A pickup truck teaches you to be “cultural”, so if you notice that a guy is “getting smart”, quoting writers, philosophers in the right place and out of place, reading poetry, there is reason to be wary. Especially if it is clearly evident from his speech that he “didn’t finish universities” and didn’t read books as a child: poor vocabulary, speaks with mistakes, repeats, e-kat, m-kat ... and suddenly on you:
  “…Stupid heart, don’t beat!
  We are all deceived by happiness ... "

  Just a pickup truck. Learned one and a half poems to charm the ladies.

Dictionary of a pick-up artist

Beachshield(Bitch Shield) - a defensive reaction of a girl, an aggressive counteraction to a pickup truck. Neutralized by neghits (see below).

Delusion Generator (BG)- the ability to talk about anything for as long as you like and with anyone, used as a filling of pauses in a conversation when there really is nothing to say.

Needle- psychotechnics of emotional attachment of a partner. Gotta make a girl heartache and then regret.

Calibration- assessment of the girl's reaction to certain actions. Hugged a girl - wow! she smiled, so we put "K +", touched her ass - she pushed it away, we put "K-".

kinesthetics- physical touch. In the people it is called "paw".

Metaphor – beautiful story told with intent. “... and then the prince kissed the sleeping beauty ...” - the pick-up artist says and knocks the OZHP onto the sofa.

Neghit- a mild form of insult to reduce the self-importance of the OBD. "There's a hole in your pantyhose."

OZHP- a female person.

Opener, template- preparation for the beginning of acquaintance. There should be a lot of templates, for different occasions, this is taught at trainings.

rapport- a technique for creating the illusion of mutual proximity. First comes the “adjustment” (gestures, postures, words are repeated after you), and then “leading” begins, in the right direction. A classic hypnosis technique often used by scammers.

rooftop- unusual situations leading to the fact that the girl experiences a pleasant shock and a willingness to throw herself into the arms of a guy.

Fast (Fast Seduction)- fast seduction. Sex immediately after meeting.

Each of us wants honest and trusting relationship. Nobody wants to be used and abandoned.

Unfortunately, men have a completely different psychology, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. The most annoying thing is that among modern young people a real science has appeared that teaches them to take everything from a girl and as quickly as possible. Science is called Pickup. You need to know the enemy in person, First of all, take this subculture seriously.

The pickup community is constantly evolving. Today they even conduct official trainings on the “rules of picking up”, the first thing they teach in the courses is to enjoy life and get rid of the fear of a woman, by the way, many girls also attend such courses in order to shoot guys and not be alone. Outwardly, everything looks quite harmless - they share their experience on how easy it is to meet a girl or how to please any girl. More serious courses are called like "nautical intensive" or "shopping accompaniment" (this is when a stylist goes shopping with a pick-up artist and helps him choose the right wardrobe for the best seduction of girls, nice, right?).

When a young man on the street meets you or compliments you, don't relax, remember that this can be a young pick-up artist doing his "homework" after training or just warming up before a date with his next victim. By the way - not necessarily young, the age of a pickup artist can be about 40 years old. It's called "going out into the field." They call completely green pick-up artists "pioneers", and those who go out into the field from time to time - "pop pick-ups".

OZHP is a girl, and "primary" is the main girl with whom the pick-up artist meets and spends time more often than with other girls. Pick-up rule: You can only talk about relationships after sex.

How to calculate a pickup artist

A pick-up artist can meet you in the most crowded places (shopping centers, department stores, parks, beaches), in fact, just like steel normal people. It is impossible to recognize a pick-up artist by how and what he talks about, they have no special rules about this.

The phrase to start a conversation that opens communication with a girl is called "opener". This might be a standard question about your "naturally long legs". The main thing is that you laugh and open up for communication.

A pikaper will definitely try to do something unexpected or show an unexpected reaction. On a date, he will definitely invite you to the original place, and after that he will not call for several days, he will pause.

An experienced pickup artist will always do something that will unsettle you.

For example, because of a 10-minute wait, he explodes in indignation that you are wasting his precious time and leaves, or when you at the last moment report that you cannot come on a date, he accuses you of not knowing yourself what you want and could warn in advance.

If you refuse a direct question about sex, he will call another girl right in the cafe, arrange a meeting and leave. For some reason, they are sure that after this we will definitely call them back ourselves!

They even have schemes that allow them to “fix boyfriend problems,” psychological tricks that make you decide to leave your boyfriend.

But the most important weapon of a pick-up artist is kinesthetics. He will constantly touch your arm, shoulder, straighten your hair.

How to resist a pickup?

Naturally, you do not need to reject every guy who decided to meet you. original way. Moreover, they have in their arsenal the so-called "neghits" - an easy form of insult to reduce self-conceit. You will only ruin your mood.

• Limit his touching you.
• Especially do not be impressed by the gentle and witty "fortune-telling by the hand."
• Pay attention if your interlocutor tries to speak like you, or takes similar poses. Such a psychological technique is done only consciously - so that you feel trust in him.

If you notice signs of a pickup truck in a guy's behavior, tell him "DOD." In their language, it means "let's be friends."

Girls, bad news! It is impossible to calculate a good pick-up artist. Long years of training (on average 7-8 years) and a calloused member made this individual invulnerable. He brought a certain set of compliments, places, conventions, gestures and intonations to such an absolute that, like a chameleon, he learned to adapt to the situation, and therefore adapt to each “victim”.

A few years ago, my friend enthusiastically told me that in the subway a very friendly young man asked her for a pencil and drew a neat flower, and signed his phone number next to it. She called. But in the end, the meeting never took place. Mikhail Shirin smiles: “The flower is already a classic. This is one of the first tasks we give our students. He is already five years old, but it still works, ”the master is proud.

Do not think that the pick-up artist always acts according to the instructions and looks into the cheat sheet before going to bed. The main goal of "field studies" is to work out the received material in such a way as to bring the methods to the natural state of a man. Often, the “techniques” that we women use intuitively, men have to memorize for a long time and painstakingly, and then train for another week. For example, Mikhail Shirin teaches his "students" the game "Closer-Further". The day of affection and love must be alternated with coldness and indifference, and then again change anger to mercy.

“Listen, there is such a thing. Always works. You invite a girl to the park or somewhere in a cafe. In general, in a proven place, - Teymur opens another professional secret. - You first agree with a friend that he will bring a scarlet rose. On a walk at a certain moment you start to distract the girl, kiss, hug. Beauty loses her vigilance. At this moment, a friend quietly passes you a flower, which then, in the eyes of a companion, you seem to have created out of thin air. There can be no misfire." I remember my Cinderella. Even a teaspoon was in the conspiracy!

But even a skilled seducer has control. If suddenly you notice a pattern in a man’s actions: he always comes in from the left side, after a quarrel he doesn’t call for exactly two days, he doesn’t give flowers for their banality, but he draws them perfectly, knows the secrets of the tea ceremony among the Chinese and pours stories from the books of Mikhail Weller, which often passes off as his own. Break the usual course of events of the pickup artist! They wait for spontaneous female reactions and get lost when they receive a strategic move in response. At the first meeting, the girl asked the pick-up artist who he was according to his zodiac sign. He turned out to be Libra. "Scales?! Not right away! she snapped. - The only soulless sign. This is a maximum of one or two meetings. Pikaper did not even find what to answer such categoricalness, and had to admit defeat. Apparently, sometimes in the battle for panties, a woman still manages to emerge victorious.

AMERICAN PICKUP

Pickup is not a religion, not a sect, not a money scam and not a fetish. The pickup truck is a tool, a finely tuned technique for how a man should communicate with a woman in order to please her. A pickup truck is a corny eat, a battle for panties. A pickup master, or just a pickup artist, is a person who has mastered this tool to perfection. From a “brother” named Womanizer, who acts at random (it will work out - well, it will not work out - and okay), pick-up artists differ in that they always use the received technique and the rules of removal consciously.

The ideal pick-up artist is a sleek, stylish man with a velvety voice and cool jokes, a careerist, a knight without fear or reproach. Courteous, restrained, ambitious. Pikaper not embarrass and scare. You don't bypass it. The pikaper knows the rules of pickup and how to achieve his goal (it is likely that you will become this goal), and moreover, having achieved it, he will really give the girl pleasure. One of the main tricks of a pick-up artist is the subsequent separation from the girl, when she has already ceased to be interesting to him. Without tears and scandals, humiliation and self-flagellation, everything is extremely correct.

The first pickup trucks and pickup rules appeared in the USA back in the 1970s. Young Americans shared their experience of seducing girls for one night, ideally within 24 hours of meeting. Funny and brazen phrases served as bait. For example, "You're so hot that looking at you makes me tan" or like this "Kiss me if I'm wrong, but your name is ... Janice?" At the same time, the first manual on a pickup truck with pickup rules was published, Eric Weber's bestseller "How to meet at a party, in transport and even on the street", chapters from which were reprinted by eminent men's magazines.

In the 1990s, the pickup truck turned out to be an empty niche for the implementation of the "American dream" - an attempt to earn its first million dollars. Successful machos suddenly realized that they could make good money in the field of seduction, and began to organize special seminars for losers, romantic losers, shy and shy boys in order to teach them how to meet girls. Some followers began to diligently upload notes to the Internet, and the myth of "almighty pick-up artists" scattered around the planet.

Most single women cherish the dream that somewhere, in the most banal and familiar place, such as a supermarket or a park under the house, they will finally meet Him - that very one and only man of their dreams who will stay with them forever. And often such acquaintances occur, which, of course, flatters self-esteem. However, is the man who approached you "The One"? Often, naive girls become tricks of the now popular variety of men - pick-up artists.

Who is a pickup artist? This is an eternal hunter who seeks to win the attention of more and more new girls, while using previously learned seduction techniques. The main purpose of such young man- amount. This is a kind of collectors of women's hearts, who absolutely do not set themselves the goal of a serious relationship and love to the grave. By the way, recently the pickup truck has become a very profitable business: hundreds of notorious losers give a lot of money for special pickup courses, where they can be taught how to easily meet girls and conquer them.

Few women, unless, of course, she herself is an adventurer, need a young man with such a frivolous outlook on life. We offer you 5 signs by which you will unmistakably recognize the master of a pickup truck, but what to do with him later: send him away or continue acquaintance - it's up to you.

1. Theatrical acquaintance

Pikapers love to arrange a real ceremony out of acquaintance. They never approach a girl with an ordinary: “Can I meet you”, and do not ask: “What time is it?”. They start the conversation with some intriguing phrase like: “Girl, do you happen to have a card? You know, I got lost in your eyes." As a rule, they have a lot of such blanks, and the fact that this is planned in advance, thought out and learned, as a rule, is felt immediately. Try to break up his phrase by giving some non-standard, unexpected answer. If a guy starts to stutter and mumble something indistinct, because he was not ready for such a turn of events, then everything will become clear.

2. Excessive interest in your person

He asks unrealistically many questions about you and your life and is too obviously interested in the smallest details. And all because the goal of such a macho is to collect as much information about you as possible in order to know your weaknesses and get what you want from you as soon as possible. He needs information about your past, your life goals and your weaknesses in order to know your ideas about perfect man and try to be like him.

3. Choosing a place for a date and insisting on it

After meeting, he persistently pulls you to a certain place where, according to him, you will have a great time together. Most likely, he already has a prepared surprise for his victim (a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of champagne, etc.). Break his scheme and offer another place - most likely, a typical pick-up artist will refuse and continue to insist on his own. An ordinary man will not be very upset if a companion offers her own version of the meeting place.

4. Reluctance to spend money on a girl

One of the main principles of pick-up is minimal waste, because if you waste money on each victim, you can simply go broke, so they try not to show off too much. To check it out, jokingly ask him for a small gift on the way: not a platinum ring, of course, but a bouquet of roses from an old woman sitting on the road will be just right. An ordinary man will certainly be happy to give you flowers, but a pickup artist will try to evade this. Observe the reaction and draw conclusions.

5. Three date rule

Most self-taught heartthrobs work exactly according to the three-date scheme. Its essence is as follows: the first meeting is an intriguing acquaintance and your phone number received by him; the second is a kind of processing, during which he will try to show his closeness to the ideal man of your dreams as much as possible; well, and the third is a logical conclusion with non-trivial romantic adventures and, as a result, violent sex, which is the purpose of the pickup truck. Try to make a man wait - if his intentions are serious, then time will not frighten him.

Of course, these signs are highly generalized and are often present in the most ordinary men, but at least they can give you reason to be wary. And one more nuance: pick-up artists, as a rule, avoid decent and serious girls of “heavy behavior”: there are a lot of troubles with them, and the chances of quickly getting what they want are negligible. In any case, the final decision is up to you.

Getting hooked on a prudent and cynical seducer is unpleasant. However, you can arm yourself against pickup by learning about the basic pickup strategies. After all, they are taught the same thing - a set of rules and recommendations.

contrived romance

So, a pick-up artist can approach you anywhere and start a conversation without hesitation, using some non-standard phrase for this. That is, he would rather say “It seems that the angels have a day off today?” Than “Girl, can I know your name?”. But don't think of any romance as a pick-up truck. They can be distinguished by the presence of excitement in the first and the absence in the second. Pikaper is always confident in himself, his eyes do not run and his voice does not tremble. They train specifically for this.

Charisma and assertiveness

Charisma is a pickup artist's weapon. When meeting, they behave as if they are 100% sure of their victory. Often such behavior is taken by women as evidence of interest. In fact, the pick-up artist does not try to earn your approval at all, and if you prove too difficult a task and do not go for intimacy, he will leave you. For a pickup artist, a woman is never the center of the universe, on the contrary. They are taught to put her in her place, using a combination of cruel and gentle methods. A leading thought slips through the entire pickup theory: the man decides.

Real stories of acquaintance with pick-up artists. Let's watch the video!

Man of dreams

Pickup artist always looks well-groomed and pleasant. There is a lot of emphasis on this in education. Quality, stylish items Eau de Toilette, neat hairstyle and manicure. Tightened body. Pikaper seeks to create the appearance of a dream man. The first conversation does not start with lofty things, but begins either with a joke or with questions about your interests. Pikaper avoids harshness, is not rude, smiles. This manner of communication, combined with self-confidence, can lead to a trance. Much attention is paid to bodily touches, the pick-up artist strives to gain access to the woman's personal space as soon as possible.

Communication on the edge

All he wants is sex, but he never talks about it. He will give only non-verbal signals - looks, postures, touches. Next, you can describe a few pickup techniques in communication. The first technique allows you to belittle the significance of a woman, but not rudely, but cheerfully. The man releases an ambiguous compliment: “This skirt is beautiful! My grandmother had the same one, ”but he says it without malice. A woman has doubts about her attractiveness, which makes her defenseless against the attack of a seducer.

Simplicity to primitiveness

The purpose of the first meeting is to get a phone, after which the pick-up artist disappears for a while. The woman is intrigued: was so interested, and does not call for several days! And that's what the pickup truck does. And when he shows up and sets up a second date, the woman happily agrees. On the second date, the pick-up artist creates the impression of a comfortable guy, with whom it is simple and interesting. He adapts to the woman in everything, and she thinks: “this is it!”. On the third date, he invites you to some unexpected place to evoke emotions. For example, on the roof of a skyscraper. Emotions bring together and contribute to falling in love. Most often, such a date ends with sex. And then the pickup truck disappears forever.

Sex is one of the basic human needs, almost as important as food and sleep. To be honest, in order to get rid of the treacherous howl of a hungry stomach, we are ready to stuff the womb with anything, and sometimes we prefer an appetizing, but rather harmful cake to a hearty dietary piece of boiled meat. Eyes do not always want exactly what is good and useful. Something similar happens in the sexual sphere, especially at an age when the burden of wisdom has not yet befallen, and sex hormones actively influence brain activity. The urgent needs of the flesh are met by young men, and sometimes women, in much the same way that hunger is satisfied in fast food restaurants. True, there is no benefit, obesity and disease are guaranteed over time, but for the sake of satisfying natural urges, this cheap and affordable option seems quite appropriate. Such a cheap means of indulging one's primitive primitive reflexes, and at the same time a way of self-affirmation, when there is nowhere else to assert oneself, is a pickup truck - a system of tricks and techniques for quickly seducing a sexual victim. My deep conviction is that it is the meaningful choice of a partner and spiritual merging with him that is the most “delicious” in gender relations. But it takes years of grinding and studying each other. Comparing the combination of a man and a woman with wine is banal, but fair. Braga does not want to drink!

Kara for love

The followers of this new "religion" themselves claim that their teaching does no harm, but contributes to gaining self-confidence. In their opinion, seduction is not misleading naive women or men yearning for real feelings, but one of the methods of self-improvement, it is attracting the attention of life itself with all the favorable consequences for the seducer in many areas, and not just in sex. From my point of view, these are just beautiful words with which wolves in sheep's clothing cover up their failure and irresponsibility in relations with the opposite sex. To become a target for a seducer means to put yourself in mortal danger. Only the death of the soul, which awaits the chosen one of the executioner, is sometimes worse than physical death. At the same time, “love punishers” justify themselves by giving a woman vivid emotions lasting a week or a month, which the unfortunate “happy” will supposedly remember all her life. Of course it will be! I have no doubt that this memory will not subside without the help of a psychotherapist - in the most "happy" cases.

The female psyche is arranged in such a way that a normal healthy woman, consciously or subconsciously, is looking for a couple to create a family. This is her evolutionary task. Any emotions associated with the sexual sphere are just a prelude to the future happiness of being a wife and mother. But the givers of momentary joy think differently, they are not at all concerned about evolutionary tasks, as well as the exchange of emotions or energy. Their goal is to break the resistance of a friend sentenced to a pickup truck, to achieve a demonstration of her feelings towards the seducer, to get what she wants and at the same time give nothing but the opportunity to enjoy the position of the victim of a cruel love game. A woman falls in love and is left heartbroken as a result—the perfect rapist scenario. Only the violence in this case is very sweet, technical, with a bitter aftertaste. Not even violence, but abuse of the soul.

Traps to watch out for

Since the theory of cynical seduction has become extremely accessible, you can familiarize yourself with the works of its apologists. With their help, you can compensate for the lack of intelligence, natural charm and natural demand in women. To know the enemy in person, you should familiarize yourself with his strategy and tactics.

The very first symptom of being played with like a cat with a mouse is the sweet words that you have wanted to hear from a man all your life. As soon as quick emotions begin to flare up in your soul, ask yourself the question: was it too early for you to have a “headache”. To quickly breed a new acquaintance for emotions is the first task of a seducer.

Pay attention to the naturalness of his “shelling” with compliments, sms and calls. If the “shots” are heard too often, try to slow down the process: answer every other time or even dose 1:3. No matter how pleasant the long-awaited male attention is, remember that the average man is not prone to verbal frills, but women in love usually appreciate such verbal abundance and are ready to write and call at least every hour. That is why cunning manipulators at the beginning of the hunt indulge women's whims, hoisting them into intense communication.

The next stage of seduction is a mysterious disappearance for no apparent reason. At this stage, the seducer ensures that the woman begins to fight for attention to her. Once addictive and a kind of dependence on gentle words has developed, the sudden cessation of communication with a loved one causes symptoms reminiscent of withdrawal in drug addicts. The victim begins to panic and suffer without another dose of love and attention. From this, her feelings make a qualitative leap, and an emotionally dependent woman begins to think that this is not love at all, but true love, and she begins to demand a fresh portion of sexual emotions. This is where the savage prelude ends and the big game begins. The trap door slams shut.

Now, following the canons of seduction, the victim needs to be "bent", that is, to exaggerate its significance and belittle the role of a woman in the personal history of the seducer. For example, do not answer her letters and calls. Create the illusion that she is not the only one most beloved in order to cause jealousy and make her suffer. In general, a dramatic picture - a woman looking into a foggy distance, sitting by the window on the verge of a complete loss of faith, hope and love - this is what a real player with female hearts needs. Tears on the phone, pleas for a meeting, passionate erotic tirades of the sufferer can serve as the first signal for the tyrant to the immediate end of "eternal love". It is for this forcibly altered state of consciousness that a “woman on the verge of a nervous breakdown” should hypothetically be grateful to the tormentor for the rest of her life.

Emotions on the castle

In order not to become an easy prey for a womanizer, it is enough to learn to follow the tongue, namely, to dose the response verbal reactions to the collapsed stream of male interest, but more importantly, to control your body language and not show indirect signs of sexual arousal. So, let's learn by heart some of the signs of impending love madness, which, through negligence, we parade in front of insidious pick-up artists, dooming ourselves to hellish torment.

1. Playing with a strand of hair and a simultaneous flirtatious look at the interlocutor. Sometimes - a sharp movement of the head, supposedly to remove the bangs from the forehead.
2. Touching the earlobe, even if there is no earring, and other erogenous zones, the demonstration of which is permissible in modern society- décolleté, wrists, knees, neck, scalp. Often an aroused woman is betrayed by increased attention to her clothes: she straightens the folds of the fabric or restlessly strokes herself.
3. Stroking oblong objects, the so-called phallic symbols, up and down. By similar means demonstrations of excitement can be forks, spoons, stems of wine glasses, narrow tall glasses, pens, pencils, and the like.
4. Cross-legged pose, especially if the toes of the shoes are directed towards the interlocutor. Strengthens the impression of swaying the leg back and forth. If the legs are not crossed, then slightly, but provocatively apart. An interested woman sometimes rubs one foot against the other.
5. Long eye-to-eye contact with the interlocutor is a sign of hidden desire. If a man looks away, a woman in love uses every opportunity to catch her partner's elusive gaze. Usually, in such a state, women's eyes shine, but, unfortunately, it is impossible to hide this shine.
6. Violation of the intimate space of the interlocutor - attempts to touch him with his hand at every opportunity. If she is not touching a man, she rubs her own wrists.
7. The breath of a woman experiencing the delight of falling in love usually quickens, her chest rises noticeably, her cheeks turn pink, and her lips become slightly parted. Femina, who fell into love euphoria, licks her lips more often than her emotionally balanced friend. You can control these signs only if you are familiar with breathing exercises, yoga or various energy practices. However, if you mentally count sheep or think, for example, about your professional activities, then the result can be quite satisfactory.

Everything's under control

The game of cat and mouse can end even sooner if you start acting like a woman who has almost decided that she has found the man of her dreams, is ready to marry him and bear him a bunch of children. Being blinded by love makes a woman live as if her relationship with a new friend has already entered the “we are serious” phase. She begins to "fixate" on one character, constantly thinking about him and gradually comes to the point that she can not think about anything but him. The only salvation in this case is the presence in life of other joys, except for love. The more interests a woman has in life, such as friends, hobbies, favorite work, fitness classes, the more chances she has not to go crazy with love for a pick-up artist.

The second sign of begging is an unexpected need to care for a loved one. Sometimes it resembles an inappropriate awakening of the maternal instinct, regardless of the age of the chosen one. The victim who has lost his head begins to obsessively look after the object of his desire, does strange things to make his life easier, and provides minor services that could be pleasant to him. In general, he proves his love by deed, as a real man should do.

The third symptom that will please the seducer is the behavior of the lawful wife after many years of marriage. A game hunter's girlfriend, who has completely lost her footing, begins to call three times more often than a normal, mentally stable woman. At the same time, her most frequently repeated questions are “where are you?”, “Who are you with?”, “When will we meet?”, “How are you doing at work?” and “what are you doing now?”

The apogee of female madness and the subsequent sentencing in the form of an immediate execution by parting comes after the seduced woman begins to give gifts to her counterpart and confesses her love.

Well, dear friend, this was a short course in resisting the deceitful male love onslaught. Introduce a new rule into your life: if something worries you in your new acquaintance ,
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