Greetings, my family!

Today I will tell you about an insidious and very common mistake of many women with whom I work and meet in my life.

“I love him, but I hide it well. After all, if he finds out - everything! He will play with me like a doll and use me as he wants. A man must conquer a woman. And if she is already at his feet, he loses interest.

And few people seriously think about the consequences that the suppression of feelings in a relationship leads to.

We recall the natural function of a woman in a couple - to LOVE.

The male natural function in a pair is to PROTECT.

If a woman does not send a stream of love to a man, he does not have much desire and strength to protect her.

And vice versa, if a man does not provide a reliable rear for a woman, she has little chance of revealing her love.

Someone alone in a pair can "turn on" the second. Why not you?

Let's think about what happens when a woman suppresses her feelings?

A man, performing his function, but not receiving warmth and tenderness in his address, does not stay in a relationship for a long time.

The stronger sex needs the openness of his beloved. He longs to see her happy eyes shining with love! A woman with her love can easily ignite a man's love for herself.

At the same time, you need to learn how to express your feelings. Just to say some kind of cherished words is not enough. The barriers that have taken root in us since childhood do not always allow us to easily and warmly send a light stream to our beloved.

But it is not necessary to say something - it is enough to “not hide”, to express your love and admiration with your look, action, care.

Now I propose to figure out where the belief came from that after a declaration of love a man will lose interest?

One could write a book on this subject, it is so multifaceted.

It so happened that in our mentality the concept of "love" is mixed with other concepts that are not even close.

If he loved me:

he would do for me...
he wouldn't leave...
he would forgive me...
he would endure my whims ...
he would like to start a family with me...
And love is a feeling, a state.

It doesn't need action.

Where action is expected, the desire to own is implied. And power is far from equal to love. Just power often kills love.

Let's continue.

Slogans that we hear around:

Children should love their parents
A wife must love her husband, and a husband his wife
Must, must, must...
And love is just a feeling. It either exists or it doesn't. It is impossible to love out of "should".

So it turns out that when a woman reveals her feelings to a man, stereotypes are layered in both.

If I said that I love him, he should also tell me this, otherwise I will be offended ...
(we remember that love is a feeling, not an obligation).

If expectations are not met, resentment arises, the woman closes and, as a result, the man really loses interest.

She showed her feelings, which means that obligations and resentments will now fall on my head. Something must be done.
If he sees that the woman continues to shine and opens up more and more, that she does not expect anything from him, but only enjoys spending time together, he relaxes and launches his male protection function with full power. And after some time he will want to say about his love.

To summarize, the question is not whether to show your feelings or not. The question is with what emotion to do it and what motive to be guided by.

I am for opening my feelings without expectations and enjoying the happiness of loving. After all, when we love - it's good for us! And the man is good with us!

Every person needs warmth and love. Every person enjoys being loved.

Open up to your partner. Tell him tender words. Hug him when you feel like it. And don't do all this when there's no impulse.

Follow your desire, follow your feelings, trust your intuition!

A declaration of love is a quivering and exciting moment that occurs between two people. Not everyone can immediately understand and accept this feeling, not to mention how to convey it to the second half. It is unlikely that someone will tell you exactly the time when you need to do this, for each it is different. The words “I have loved you for a long time” are so desirable and necessary in a relationship that you should not delay in order to open your feelings to your loved one.

Why do people confess their love? Often we are guided by our feelings, which push us to this step. Of course, there are exceptions and intentions sometimes differ, but I want to believe in the best.

Who should be the first to take such an important step and be the first to confess their love?

In fact, this is not so important, although we are used to believing that a man should take the first step. In fact, studies have shown that the representatives of the stronger sex love and want to hear the three main words from the girl before the start of an intimate life. But the fair sex at this stage, these words can scare, because it seems to them that this is said only in order to put them to bed.

Usually, men think about confessing their feelings after three months of relationship, while women mature a little longer - about five. But in reality modern world, everything rushes at a frantic pace and sometimes happens much faster.

Many girls wonder whether it is worth the first to confess their love to their chosen one?

Sometimes it's hard to answer this question for yourself. Those who act according to the call of their hearts are worthy of respect, but there are not so many of them. For some reason, in society it is believed that such a gesture is very indecent, but believe me, these are all stereotypes.

To think about this question well, you can weigh the pros and cons:

• Arguments for

  1. If your significant other answers the same, then your relationship can grow into something serious over time, and you will be proud that you dared to make this recognition. If your young man also loves you, then he will appreciate your determination and sincerity.
  2. If you are in love in such a way that it does not let you sleep at night, but he does not pay any attention to you, then confession can improve the situation or help you let her go, because suffering in ignorance is much worse.
  3. Not all guys can decide to take such a step, because there are a lot of modest ones, and recognition will awaken them and make them act. And if you do not say these words, you will never hear the answer. This is necessary for the development of your relationship.

• Arguments against

  1. Sometimes the circumstances are so developed that the recognition of the girl does not always please the guy. So mentally prepare yourself if it happens that he may not quite adequately respond to your step and laugh or not reciprocate, anything can happen.
  2. Moreover, if a guy was brought up in strictness, then after your confession, he can change his disposition towards you, he will consider you a frivolous and immodest girl. But then the question is: why do you need such a notorious gentleman?
  3. It happens that men absolutely do not want to recognize the right of a lady to speak first in love. Having confessed your love, you may recognize your beloved from the other side. And it is possible that he will cease to attract you if an inadequate reaction to your words follows. The moment is debatable, so it's up to you whether it's a plus or a minus.
  4. Another argument against is: if the relationship suddenly does not stick together, you will regret your sincerity. After all, it is difficult for a person to open up and there are situations when after that you gnaw at yourself that you did not do otherwise.

Confess love to your boyfriend

If you confess your love to a guy first - your sincere desire and need of the soul, then you are unlikely to regret it.

After these arguments, you will understand for yourself whether you can confess your love on this moment this person may either need to wait a little, or may even try to forget about these feelings.

Once upon a time, I myself was in a discussion about whether it was worth confessing love to a guy and life situations were different, but I think that regretting it is at least stupid. In any case, you either get a life lesson and draw conclusions for yourself, or you are in seventh heaven with happiness that you tried and did not fail. These are all experiences that are simply necessary, so do not withdraw into yourself regardless of the outcome.

Confess love to the man you love

Confessing your love to your beloved man, try to find the right words and moment. It will be better if you prepare your chosen one for this step in advance, he should guess at least a little about your feelings. Otherwise, the cherished words can become a shock and surprise for him, and in such a situation, people sometimes behave quite strangely. Give your beloved boy signs of attention, this will bring him at least a little closer to the necessary conclusions.

On that very day, make sure that he was in a good mood, because in a bad mood, the reaction can be aggressive, you never know what happens in life. Also make sure that you are alone and that there are as few distractions as possible so that nothing spoils that very moment. There is no need to prepare some long prepared speeches, it is better that everything comes from the heart. Just say the very phrase sincerely, which will make it clear your intentions and do not be afraid of rejection, because we are all people. In extreme cases, you can refer to the fact that it was all an unsuccessful joke. Then the man will at least think about possible relationships, and there it’s not far from reciprocity.

Confess your love to a guy if you are shy

If you are shy and don’t know how to confess your love to a guy, then there are a couple of ways that will help you. For example, you can give something young man and attach a letter to this little thing, in which there will be everything that you want to say. Or you can arrange a joint dinner (breakfast or lunch, but at least an afternoon snack!), prepare treats, for example cookies, in which there will be a special note. Just do not forget to warn the chosen one about the surprise.

Confess love to a married man

If you realize that you have feelings for married man, then you have to be more careful. Let's not be moralists and accept the situation as it is, but you yourself understand first whether you need it. And most importantly, think about the consequences, because they can be quite unpredictable. You can, of course, talk at a meeting, if there is such an opportunity, you can give him a letter personally, or you can remain silent. In no case do not impose and do not put pressure on such a person, because this can only push him away.

And how can you beautifully confess this bright feeling?

You can express your love in a variety of ways, for example:

1. Quite a cute way - to whisper the words in the ear of a loved one. There is a share of intimacy in this and such a stop is conducive to trust.
2. You can give him a surprise in the form hot air balloon with a note inside or attach it to a ribbon.
3. The love letter is still one of the most beautiful confessions because something mysterious and quivering remained in it.
4. Write a poem or your own song in which you reveal your feelings.
5. Send voice postcard with a declaration of love.
6. Arrange romantic date on the roof, with beautiful view on the night city and shamanistic.
7. Bake a cake and write three words on it.
8. Buy wine and sweets, and put a note among them.

The list can be continued by yourself. The main thing is to show imagination and care.

Confess your love in your own words

Confessing love in your own words can be quite difficult, but it's very sweet.

Here are some mistakes you can make:

• do not take your gaze to the floor, direct it directly into his eyes;
• do not drill a man with a look;
• avoid passionate confessions;
• do not prepare a long speech;
• no need to worry too much.

Confessing love in prose

Some interesting confessions in prose:

1. “If I had a flower - a seven-flower, I would make seven wishes. The first thing I want to always be with you. The second thing I want to always be yours. Third, I want us to never quarrel. Seventh: I dream that all these desires will be fulfilled tenfold. I love you, my flower."
2. "My beloved, we are very familiar with you a short time, but from the first minute of meeting this pleasant and warm feeling arose in me - love ”;
3. “I don’t know what words to choose so that you feel and understand my love. It is higher than the sky, brighter than the sun, deeper than the ocean and purer than the morning dew. I love you";

How to originally confess your love:

• write a paid message in the newspaper, which he usually reads, with words of recognition. True, a few dozen more people will see this, but here it’s already to each his own;
• who said that only guys can write confessions on the pavement? Nobody forbade us girls to do this. So go ahead!
• Give your loved one a massage and use your finger to deduce the words, asking them to guess them in advance.

Nowadays, you can confess by SMS, but there are a few but:

• no need to take some kind of template text, let it sound from the heart;
• do not cut off the shoulder. Start from afar, asking how you are, what is at work, how is your mood, and if everything is in your favor, then confess;
• give him time to think and don't expect a quick response.

Confess love in VK (VKontakte)

Of course, modern teenagers quite often admit their feelings on VKontakte and this is considered quite normal. You can put a status with a confession of feelings, but of course it is better to send a personal message, which will be a kind of letter, only in electronic form.

Confessing love to a pen pal

Many of us had pen pals in different ages. And I am no exception, because I had such a situation at the age of 12. There are times when you are at a distance, you cannot see each other, but feelings still overwhelm. And you will be at least 11 years old, at least 14 or 18 - it will remain so. Don't be shy, maybe it's mutual and in the future you can find an opportunity to meet live, the person should know about it.

What to do if a guy confesses his love to you?

Well, of course it all depends on you. If the feelings are mutual, then answer in the same way as he did, but if this is not quite the case, then try to refuse so as not to offend the other person much, because it was not easy for him anyway.

In no case should you swear or get angry, because the guy is not to blame for this. Better to talk heart to heart and find out everything. It is possible that he is not so attractive to you now, but when you get to know him better and you start dating, you will have a crush on your ears, so do not rush to conclusions.

If a man confesses his love drunk

If you were presented with such a gift and a man confesses his love drunk, then of course the situation is delicate. As the saying goes, what's on the mind of the sober is on the tongue of the drunk. Perhaps he lacked courage or something stopped him from doing it early and he is quite sincere. But there is a chance that in the morning the gentleman will want to give up his words, so do not rush to agree with everything, it is better to wait a day.

How to make a confession of love

Making someone confess their love is not an easy task. Of course, if a person does not feel anything for you, then only a love spell will help here. And if you see that a man is clearly not indifferent, but something does not allow you to take this step, then you should think about how you can push him to this step.

Perhaps it is worth hinting that you also have the same feelings and lead to a heart-to-heart talk. And you can tell him this first, which will lead to a response.

You can see how to confess your love in these videos:

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"How difficult it is to confess your love" Indian film:

The premiere of the film How hard it is to confess love (Khushi), took place in 2003.

Karan and Khushi meet at Bombay University and immediately become close friends. A little more time passes and they can no longer live without each other.

But both are very proud, often quarrel and do not dare to confess their love to each other. Therefore, they go on vacation without explaining themselves. And at home, Khushi's father, to whom she also did not tell anything about her feelings, picked her a groom ...

"I've been in love with you for a long time or how to open your feelings to your beloved" anime:

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Sword Art Online TV-2 / Sword Art Online TV-2

Series:

After the Seed of the World software package, donated by Kirito Akihiko Kayaba, became available to everyone, the VRMMORPG game industry, pretty shaken by the SAO and ALO scandals, gained new life. Now the creation of virtual worlds has become relatively affordable. small companies- game developers and even communities of players themselves. Thanks to their efforts, it was possible to save ALfheim Online, almost closed after the revelation of the terrible truth hidden at the top of Yggdrasil; moreover, the floating fortress Aincrad appeared in the virtual skies of the “fairy world”, restored from the remnants of data found in the memory of the game server of the Argus company. A large number of other VRMMORPG games have also appeared - one of them, Gun Gale Online (GGO), was made for players developing firearms skills. Except that "Game Over" in this game could end in real death in the real world - several of the best GGO players were found dead in their own homes. To find out what is happening, Kirito goes to a virtual world completely unfamiliar to him, where everything is decided not by the possession of "sword and magic", but by the ability to quickly shoot and hit the target. He needs to find someone who may be able to kill with a shot from the game's weapon - a player calling himself "Death Gun".

Voice acting:
AniDUB: JAM, Nika Lenina
Anilibria: Manaoki, Nuriko

Series:

There is a legend about the seven school secrets at Kamome Academy. One such mystery is the existence of Hanako. It is said that on the third floor of the old school building there is a women's restroom where Hanako appears, who can grant your every wish.
Nene Yashiro - a student of Kamome, who is interested in everything otherworldly and supernatural - decides to check the veracity of the rumors and goes to the same toilet room. Nene calls Hanako, and she really comes to her call, only Hanako is not at all what Nene imagined her to be. After all, Hanako, who lives in the women's toilet, is actually a boy!

Series:

Ushio dismisses his father's stories about an ancient ancestor nailing a demon to a temple altar with the legendary Beast Spear, but when he finds the monster in his own basement, he has to take a fresh look at the family legend! In order to save his friends and family from a sudden spirit invasion, Ushio is forced to release Tohru from captivity. But will it not turn into even more trouble?

Series: [Full Length]

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Series:

Haruki Serizawa is a bully, but despite his naughty side, the guy has good sides. For example, he is very kind and at the first opportunity tries to help the needy. Despite the fact that he likes the company of guys more (in particular, due to the fact that he does not know how to communicate with the opposite sex), he is very tactful in conversations with girls.

Mio Aida is a modest girl, unable to fend for herself. She has a good heart, and this has led to a large number of both girlfriends and male friends, although she very rarely talks to the latter. The only person Mio has a lot of conversation with is Haruki.

These two are drawn to each other, but whether it is love or simple affection is not clear. Being very close, but not exceeding the limit of ten centimeters, Mio and Haruki build their common future.

Voice acting:
AniDUB: Ancord, Bars MacAdams, Kiara_Laine, Oriko
SHIZA Project: Dancel, OkanaTsoy

Series: [Full Length]

The days of the guild of wizards are filled with magic and struggle, fulfilling a wide variety of orders. Once, the guild received such an order: “I want you to catch the leader of a gang of robbers, Gis, who has made a nest in one port town.” Team Natsu, in anticipation of a high reward, takes on this job.

However, due to a mistake made by Lucy, they miss Geese - he leaves right under their noses. Due to the failure of the task, Lucy loses heart, and on the way back she meets the mysterious girl Eclair and the wonderful bird Momon. For some unknown reason, Eclair lost her memory, and the only thing she remembers is that she must deliver the Phoenix stone she has somewhere.

Series: [Full Length]

Naruto, Kakashi, Sakura and Rock Lee are given a mission to guard the prince from the Land of the Moon. The land of the moon is known for its wealth, so the prince intends to buy everything he meets along the way. And when they meet a circus on the way, he buys a rare pet there, a saber-toothed tiger, and all the other animals to boot. Now the team will have to look after not only the prince, but also a horde of animals.

Series:

Northern Brass Band high school The town of Uji is going through hard times. The graduates, who form the basis, have lost their spark, there are very few second-year students, they had to forget about the competitions. Hope came in the form of a new music teacher - young, but already well-known in the right circles, Noboru Taki, and, of course, along with newcomers - after all, Kyoto, the cultural capital of Japan, is nearby, and the concentration of young musicians in the area is simply prohibitive.

Kumiko Ohmae joined the orchestra largely out of inertia - after all, she played with elementary school. Together with her new friends - double bass player Sapphire and Hazuki, who chose a bass tuba, she quickly realized that "there is no agreement among her comrades", old conflicts are smoldering in the team, many do not want anything at all. Taki-sensei shook up the sleepy swamp, and now Kumiko has to choose with whom she is with - with the sluggish majority or with people like the maximalist Reina? Do you think the answer is clear to you?

Series:

Football is a sport that requires a lot of work, determination and, of course, endurance. Athletes give themselves completely to this art form in order to reach heights with their aspiration and zeal. But in addition to fame and privileges, this sport is fraught with many trials that you have to cope with in order to feel the sweet taste of victory. And she, in turn, seems incomprehensible to an ordinary person without aspirations. To be afraid means to lose.
Jin Kazama is a football genius who became famous in his surroundings for his amazing playing skills. And so, one weekday, he notices a boy who does not stand out with either talent or character traits. But what could a gifted player like Jin see in him? It turned out that the guy who was just like a gray mouse - Tsukushi Tsukamoto - has an incredible drive and tries his best not to interfere with his playmates. Enduring pain and torment, he strives only forward.

Voice acting:
AniDUB: Ancord, Jade
Anilibria: Anzen, Berial, Lali
JWA Project: MorviK, Apollo, Zer0, Lucifer, Lyosha hAl, Kanade Eu

Greetings! I decided to review 1 part of the film with an incredibly long title (believe me, it is so gigantic that it literally devours the percentage of uniqueness). So meet...

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"I've been in love with you for a long time"

how to open your feelings to a loved one

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║➳ Original title: Zutto Mae kara Suki deshita.: Kokuhaku Jikkou Iinkai;

║➳ Name of the series of stories: The Executive Committee of Declarations of Love;

║➳ Studio: Qualia Animation;

║➳ Genres: romance, school, everyday life;

║➳ Length of 1 episode: 1 hour 3 minutes.

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✎﹏About the film:

❖There is a light novel describing the same events;

❖It is an adaptation of the Vocaloid song project "Kokuhaku Jikko Iinkai "Renai Series"";

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DISCLAIMER

I have exceptionally warm feelings for this anime, but I can’t refuse sarcastic remarks. I apologize for them in advance.

Also, please note that you should not be afraid of seiyuu in character descriptions, as this is an important aspect for those who watch anime with subtitles or just in the original voice acting.

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:warning: This review may contain SPOILERS:warning:

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The plot is built around a group of high school students who, for some reason, cannot open their feelings to their beloved (it's so difficult, yes, youthful maximalism).

The story begins when a young girl named Natsuki decides to confess her love to her childhood friend. Frightened of rejection, she embarrassedly takes back her words and, turning everything into a "training", invites Yuu to become her "love practice partner". Now their relationship will turn into an endless cycle of romantic confessions. You know, in my opinion, she's just great at getting out of a situation (well, or all the heroes are just unreal simpletons who are easy to fool).

But, unfortunately, or maybe fortunately, the story does not end there, because Natsuki and Yuu's friends also hide their feelings (well, just a company of shy teenagers, what to take from them).

What will happen to the couples at the end? Can they open up to each other?

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Characters

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Now get ready. ALL the characters in this anime are simple-hearted, funny (a little modest) kind people with an open soul and downright shine from their overflowing kindness and desire to help others (I, of course, exaggerate). Read their specifications at your own risk. (Yes, this is something like another disclaimer).

Enomoto Natsuki

Is the central character. As a child, she was a crybaby, but now she is a smart, perky, assertive and cheerful girl. She loves sports and food (the more the better).

Natsuki tries to be feminine, but (for reasons I don't understand) wears red sweatpants under her skirt.

In my opinion, it can be attributed to such a type as "genks".

Her friends call her "Nat-chan".

Natsuki is in love with her childhood friend Yuu, and after some events confesses her love to him on a daily basis under the pretext of "training".

Setoguchi Yuu

The protagonist. Selfless and very kind. Sometimes it is closed in itself and indecisive.

He is a member of the film club.

Lives next door to Nat-chan.

He has long been in love with a childhood friend (Natsuki) and, despite his feelings, helps her in "training". He cannot confess to her, because he is afraid that he will only upset her with his feelings (and the simpleton does not know that she is in love with him).

Koyuki Ayase

Shy guy. In the past he had long hair and glasses, but, plucking up the courage, he decides to change in order to take over Natsuki's heart by all means.

He adheres to this position: "It is better to try everything than to regret that you did nothing."

Souta calls him "Yukki".

In the film, he was voiced by Tsubasa Yonaga, who gave his voice to Nagisa Hazuki and Izume Sen.

Mochizuki Souta

Outwardly, it resembles a child, but at the same time it is very serious. Member of the film club with his friend Yuu.

Fell in love with his classmate Akari a few years ago at a high school entrance ceremony. Very jealous and direct. In the presence of his girlfriend, he becomes shy and cannot utter a word.

His friends gave him the nickname "Mochita", which comes from a combination of the word for jealousy ("Yakimochi") and his name (Souta). Ayase friendly calls him "Mocchi".

Hayasaka Akari

Natsuki's friend. Charming young girl with a beautiful smile. Shy, a little scattered, but kind, sweet and friendly.

At the very beginning of the film, she hopes to know this "mysterious feeling of love." Not very good at sports.

Souta calls her "Akarin".

She was voiced by Kana Asumi (voiced by Marika Tachibana).

Serizawa Haruki

Yuu's friend, is in the film club with him. Cheerful guy, loves to help people. Little contact with girls.

He is in love with his girlfriend Mio and sometimes gets lost around her. Throughout the film, the characters ask themselves the question "does this couple meet or not?".

Natsuki's friend. A shy and unremarkable girl, very kind and loves to help others. Doesn't interact much with boys, one of her few male friends is Haruki, whom she probably has a crush on.

She was voiced by Aki Toyosaki (voiced by Yui Hirosawa, Kofuku Ebisu, etc.).

There are a few more characters in this anime, but they are not developed enough, so I will talk about them in a review for episode 2 called "I'm still waiting for you to love me."

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This is perhaps one of the best aspects of this film. The drawing is quite high-quality (well, yes, they would have made poor-quality drawing in a full-length film). 3D graphics rarely appear in the background (and even then it is somewhat blurry, so only such a picky eye as mine could catch it). The colors are quite well matched and cannot but rejoice. Of the minuses, I can only note huge eyes, but this is already a matter of taste (everyday-school romance, after all, there is nowhere without pop-eyed people), I personally like this style of drawing faces.

By the way, the style itself is somewhat reminiscent of drawing in such an anime as "Say:" I love you "".

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The music made me happy. I don't really like Vocaloids (and this project belongs to their universe), my biggest fear was the appearance of "mechanical songs" (I sincerely apologize to Vocaloid fans, but this is how I see their music), fortunately, it did not come true. All the music, from the OSTs to the music in general, was very good (trust me, I kind of understand anime music).

It is also worth noting the wonderful songs of the HoneyWorks group, which in a sense is even actor(or faces, I don't know).

「Zutto Mae kara Suki deshita Kokuhaku Jikkou Iinkai」Full Opening

Saying I love ;)_

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This anime does not have a special plot, and the characters in it are not the most outstanding. So to say, a good anime to turn off your brains and relax.

All the characters are quite cheerful, in some moments you even empathize with them (more precisely, their stupidity and indecision).

The drawing is very pleasant, it is especially pleasing that enough time was devoted to the emotions of the characters. The musical accompaniment is well suited to the situation, and in general is of high quality.

Well, the secret of the red pants was never revealed ... It remains to hope for a miracle (the release of other films in the series), but the continuation is still unlikely.

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I decided to please you, my dears, with valuable material. This is an article from the blog of world relationship expert Matthew Hussey, who is my age and even Gemini :)

I translated it with great pleasure!

Steve helped me write the Get The Guy book and he is a treasure trove of dating and relationship knowledge.

Communication is an opportunity. Communication has endless potential, but we rarely explore it and take our first steps into new territory.

This article will show you how to lead conversations on the right paths and avoid a constant routine in communication.

So Stephen says:

Constant conversations do not always involve live communication. — Joel, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

Any relationship starts with a conversation.

Every friendship is defined by a series of experiences and a discussion of those experiences.

Even every mindless, passionate, wild sex is accompanied by a strange dialogue from the series - who are we and what are we doing here in the universe?

Conversations never lose their importance. They determine how well you know your spouse, how good your relationship with colleagues and friends is, and how you influence and attract people into your life.

There are many books on sub-communication and non-verbalism that make the words we say barely mean anything. I don't believe them.

Boring writing, boring conversations become tasteless, dry, clichéd, routine and addictive. nightmare, generated by hell, if it is impossible to avoid them.

An anticipation of an unpleasant conversation is the reason why you flinch and refuse to answer when you see that some family friend or relative is calling you. It's boring because you can predict the whole conversation.

The routine is outdated and has lost its meaning. The conversation will become just another reminder that you would never talk to a person if you were not related by blood ties.

The same thing happens in our personal lives.

Here's an imaginary but typical conversation between two people over dinner.

-How's your work?

Fine.

How is Bill?

Bill is fine.

By the way, did you call the electrician today?

And also we need to choose furniture this weekend. Shall we go shopping on Saturday? Have you decided on the sofa yet?

Questions - passing, answers - flat.
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On a permanent basis, they hurt the heart and cause mental anguish if endured for a long time. Two people can talk, but never know anything about what is going on inside them. Because not every conversation has depth and connection.

I believe that conversations can change our lives and even save us. The best conversation is one in which one encourages the other to open their soul and not be afraid to explore what's inside.

Here are a few ways:

1) Ask questions that open up emotionally.

People have a great need to open up to others. Director Kevin Smith believes that people have three needs: food, sex and the need to be heard.

But people will be afraid to open up for many reasons. They are shy. They are afraid of the answer... They are British :) So they need permission to express themselves emotionally.

How to do it simply?

Ask how they feel about something. For example:

How did you feel when you set a marathon record?

Was it difficult for you to deal with your parents' divorce?

What were your thoughts when they told you they were hiring you?

These questions provoke the disclosure of emotions. They cut through the logic and invite the other to see their feelings, which makes them feel the depth of connection with their partner. A recent excellent article in the Huffington Post tells how a couple has incorporated these reflective questions into their lives.

I more than agree.

Cool questions make a person look forward to talking to you because you allow them to talk about subjects and feelings that they usually hesitate to talk about.

2) Use the method of Sigmund Freud.

When a man opens up to you, be almost impartial in your answers. Don't judge him. Don't criticize or sigh when he says he did something embarrassing, crazy, or bad. Let him feel that it is natural, then show more curiosity. In other words, give the other person more space to talk. Psychotherapists have the skill of listening and provoking questions that contribute to greater depth in communication. Be generous and motivate him to give more.

How it was?

What else happened?

Is there anything else that worries or worries you right now?

Have you always wanted to do this?

People tend to open up when

a) feel a LOT of freedom in communication

b) understand that they will not be judged for x actions

c) they see that you are interested in hearing their answer.

Do this and people will feel at ease and at ease talking to you on any topic.

3) Let him be the expert

What would you say to someone who is starting a business today?
What was the most important thing you learned about yourself while living in that country?
How do you keep yourself in shape?

These are interesting questions because they reveal a person's inner beliefs and perspectives on their life that can be related to their own. People think that they need to know a lot about someone else in order to be in a deep relationship with him, but this does not require knowledge: just ask him to teach you or give you advice.

4) Show that you are vulnerable too

Don't be stoic otherwise people will feel your "coldness". Show that you are alive, that you are vulnerable and that you have fears. Not that "I'm in a complete nightmare", but enough to understand that you are imperfect and you are in harmony with it. As long as you easily, with humor, show that you don’t take them seriously, people will love your shortcomings too.

5) Change your commonplace phrases

If you find yourself ending sentences the same way all the time, be more honest. Ask yourself. What do I really think about this? Why am I hiding it? Am I trying to protect myself from something? Push your limits every time and you will get used to speaking more sincerely. Understand the phrases that you repeat in response to questions over and over again and answer honestly.

6) Encourage him to talk about what he likes to do.

Captivate him with conversations about dreams and global plans. Ask what he would like to achieve when he looks at himself at the end of his life or what he would like people to say about him in the future. The future is great because it's easy for people to get excited about upcoming plans and you learn a lot about inner ideals when you ask about dreams and goals. A conversation can change someone's life. We can deeply influence people the right question or a sincere answer, or when we allow someone to say something they've been keeping to themselves for a long time. People may love to chat, but that doesn't mean those conversations are valuable. We should be exceptions, beacons of truth in the midst of lies, the attraction of the living against posing and superficiality. We have a chance with every word, in a world full of tension, to become a person who speaks only to the point. Or at least you will be invited to large quantity parties.