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What kind of man do I need

April 2017

And again, I raise the topic of women, eternal and often insoluble. This does not mean at all that men do not have questions about the chosen one, but according to my very modest observations of men in their own consulting practice, they are embarrassed to think about it, let alone talk about it out loud. But female nature is such that we are looking for our man, for us it is a matter of the survival of our children, which means that we are responsible not only for ourselves, but also for future generations.

Here is a strange thing, we are growing up, we see a lot of male characters, types, it is obvious that some leave us indifferent, others cause denial, third interest, fourth desire to get carried away and be his chosen one. But this does not mean at all that we have any idea what kind of man we need. And if you don’t believe me, then look at the divorce statistics, on average in the world every third marriage does not live up to its 10th anniversary, in Russia every second marriage breaks up. It is obvious that we do not part from a good life, in most cases because it is difficult for us to understand each other, over time the distance begins to grow, and the recognition of “our” in it disappears ....

Do you need to understand at all what you expect from a relationship with a man, that is, what qualities should be present in him in order to be comfortable? If you are accustomed to experiments, you still have a lot of vitality and you are ready to just fall in love, and then come what may, then you can do without any analysis, because the heart is an authoritative landmark, but not always the most productive. However, the mind can also easily fail, because life is not mathematics, sometimes two plus two in it is not four at all, so the approach should be combined, without soloing the mind or heart, let them be in harmony.

But astrology tells us very well about our harmony. It is clear that taking and examining a single horoscope will not be at all indicative, therefore in this article I will give universal theses, that is, the characteristics of a man are given by me from the solar sign of a woman, and it is better even if you read for the sign of your ascendant (if you know it) .

ARIES WOMAN

A woman of this type is very suitable for men who are less active and lighter in temperament. If you really have the power of Mars, then you don’t need a male leader, otherwise there will be more than one leader in your pair, and you don’t feel sorry for your competitors and don’t really like them. Therefore, you should pay attention to men who know how to get along, are more diplomatic and tactful than you. Of course, you need a man who will bring constancy and stability to your life, but at the same time he will not blame you for your impulsiveness and harshness. He should not be a gentle and dependent person, you will quickly cease to respect such people, but conservatives are of no use to you either, because you are a woman of an independent character and unpredictable behavior. Alternatively, look for an adventurer for yourself, but remember that the initiative in your couple should belong to you, because the man should be more inspired than an inspirer. You are very fond of taking risks, driving cars and getting into fights, albeit verbal ones. That's what, but your man should not have the same weaknesses and, on the contrary, be so impartial as to quickly prevent the flames of conflict arising in you with one of his indifferent glances.

Do not look for passion or seething energy in a man, you will quickly get tired in the arms of this fiery engine. Looking for someone who is sociable good feeling humor and low self-esteem. It is desirable that he loves to be and live in one place and calmly endure the routine, but endure cardinal changes painlessly, having a sincere interest in them.

TAURUS WOMAN

You are a person who is accustomed to standing firmly on his feet, who loves to eat deliciously, dress well, have strong but spacious walls to maintain his peace and comfort. Your life is very measured and predictable, it's no secret that you yourself make it so. For complete happiness, you lack constancy in relationships and its physical side. So the first criterion for you should be the temperament of the chosen one - it’s great if he is full of strength, healthy and wants the same. Sex is an important part of your life, like all physical pleasures in general. At the same time, in men you like efficiency and a rational approach to money, but you shouldn’t be greedy or even tight-fisted with you, you definitely won’t like it if they start saving on you. It’s great if a man is not obsessed with healthy lifestyles and sports, because the most delicious food is also the most unhealthy, but you really like to pamper yourself and experience special pleasure by pampering your chosen one. That is, look for a man who is generous, but economic, passionate, but not carried away, kind, but not naive.

Your man should take care of the prosperity in the family and prioritize the needs of you and your children. You can provide a person with a respectable life, excellent cuisine and an amazing vacation from career storms, but for this a man must definitely have above-average ambitions and be very efficient. At the same time, you will be appointed as an accountant in the family and you will not give this prerogative to anyone. It is desirable if, as a sign of his devotion and great love, a man will make you expensive gifts. No matter how embarrassed you are, you love an expensive, comfortable life, and if a man can provide it, then he will obviously be respected and appreciated by you.

WOMAN-TWINS

You must have been called special windy, frivolous at least once in your life. Do not be offended, but you have these qualities, although you are an analyzing person, even an overly mental one. What you can definitely be sure of is that you think too much and talk too much. Communication is the foundation of your life, in some moments, its source. Put you under lock and key and take away the phone - you will not last long without damage to the psyche and physical well-being. Therefore, it is worth taking a closer look at those men who are not against communication, but speak in doses, but simply prefer to be listeners and only sometimes summarize the flow of incoming information. Such a partner will surprisingly harmoniously complement and cheer you up. Of course, you are looking for an intellectual, what to talk about with an uneducated person, not greedy for knowledge? Moreover, a man who will quickly go into emotions and feel more than speak will not suit you. You can talk about anything, immediately promoting the topic to 1000 likes per post, but it is difficult for you to discuss and describe feelings, because you are too mental. So look for a man - a listener, but very logical and down to earth.

Pay attention to how your chosen one imagines life together, because you are not the most devoted and zealous hostess. Your home is filled with friends telephone conversations and a collection of little souvenirs you've brought from all over the world, but the fridge may be empty in the meantime. You do not like being told about your duties, you miss them, although you can pretend for a long time that this is important to you. Therefore, it is better to immediately agree that unnecessary requirements for order, food and family traditions not for you. Look for a man who will understand and support this.

CANCER WOMAN

You are the most family sign of the horoscope and that is why you need a man who is not easy to trust, and who will become your soulmate forever. Your main value is safety. If it seems to you that this is the basic need of every woman, then you are a little wrong. Of course, a woman has a lunar nature, but still, the need for security is very different for you and for the Aries woman. Your family is vital to you, but you are so afraid of betrayal that you often run away from the crown. Because you need a man reliable as a rock, strong as a beast and kind as a father. By the way, in a man, you really tend to look for paternal protection, or vice versa, to patronize him unnecessarily, easily assigning the maternal function to yourself, becoming both his mother and wife. The main thing is that your man should be your protector and a very congenial person, you will probably be pleased if he is an authoritative figure, you tend to make him such in your couple and contribute to the growth of his success in society. The main thing is not to dissolve in it and do not forget about your personal space.

Your home should always be satisfying, peaceful and very comfortable. So, you need a man who is not scandalous, patient and very loving family. But with a gentle person, you will quickly acquire fears for yourself and for your children, and if he is also a little lazy, you will not notice how you become the only breadwinner in the family. Be sure to pay attention to how your chosen one feels about money and his own career, he must want to move forward and be confident enough not to break down and scare you. His attitude to finance should be even, but with a touch of greed. That is, he should not be prone to squandering and thoughtless spending.

LION WOMAN

You are a woman of royal blood, or at least habits and expectations. Love for you is an important and very serious topic, because your chosen one must be as good as you are. Perhaps the topic of personal life is not as important and selective as yours for any of the signs. There is a reason for this, you must be 100% - appearance, lifestyle, social status, creative activity - all this should cause admiration and even envy of others. It is clear that a man should also be an object of desire not only for you, but also for your entire environment, and maybe the city, or better the whole country. You are drawn to successful men with the prefix "mega", cool, in some ways very narcissistic. But this is not about bad guys, but rather about a very self-sufficient and slightly eccentric man we are talking. You are attracted to men who are independent and a little cold. You love courtship and gifts, love the scale in such attention, but victory over men of this type is especially pleasant and joyful for you. Life together should consist of holidays and creativity for you, in your case, the routine kills feelings and commitment, so do not try to find yourself a conservative patriarch, you will quickly be disappointed in life with him. Look for a modern man, moderately independent, who is looking for a partner not for borscht, but for moving forward together.

You will be a wonderful couple to a man who has been building a career all his life and is obliged to have a woman “both in a feast, and in the world, and in kind people". You know how to keep a face and play along with your chosen one, even if there is no consent, but there is great respect for him. You are not easy to win, but you are very devoted to a person, if you nevertheless made a choice in his favor.

VIRGO WOMAN

You know how to be very critical and just as evaluative. At work, this is probably why you are appreciated. There should be critics in the team, so you will enrich any activity with your very detailed comments, but in your personal life this can interfere with you. Moreover, you are for purity, both physical and moral, trying to do everything according to the rules and not go to any extreme, you often give the impression of a sterile person - no emotions, no passion, no vices. So you expect a purely irrational man, although you are unlikely to admit it. It is clear that it is very difficult for you to come to terms with someone else's illogicality, but you have a whole carriage of causal relationships, why do you still need the same quality in a partner? Only a deeply feeling and somewhere very vulnerable person will understand your soul. No, I'm not suggesting you to be the chosen one. I offer you a person who will accept your nature as you have it, will not retrain you and even more so reproach, but will patiently instill in you compassion and flexibility in approaching judgments about other people, simplicity in relationships and easy joy from trifles lives that are an annoying factor for you. It is also useful for you if for a man it is very important to serve and sacrifice himself for the sake of you or your joint plans. Only such nobility and compliance can melt your heart and confuse your mind.

You deny yourself in many ways in life, you are in a hurry to do more, serve your work, save money, buy an apartment, a car, but you do not have time to rejoice. Your man should be a man of a wide soul, be able to have a good rest and also work diligently. But he spends money much easier than you, otherwise your life will never find a place to travel, beautiful outfits and exciting adventures.

LIBRA WOMAN

There should be a lot of friendly communication in your life, your doors should always be open for acquaintances, for colleagues. You love society, the public. Do not tolerate loneliness and do not tolerate silent interlocutors. A man must love all this too or be not against this lifestyle. It may very well be that you will not have the desire to stay at home, you are always drawn to go somewhere or go, which means that a man should support this, in no case leaving you alone.

SCORPIO WOMAN

Do you need passions or quiet joys family life... The fact is that you are a person of extremes, you need both, because endless tragedies will tire you, and a quiet life will lull you and deprive you of creativity. Yes, it’s not easy with you, you constantly demand that there be a new turn, another transformation - separation, and then a passionate reunion, cooling, and then a sizzling penetration into each other. Not everyone can withstand such a pace, but there are such daredevils, there is no doubt about it. You need a man who is mature and very risky. Logic should be a priority for such a man, but he should have a weakness - a risk, noble and calculated. Perhaps such a man may seem too predictable for you at first, but this first impression is no more. In fact, an important component of such a person is the heart of a real adventurer, but prudent and very reasonable. Love for your chosen one will be an important and very intimate matter, you expect passions to blaze inside your bedroom, but you don’t like publicity at such moments, so you need an accomplice, someone who will have the same needs as you, but outwardly be calm and even impenetrable.

In general, you must go through all the difficulties and difficulties together, and it is important that your man really changes after each fateful turn. You do not understand people who remain the same all their lives, hold on to their beliefs, do not respond to change. Your chosen one should be a deep, but restrained person and very well in control of his feelings and experiences. You like to play with your man a game of secrets and secrets, so that his silence and impenetrability will only arouse your interest and feelings.

SAGITTARIUS WOMAN

You are always in a hurry somewhere, you have a lot of things to do, you want to learn a lot and get to know a lot in life. You are certainly a little adventurous and do not like a calm, settled life. Give you adventure. If you expect that I will marry you the same adventurer as you, then in vain. Let's start with the fact that you definitely do not need a conservative who has chosen his sofa and the program "Wait for me" on the country's main channel. You will forgive your dad, but not the chosen one. You need a mobile person, there is no doubt about that. He should easily respond to your craving for travel and excitement, but he should still not be too addicted and even a little boring, cautious. Only such a person nearby can save you from a wrong step, the risk of which is very high with your temperament. Your logic is not easy female, it is far from the very meaning of the word. In your picture of the world, everything is completely clear and consistent, but for others you are an absolutely inexplicable phenomenon. That's exactly why someone should take the main work of being rational on themselves, let it be your man and let it be easy for him, because it's familiar. And the news and the most creative ideas will remain only your prerogative and you simply have no competitors.

You are so fast-paced and always passionate about something that it is difficult for you to focus on everyday affairs. Your chosen one should be able, without being too zealous, to return you to the family, to yourself and to your family responsibilities. Sometimes you just need to fry someone's potatoes and watch an old comedy on a cozy couch, enjoy the simple things and catch yourself thinking that your most best person next to you here and now and this is where real happiness lies.

CAPRICORN WOMAN

Such business girl how you need a reliable rear and sensitive care. Despite the fact that you feel sorry for yourself a little, you have an iron character, inside you are like steel. You are certainly one of the most patient signs and know a lot about marathon races, but while you are running, fighting, holding defense and attacking, your heart demands that someone understand you, accept you and see you as a weak being with the right to make a mistake. You need a man who is kind and sincere. Too soft-bodied you will very quickly bring to complete despair and fall out of love, you will get such bruises about a very hard one that you don’t want to repeat the experience at all, so you should look for a middle ground. The external regalia of a man are not important to you, although you do not tolerate parasites, his hard work and devotion to the idea of ​​\u200b\u200bfamily and marriage are much more important to you. A man should be much more involved in family affairs than you. You learn to build love, and at the same time a family, gradually, sometimes going too far in your desire to be an authoritative figure among your relatives. Sometimes it seems to you that no one loves you at all, your man should celebrate and support you in such moments, demonstrate his need in your society and the importance of your presence in his life. Love is an important and very difficult feeling for you, it would be nice if your chosen one was a man of a big heart and a subtle soul.

It is important for you to be weak, even dependent. How can this be learned without a partner? But the partner must also be a person who understands that you are a warrior, but under the armor there is a lot of unspent love and warmth, the main thing is not to frighten you with rudeness or coldness. You need a man-father, but without moralizing and parental tyranny. You should be loved completely and trusted very much, and only a psychologically mature man can do this.

AQUARIUS WOMAN

Does anyone know how dear your freedom and independence is to you? Does any man realize how valuable your privacy is to you? But this does not mean at all that you do not want a partner, do not expect that one .... You are probably in the most difficult position for a harmonious relationship. After all, it is very important that your partner be as freedom-loving and independent as you are, but at the same time have a need for your society and respect your opinion. It will be very important for you not to rush into the choice, it must be right, otherwise you can beat off your interest in partnerships for a long time. A man must be very mature psychologically, wish for an independent, friendly woman who has an unconventional view of relationships as a partner. It is great if he no longer needs parental care, does not suffer from traditionalism and does not see in a woman the creator of beautiful borscht and herring under a fur coat. Look for an intellectual, a little selfish, very responsible, respectful of his decisions and committed to his choice. Oddly enough, freedom should bind you, everyone should have their own business, their own personal space, and everyone should be interested in the personality of the other. Conversations, dialogues, knowledge, discussions and similar hobbies - this is what will be the material of your foundation.

PISCES WOMAN

Your sensitivity and emotionality certainly create difficulties for you. Sometimes you completely withdraw into yourself, and sometimes you all dissolve in those around you, living in their interests. It is difficult for you to understand what you feel in a single minute - you have a bottomless ocean of emotions of different quality and intensity inside you. You are very amorous by nature and very trusting, this confuses men and repels you a little. It is important for you not to fall into dependence on the feeling that you have for a particular person. With your excessive irrationality, you need someone who will point out to you in time that you have passed certain boundaries and you are no longer environmentally friendly either to yourself or to him. Emotional stamina is important for your man, and there may even be frustration, although you will not tolerate a too callous person around you. Your chosen one should have a well-developed logic, but he should be able to stop analyzing everything in time and just calm you down kind word. Your man should have a very specific goal in life and see ways to achieve it.

Many girls complain about the lack of great love in their lives, perfect man that would meet all their requirements. However, it is possible that fate is in no hurry to present you with such a gift, simply because you yourself are not yet ready for the most important relationship in your life. Our free online test“Am I ready for a relationship” will determine how prepared you are for a serious relationship in your life. And even if this time has not yet come - there is no need to rush, just enjoy the free life, communication with friends and pleasant acquaintances. Well, if the question is whether I'm ready for a relationship, the test will show positive result- it means that your handsome prince will appear in your life very soon!

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An ideal partner in all respects - no matter how much one would like to believe in romantic comedies - does not exist. But there are many imperfect men, with each of whom you could be very happy. But how to determine that the guy is really right for you? Love, as you know, is evil, so you should not rely on instincts alone. Before you - 5 signs by which you can understand that your new friend- exactly the one you need.

Sign #1 You respect each other

Respect tops the list. And this is something that should be mutual. That is, to be considered suitable for a serious relationship, a man must respect you, and you, in turn, respect him. How do you know if he respects you or not? Like this:

He treats you with respect if:

• willing to compromise
• listens when you talk about your problems and feelings;
• notices when something is wrong and asks you about it;
• appreciates your opinion;
• appreciates you;
• I am sincerely happy for you when you achieve success in something.

Remember, for a relationship to be good, you need to demonstrate the same towards him.

If you find that one of you is unwilling to compromise, and problems and feelings are ignored, or you notice that something is wrong, but do not ask, these are signs that signal that there is a lack of respect. . If one of you dismisses the opinion of the other as if it is insignificant, obviously, respect and does not smell.

Sign #2: He has the qualities you're looking for.

Ideally, you should already know what qualities are really important to you in a partner. Trying to figure this out after the fact while in a relationship can lead to serious problems.

If you haven't decided yet, make a list of the qualities that are important to you. Choose at least 10 traits you are looking for in a man. List them in descending order of priority. Look carefully at the list and cross off a few qualities that are not so important. The idea is to keep the top 5 or even the top 3 completely irreplaceable qualities that are fundamental to you.

All this must be done with two points in mind. First, remember: no one is perfect. If you're looking for Mister Perfect, stop doing it: useless. Second, you don't have to settle for a "just good" guy. After all, we are talking about finding a truly suitable man.

Compare your list of the 5 most important personality traits with the man you're in a relationship with. this moment interested. Remember that these are very important qualities for you, so if he does not match them all, there is a high probability that he does not suit you. And if you feel attracted to him, later you can remember this relationship as that very situation of “love of evil”.

Sign #3: You Have the Same Values

What do you value in life? What comes first in your value system, what comes second? How do you see your future? If you do not adhere to common values, consider this a very good sign.

Values ​​are something that should be discussed in advance. Do not try to guess what he values ​​​​most in life, ask him yourself! If he doesn't seem to have them or can't articulate them, then this can be seen as another wake-up call. Psychologically, an adult man, with an already established worldview, is quite flexible, but has clear views on life.

Sign #4: Your intuition tells you he's the one for you.

You can't just rely on intuition, but you can't ignore it either. Intuition involves more than just physical attraction. It is connected to that place deep inside where you "just know, that's all." If for no reason you are internally sure that a person suits you, perhaps this is true.

Sign #5: You can be yourself with him.

If someone wants to change you or cannot love you with all your shortcomings, then he definitely is not right for you. So if you can be yourself when you're around him, he might just be the one you need. A man should accept not only the good in you, but also your weaknesses and shortcomings. With him you feel free and calm.

Remember these 5 signs when evaluating a candidate for a special place in your life, and the chances of "and they lived happily ever after" will increase.

Each man has a special character, a certain upbringing and temperament. You may like brutal and independent handsome men, but, having married them, you may find yourself completely unhappy just because this type of man does not suit you at all. So we can fully explain the painful question that constantly revolves in the head of those women who are in the process of actively searching for their soulmate: “What kind of man suits me?” It turns out that the answer to this question can be easily obtained using a conventional psychological test.

Psychological test "What type of man suits me?"

1. Which of the ways of dating do you consider the most acceptable for yourself?

a) with the help of a bouquet of flowers presented secretly - 1 point;

b) in a nightclub - 2 points;

c) a long and piercing look, inviting to make an acquaintance - 3 points;

d) an unexpected acquaintance, which, as it turns out later, was planned in advance - 4 points.

2. What kind of courtship and signs of attention do you expect from a man?

a) flowers, declarations of love, constant tender SMS in the phone - 1 point;

b) exciting touches, passionate kisses, strong hugs - 2 points;

c) meetings from work, regular calls, dinners in a restaurant - 3 points;

d) dates on the roofs of houses or abandoned wastelands, joint games of chess or billiards - 4 points.

3. When you are with a man, what do you want most?

a) tell him about a new work that you have just started reading - 1 point;

b) have passionate sex with him - 2 points;

c) to see him at his feet - 3 points;

d) beat him in the next dispute - 4 points.

4. How do you imagine a night of love?

a) obligatory dinner by candlelight - 1 point;

b) violent passion all night long - 2 points;

c) with a champagne bath with rose petals - 3 points;

d) during breaks you can play computer games - 4 points.

5. How would you like a man to behave with you in a circle of friends and acquaintances?

a) to gently hold the hand and not let go - 1 point;

b) to flirt and turn on half a turn with just one look - 2 points;

c) to let everyone know that you are the most beautiful, unique and unique in his life - 3 points;

d) at ease, modestly, with dignity and with all his own would let you know that he wants to leave here with you as soon as possible - 4 points.

6. What is your sign that your relationship is getting serious?

a) he introduced you to his family - 1 point;

b) he already knows what you expect from him in bed - 2 points;

c) he gives exactly what you want - 3 points;

d) finally he confessed his love to you - 4 points.

7. How do you feel about a lipstick print on his collar?

a) it will be stressful for you, you will cry all night, and in the morning you will make a scandal - 1 point;

b) come back from work smelling like strangers men's perfume- 2 points;

c) these are the machinations of envious women, you do not doubt him - 3 points;

d) it's his problem, not yours - 4 points.

8. Walking together, you suddenly run into his ex-girlfriend - what reaction do you expect from him?

a) he must lower his eyes, and not even look at her, and squeeze your hand tighter - 1 point;

b) let him impudently and impudently greet her and kiss you in front of her - 2 points;

c) yes, he won’t even notice it, and ideally, he didn’t have anyone before you, he is monogamous, and you are the only love in his life - 3 points;

d) let them talk, they probably have something to talk about after parting - 4 points.

The results of the psychological test "What type of man suits me?"

8-12 points

Only sensitive romantic can make up the happiness of your whole life and understand the depth of your vulnerable nature. And in no case do not despair in your search: modern knights also exist, only they need to be recognized and seen in the men around you. You need someone who will read romantic poems on moonlit nights, will sit with you after midnight and have intimate conversations, and certainly will not forget the day you met. A rude dork and a walking Casanova will only break your heart, so make no mistake!

13-20 points

But your type of man is the same brutal and stylish handsome man Lovelace. Crazy and sexy, he will be able to give you such pleasure, the existence of which you did not even know before. You need a bright, beautiful, eventful life that only this type of man can provide you with. Yes, he will flirt with other women, but this will only spur you on, and your passion will only flare up brighter. But with a boring romantic, you will soon wither away and long-term stress is guaranteed to you.

21-26 points

You gnaw your pencil painfully and ask yourself the same question - “What type of man is right for me?” Calm down, you need conqueror, which for a long time and stubbornly will first achieve you, and then endure all your whims. It will give you reliability and confidence in relationships. Behind this you will feel calm and warm, like behind a stone wall. He will prepare coffee for you in the morning, and fluff up the feather bed in the evening. Only with him you will feel like a real queen.

27-32 points

Look for secret agent- only such a man can make the happiness of such a smart and highly intelligent woman like you. Intrigues, psychological puzzles, intellectual duels and labyrinths - this is what will make your life truly meaningful. You will never get bored with him, and your bright and interesting marriage will be very strong. Most often, such men are laconic, serious and achieve a lot in life, so that he can also provide you with everything material.

Results counted, type the right man is defined, and your internal search engine has probably already considered all the options that somehow fit the description of your type. Well, the question "What kind of man suits me?" has lost its relevance, and a new one pops up: “Which of your friends fits this type?” We wish you a successful search, direct aiming and an accurate hit - right in the heart!

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