A man follows his destiny - a woman follows her man. Deeds, achievements, creativity - this is the main thing for a man, while family and sex accompany and fill him on the path to fulfilling his destiny.

The woman enjoys the abundant fruits of his incarnation. For a man, the head is the cosmos, and for a woman who is directly connected with the cosmos, the husband is the head. Love is a part of a man's life on his path to fulfilling his destiny, and for a woman, love is everything, that's what it is...

A man is firmness, core, warmth, care, determination, penetration, external, giving, activity, achievements. The man is handsome and real in his hardness. Not in heartless hardness, but in proper stubbornness, in confident intention, in grateful action.

Thus, a man becomes a master: a person who is firm, resolute, loving, leading, admiring, controlling, guiding, and at the same time, flexible, resilient, listening, perceiving, sensitive, affectionate ...

Perhaps the first thing that surprised me was how my wife perceived what was happening in her life. For example, in the evening she shared the events of her day. Her story could go on for an hour. It had a lot of details, nested stories, feelings and experiences.

Despite the fact that the events of the day themselves were most often quite ordinary, nothing special.

When it was my turn to share, I broadcast only a few sentences about some important events for me. This is my story...

It is very important that a man and a woman, living together, jointly invest in common well-being and abundance - that is, in a nutshell, work together, both one and the other. Let a man always get more and the main flow of abundance embodies the man at home and in life, for a real man it is always important that the girl contributes to increasing wealth and prosperity.

The main thing is that it doesn’t matter at all how much a man earns at the same time. Even if the man is still in bloom...

When a woman takes on a male role in a relationship and takes care of the family, the man relaxes and stops caring about his wife and family. And why should he strain if this role is actively performed by a woman?

A man has not yet decided on his feelings, and does not call you to marry?

Stop serving him. Do not waste your time, energy on him, and you should not agree to sex, for the sake of the desire to Serve him. Do not forgive: irresponsibility, indifference, laziness.

If in these examples you find out...

Men, remember your children! When you are near, when you are far from them....

Children are not only a distant and unclear future. Kids are REAL!

Do you play with your child, help with homework, provide financial support?

This is great, you are great! But that's not all. This is the beginning, the foundation for your relationship with your child.

Teach your son or daughter what you know yourself, be moderately strict and demanding. It's necessary. Love them, love them openly, don't be shy!

Do not be shy in front of them and your ...

Yes, it happens that men leave, break off relations in "the full swing." Many women, especially those who "believed" in this relationship, call it that - I was abandoned. And they suffer precisely because they strongly believed in these relationships, but the man could not stand it, changed his mind, decided to run away from responsibility. It is especially painful when a man leaves a woman in a position, and they are not married. As long as they have a romance - everything is fine. Or not very nice, but that doesn't matter. Bells are such a thing...

If a man constantly insists on his own in a relationship with a woman, he insists on his own superiority. This is his conditioning, and he is in a struggle with a woman.

Taking the right position in life, we will not have superiority - we are natural. A man who has not lost his naturalness is not afraid and does not avoid a woman. He will not despise her, he will not develop hatred for her, because he is not obsessed with her.

When a man is obsessed with a woman, she is for him a sharp reflection in ...

What is persistence? This is the ability to continuously follow the decision made earlier. Before action, a choice is made - what to follow. Once a decision is made, a person can follow it or not. If not, a person is called weak-willed, unstable.

If a person still followed decision, however, the attempt was unsuccessful, after several failures, the desire to continue to follow the decision may disappear. Then we are talking about lack of perseverance. True perseverance is when...

A TIE MAKE A MAN

In fairness, it is worth saying that the vast majority of men - about 95 percent - wear a tie, however, someone ties it almost daily and spends fabulous money on this wardrobe item, and someone reluctantly puts on a 100-ruble noose bought on the market “Only on ceremonial occasions. However, the very fact that a man's neck is adorned with a tie speaks for itself: its owner is not indifferent to his appearance, he wants to impress...

When a man behaves as if he has already conquered a woman, the couple goes through all five stages without difficulty, but at each stage a man can easily back down. Quite often, he tries to confuse a woman's head with promises and oaths. Although it is sometimes pleasant for a woman to succumb to such a temptation, over time she ceases to trust him. She does not believe that he loves her, as they hardly know each other. After all, he doesn't even know how she acts when she's in a bad mood.

A woman must be sure that a relationship with a man will bring her what she needs. When a man tries to show his feelings in all its glory, it does not make much impression on a woman. The inhabitants of Venus know that feelings are changeable. A woman needs to make sure that a man's feelings don't change after they get to know each other better. If a man does not rush things and behaves according to the current stage of rapprochement, a woman gains the confidence that she needs in order to move on to the next stage. Let me give you a few typical examples.

If she has reached the fourth stage (the stage of intimacy), and he behaves as if he is in the fifth stage (the stage of engagement), then she can reason something like this: “He behaves as if we were already married, but I didn’t give him consent. I don't think he can take care of me if we get married. He doesn't even respect my feelings." In other words, when in such a situation a man behaves as if the couple had reached the engagement stage, he unwittingly scares the woman away, because she begins to doubt that he is capable of being sensitive to her feelings. Before a woman agrees to marry, she must make sure that a man respects her feelings.

If she has reached the third stage (exclusive relationship stage), and he behaves as if he is in the fourth stage (the stage of intimacy) or the fifth (the stage of the engagement), she can reason something like this: “He needs everything at once. I feel like I owe him something. I'm not sure I can give him what he expects. I just want to get to know him better. I'm not ready for more." Women like men who can be attentive and persistent gentlemen, but if a man is too zealous in his desire for intimacy, a woman feels that she is being deprived of personal space.

When a woman feels that she is not yet ready for what a man expects from her, she ceases to strive with the same force for the next stage of rapprochement. To do this, a woman needs confidence that she can always count on support from a man.

If it has reached the second stage (stage of uncertainty), and he behaves as if he is in the third, fourth or fifth stage, she may reason something like this: “Why do I make him want so much? Because he doesn't even know me. If he gets to know me better, he will surely leave me, and I don't want to suffer. I don't want all my hopes to go to waste. He thinks that I am perfection itself, but this is not so at all. You can't rely on attraction alone." It is natural for a woman to doubt a man's feelings, but if a man is too intrusive, a woman loses the trust in him that is necessary to move to the stage of an exclusive relationship.

It is sad, but true: the more he likes her, the less she trusts him, because he does not realize that it is necessary to measure his feelings with her stages of convergence. When a man manages to prove to a woman that they are perfect for each other, a woman gains the confidence necessary to move to the stage of an exclusive relationship.

Quite often, men complain about the fact that women ignore well-mannered men with good manners and give preference to rude dorks. But this is just a myth. Women like well-mannered men with good manners.

The notion that women don't like well-mannered men with good manners is just a myth.

It seems to men that women do not like nice young men, because quite often they hear such a phrase from women: “You are very nice and charming, but let's better remain friends.” From this it is easy to conclude that women do not like cute and charming men.

Every time a charming young man is rejected by a woman, it seems to him that he was rejected because he is charming. Meanwhile, women, recalling unsuccessful novels, always complain that the man turned out to be a complete nonentity. It’s just that only at the beginning of a relationship does this man give the woman the impression of a sweet and charming person.

Women like amiable and courteous men, but a sense of proportion must be observed in everything. Too suave men scare away women. If a woman has reached the first or second stage of rapprochement, and the man behaves as if he is in the third, fourth or fifth stage, the woman can easily lose interest in him. It seems to her that he has too bold desires and he is too generous, and this imposes certain obligations on her. She feels she should thank him appropriately, but is not yet ready for it. When a woman meets a man who is too courteous, it seems to her that she can inadvertently offend him. In addition, she is afraid that he might turn away from her when he realizes that she is not as cute as he is.

If a woman is attracted to a man who may seem like an indifferent person, then this happens, as a rule, at the first or second stage of rapprochement, at which some detachment is quite appropriate. When a man enthusiastically takes care of a woman, but still cannot say with certainty that he is ready to refuse communication with other women for her sake, this gives him a special charm and exceptional attractiveness.

A woman likes such men because they inspire her with confidence that she can back down at any moment. If a man is too persistent, a woman begins to feel that she has no right to doubt her feelings. A man simply does not give her the opportunity to understand her attitude towards him and make sure that she is ready to move on to the next stage.

If a woman has reached the first stage of intimacy (attraction stage), and the man is acting like he's in the second stage (the uncertainty stage), she's thinking something like, "Why is he so nervous? I won't offer him mine myself. business card! I want him to ask me what my phone number is.” Another woman may think differently: “Probably he is just shy. I’ll probably flirt with him, and then, if he doesn’t ask what my phone number is, I’ll give him my business card myself.” But in any case, the aura of uncertainty surrounding a man somewhat spoils the overall impression that he makes on a woman. One way or another, a woman has to take the initiative, so over time, sympathy for a man disappears.

When she has reached the first stage, and he behaves as if he is in the second, third or fourth stage of rapprochement, it is not easy for her to trust him. It seems to her that he has too bold desires, so she involuntarily moves away from him. Sometimes it seems to her that he feels such a strong attraction to her that in case of refusal he will be offended to the core. In this situation, a woman begins to have maternal feelings for a man, and sexual attraction recedes into the background. At this moment, she can offer him: “Isn’t it better for us to remain friends?”

So, when one of the partners rushes things, the process of consistently overcoming the five stages of rapprochement becomes much more complicated. In some cases, both partners are in a hurry to skip several stages. This will not prevent them from going through all the stages of rapprochement and achieving a certain degree of intimacy, but they will not be able to lay a solid foundation for a long-term relationship. They may even get married, but it will be much more difficult for them to cope with the inevitable problems of married life.

As a rule, a man refuses the initiative when a woman takes responsibility for maintaining the relationship. A woman ceases to trust a man when he shows exaggerated generosity. All reactions of partners should correspond to the current stage of rapprochement.

We are used to the fact that everything needs to be done quickly, so we are in a hurry in relations with the chosen one. It is no coincidence that today many people face great difficulties in their personal lives.

If you want something, it doesn't mean that you will get it. Sometimes you have to take it by force. It is often forgotten that success in career, in women and in life in general depends on such valuable male qualities like persistence and aggressiveness. How often do you miss out on great opportunities without being brave enough, tenacious, persevering and aggressive enough?

“If good things don't happen by themselves, they must be achieved” Film “Hotel Marigold”.

The modern age has given rise to many problems for men and one of them is indecision. We have become too rare to claim our rights to anything. We have become too cultured, modest and weak. As a result, you can see how more cheeky, bold, arrogant and confident people take away what should have been yours.

Perseverance and aggressiveness can be easily seen in the example of visiting people in big cities and capitals. "Come in large numbers" have a more iron grip, more aggressive, more persistent, more direct and more purposeful. They retained the natural fighter gene. Perseverance and aggressiveness are animal instincts that allow you to survive and be a more competitive male.

Do you want to get a position, a job, money, a woman or something else? Your goal is quite desirable and many want to get it. This is fine. There will always be competitors and those who claim the common or even your piece of the pie. You will always cross someone's path and occupy someone else's, as they think, place. But why should you give in because someone else has laid eyes on it too? What are you worse? Why should you back down, give up, and seem polite when they try to brush you aside?

Even in modern world the fittest survive. Are you ready to stand up for yourself? How to be more persistent and even aggressive?

Male qualities of perseverance and aggressiveness

1. Think before you act

Before you fight for anything, you need to understand if you need it. Analyze how important the goal is and do you really want to get it, and not because of sports passion? Is it in your interests, goals, plans for life and part of a dream? Think before you try to get what you may not need. Sometimes this is a waste of time and energy.

2. Be persistent

When you see the infringement of your rights, you should immediately begin to defend them. You don't have to be aggressive or overbearing right away. Calmly state your needs, desires and rights. Express your point of view. Be politely persistent, confident and unshakable. Use body language to convince your opponents.

3. Be aggressive

It is not always possible to reach an agreement in a good way or achieve the desired peacefully. Show your strength of character, confidence and fighting mood. Show your fangs to those who cross the road or do not understand in a good way. Weakness and insecurity are often mistaken for kindness. Don't let people fool you. When it matters to you, stand up for your rights as aggressively as possible. Do not be a nurse and a weakling. Take your own, and maybe even someone else's, if you claim it.

What to do if you liked a woman, but the attempt to invite her on a first date failed? Continue attack? Suddenly, she will consider this an obsession, and will avoid any contact ... Stop seeking? Then you can hear in pursuit that you were not persistent enough, but you had every chance to conquer. You don't understand these women! How to proceed in such a situation? To storm an impregnable fortress, or not?

Does a man really want to conquer her, the one that is inaccessible? But often attempts to show male perseverance turn into a failed obsession. How to distinguish between persistence and obsession, show the first, and avoid the second?

Obsession - attempts to force to do something against the will of a woman, and it is usually accompanied by tediousness. How it usually manifests itself, and what should not be done:

Insist that she is uncomfortable or unpleasant. Suppressing the will of any person, be it a man or a woman, is bad. Moreover, at this stage, although you are a man, you are still an outsider. Therefore, popular statements about the submissiveness of women will be good later, when you acquire the legal right to be called her man. In the meantime, be kind enough to reckon with her tastes, time constraints and habits. Don't try to rudely break her mind. If you do not understand the motive for refusing to go to the cinema with you, ask what exactly you do not like: the movie, the time of the show, or something else. And to insist on those positions that are convenient only for you - this is a loss of a chance to possess her heart.

Fill up with SMS and calls that remain unanswered. Yes, we can "break" a little, not answer one or two calls, but send something like "Sorry, very busy" in the message. But when there is a complete disregard "on all fronts", then there really is no interest, and you kill it even more with your obsessive activity.

Come visit unexpectedly. An unexpected guest, as they say, is worse than a Tatar. Of course she won't be happy! Moreover, at home she can be completely at home, she can have other guests, household chores, and a whole host of other reasons. Feel free to become an uninvited guest when you achieve her location. For now, no.

Meet and see off if she refuses. The same can be said about the regular "duty" near the entrance, work. It's one thing when you already communicate quite closely, and quite another is the constant persecution of an unfamiliar person. What is it, if not obsession?

Don't try to quickly switch to tactile contact. Everyone has personal space, and it is guarded quite carefully. Someone does not like when they take his cup, someone cannot stand the touch of strangers. Not all women are "touchy", many like a quick rapprochement. But one indispensable condition must always be fulfilled: the presence of sympathy. If a woman has not yet melted, then an attempt to quickly approach her, on the contrary, will push her away. Know how to feel the moment when she herself will be ready. If this does not happen, then your attempts to impose any physical contact will be rejected.

How to be persistent?

Women tend to resist, this is our trump card! And how sometimes disappointing are men who are not ready to show even the slightest drop of perseverance! Very often, it is not the smartest and most beautiful who wins in life, but the one who did not give up and found ways to achieve the goal. This universal principle is also valid for amorous affairs. Perseverance - gradually take step by step towards each other, taking into account the interests of each other, and trying to reduce the distance between you.

What is persistence:

Offer what she loves. Do you really want to win her heart? Then you should ask what she likes and what she likes. Surely a woman who loves sea holidays will be interested in a weekend trip to the sea in the company of cheerful friends. And if she is a fan of bowling, then you have every chance to spend an evening with her, playing a game or two of this game. It is not necessary to "break" yourself or sacrifice something. Find common interests, and in no case do not reproach her for the fact that you "dropped everything" for her! Nobody forced you.

If the woman refused for the first time, try the same pleasant offer. Perhaps last time, indeed, "grandmother got sick." After all, worthwhile offers are subject to consideration!

Make pleasant surprises. It's such a small thing! But how nice it is when you pay attention! Give her a ride home one day because you're on your way, borrow your jacket, feed her strawberries in season. Attention should be shown in caring little things, not in persecution.

Call. Necessarily. And send SMS. Sometimes. Calling or texting for no reason, without demanding dates or obsessive compliments, will spark interest and keep you confident that you like her. We know that guys don't really call just like that!

Get lost. The secret to successful persistence is not to be overly assertive. After a few successful surprises, walks, and calls, take a break. Give the woman time to think about you and get bored a little. This will certainly happen, because, "than less woman we love ... ", the higher the likelihood of female interest in you.

Make decisions. When women enthusiastically talk about men who are able to "hit the table with their fists," what they mean is not brute force at all, but the ability to make decisions and take actions alone. If you follow her every desire, she will find you not manly enough. Be able to choose some things on your own: for yourself and for her. In an armful, in a car, and forced to the sea! This is probably one of the most pleasant manifestations of male strength and perseverance.

Of course, perseverance alone is not enough to conquer an impregnable beauty.

Do not forget about manners, cleanliness and appearance, and most importantly - do not miss the moment of the most successful "active attack". However… The perfect recipe in the conquest of women's hearts does not happen. Only through personal observations can one understand whether it is worth making another attempt, or even after the tenth time the woman will not give up. Does she need perseverance and courtship, or does she prefer a quick rapprochement, and you are simply not her type. Guess us! That's why we are women!

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? - ask those women who have not yet had close relationships with this type of men. The answer to the question depends entirely on the warehouse of the woman's character and her idea of perfect man and the way he is cared for.

Let's look at a few situations in which a man can be assertive. In the first case, it concerns the stage of wooing and winning a woman. There are such types of women who themselves provoke men to perseverance. Events in this case should develop as follows: a woman must definitely like a man. She pretends to be an impregnable woman, but from time to time she can give him hints of her disposition. It can be ambiguous looks, words, gestures. Simply put, she thus supports the fire of a man’s passion, not letting him get too close at first, but also not giving a final rebuff. Perhaps it good way so to speak natural. A weak male will retreat before difficulties, and a strong one will begin to achieve a female with increased perseverance.

Some women are flattered by this increased level of pressure, because it speaks of the deep feelings of a man that elevate a woman to the rank of special. A man can haunt a woman with his calls, SMS, meeting requests, etc. In fact, the lady herself determines the necessary level of pressure that is required from the man. It is regulated quite simply - when weakened, a woman stirs up passion, and when a sufficient level is reached, the woman simply surrenders to the mercy of the winner. As a rule, having achieved the desired result, the ardor of a man weakens slightly and does not go into the rank of obsession.

Although this does not always happen. Some lovers require constant confirmation of love, they call every 20-30 minutes, citing the fact that they cannot live without it. At first, it’s even pleasant, but it gets boring very quickly, as it completely deprives a woman of the opportunity to be independent. Such calls are especially sensitive when it is impossible to be distracted once again at work or school. In this case, it is better to talk with your loved one and explain your position. Explain to him that you enjoy his calls, but ask him to significantly reduce their frequency.

What to do when a woman is not interested in the signs of attention provided by a man? Here the question is, an assertive man - the ultimate dream or a nightmare is not worth it at all. Everything is much more complicated here, since it turns out to be a one-goal game. Sometimes it happens that a woman's refusal only stimulates a man to take action. He perceives the female "no" as a veiled "yes" and acts in accordance with his logic. Constant harassment of communication and meetings in this case is almost mandatory, so the girl is simply doomed to lose a certain amount of her nerve cells.

In such a situation, talking and explaining her position usually does not help, and the girl must come up with another way to get rid of the annoying admirer. In this case, it is possible to travel to long business trip, to the village, moving to another place, in general, a long separation that will help a man forget a woman. If this is not possible, then an option is a relationship with another guy who can popularly explain his place to an annoying fan. Although the question is: what to do with this guy next?

There is a good way to get rid of a persistent admirer, although not all girls like it. And take and agree to a date with him! We have already said that for some men the very stage of seduction is important, and not the fact of an intimate relationship. In such individuals, the ardor quickly subsides, passion disappears, and they forget about their irrepressible desire to communicate.

If the desire does not decrease, then you can independently extinguish the ardor of a man. The fact is that an assertive man usually has a clear idea of ​​\u200b\u200bthe ultimate goal and forms a certain image of the girl of his dreams. A smart and resourceful lady does not have to destroy this image. Gradually disappoint your Othello so that he himself begins to think about your future together. And if he has relatives, then in 50% of cases it is enough just to make an unpleasant impression on his family, and the goal will be achieved.

The question, an assertive man - the ultimate dream or a nightmare, can also be considered from the point of view of the nature of such pressure. If a we are talking about peaceful pressure, then everything is left to the discretion of the woman. If the pressure turns into negative emotions and aggression, then the answer can only be in the direction of a nightmare. Men who served in special forces are especially aggressive. The psychology of their profession was such that the result must be obtained by any means. Sometimes these paths are far from ethical and generally accepted. In this case, a slightly perverted psychology, combined with strength and special knowledge, even poses a certain threat to a woman. In the end, the lady realizes that this man will stop at nothing to get her attention. In such cases it is difficult to give general advice, here it is necessary to act according to the situation.

In the afterword, I would like to draw attention to the fact that in most cases it is the woman who provokes men to excessive attention. It can be either a conscious action or an unconscious one. That is why we advise a woman to think and choose her behavior more carefully when dealing with men. Sometimes a few careless glances or gestures are enough to ignite a fire in a man's soul, which will be very difficult to put out.