June 3 from 10:00 to 19:30 An open charity festival for the whole family “Five Lectures on Love” will be held in Gorky Park. Guests of the festival will be able to communicate with five well-known experts in the field of family and developmental psychology.

How to make your love bring only happiness to you and your family? Is love too much? How to keep warm feelings and live in a family happily ever after? Answers to these questions will be sought in the parent lectures. Young guests are waiting for a children's program from partners.

Festival program:

Parent lecture hall

10:00 Ludmila Petranovskaya: about love for your inner child.
12:00 Valery Panyushkin: when is there too much love?
14:00 Ekaterina Murashova: to love children means to let them go!
16:00 Dima Zitser: fatherly theme in love
18:00 Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to keep feelings in a long-term relationship?

Children's program

Children's University from the Polytechnic Museum, Letal and Chagall studio, game libraries from the students of Yegor Bakhotsky and Zhenya Katz, sand animation from Sand Pro and sand cities from Archpoint.

Charity program

The festival gives each participant an opportunity to contribute to a common good deed and help three wonderful boys from Severodvinsk fight a serious illness.
The Glushkov brothers - Nikita, Timur and 7-month-old Lyova - have a common disease for three: primary immunodeficiency, Wiskott-Aldrich syndrome. Now only the drug Enplate can save them, the treatment of which costs 885,000 rubles a month. An unaffordable luxury for a simple family from a small seaside town: the boys' mother is a housewife, the father is a simple locksmith.

All the money collected in the charity box at the festival, received from the sale of the online broadcast for the festival (will be held at family3.ru), we transfer to the Sunflower Charitable Foundation - to help the Glushkov family.

Details and registration on the website.

On July 5, in honor of the day of family, love and fidelity, in one of the coziest open air spaces in Moscow - in the Muzeon art park - an open charitable lecture will be held dedicated to the development and upbringing of children, family relations, family comfort and conscious parenthood.

Organized by the Big Dipper School of Conscious Parenthood and the RED NOSE Charitable Foundation

In the lecture program:

• 11:00 - 12:45 Irina Mlodik. "Our Children: Love and Power".

How to use parental authority without fear of losing the love and trust of your child?

• 13:00 - 14:45 Alexander Kolmanovsky. “Love is above the belt. Psychology of family relations.

How to distinguish love from other feelings? How to properly prepare for a meeting with your soulmate? How to determine that it is she, your half?

• 15:00 - 16:45 Marina Belokurova. "Seven Aspects of Love"

What should be the behavior of the couple? Why are marital unions fragile? Is it possible to change something for the better?

• 17:00 - 18:45 Vladimir Shahidjanyan. “Gymnastics of the soul. What is self love?

How to save good mood and positive attitude? How to find purpose? How to bring back the taste of life

• 19:00 - 20:45 Ludmila Petranovskaya. "Once More About Love"

What is it all about - the love of parents for children and the love of children for parents?

Be sure to come with your kids! For children there will be a play area with nannies.

For babies, there will be a special area for swaddling, feeding and safe play.

By registering for the event on the website www.bmshkola.ru, you can take part in the festive lottery. Autographed books of lecturers, as well as other interesting prizes, are raffled off.

Admission is free / if desired, a voluntary donation of any acceptable amount to the children of the RED NOSE Charitable Foundation is welcome www.rednoses.ru

Address: Krymsky Val, possession 2. Summer cinema of the Muzeon Park of Arts Phone +7 (985) 789−74−79

The Family Tree project and the Samokat publishing house are holding the 5 Lectures on Love festival on June 3 at the Gorky Central Park of Culture and Culture. 5 experts in the field of family and developmental psychology will perform at the festival: Lyudmila Petranovskaya, Valery Panyushkin, Ekaterina Murashova, Dima Zitser and Ekaterina Burmistrova. Parents are waiting for lectures, and children - creative master classes. All funds raised at the festival will go to the beneficiaries of Timur Bekmambetov's Sunflower Charitable Foundation.

Entrance to the festival "5 Lectures on Love" is free. But in order to receive an invitation card, you must register in advance on the festival website. You can listen to useful lectures without leaving your home, in various parts of Russia and the world. It is enough to leave a request on the site to watch the broadcast. The cost of online access to all lectures is only 300 rubles. The proceeds will be used to pay for vital medicines for the Glushkov brothers from Severodvinsk, who suffer from primary immunodeficiency - 14-year-old Nikita, 10-year-old Timur and 7-month-old Lev. It will be possible to help the boys at the festival itself by leaving a donation in a charity box at the stand of the Sunflower Charitable Foundation.

Festival program

Parent lecture hall

10.00 - Lyudmila Petranovskaya: about love for her inner child.

12.00 - Valery Panyushkin: when is there too much love?

14.00 - Ekaterina Murashova: to love children means to let them go.

16.00 - Dima Zitser: father's theme in love.

18.00 - Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to keep feelings in a long-term relationship.

Children's area

10.00-19.00 - Express course sand animation from Sand Pro. Assembly and launch of glider models. Mousematics game with Zhenya Katz's students. Game library from the legendary Nikitin family. Team games on fresh air from children's center"Copernicus Fitness".

11.00-13.00 - Origami master class - for children from 5 years old.

13.00-16.00 - Master class in painting from the studio "Letal and Chagall" - for children from 3 years old.

15.00-17.00 - Construction of a magical city from "living" kinetic sand with the architects of the ARCHPOINT design bureau - for children from 6 years old.

17.00-19.00 - Entertaining lectures from the Polytechnic Museum - for children from 8 to 12 years old.

game tent

10.00-13.00 – puppet show about love "The Frog King" from the storyteller Nadezhda Potmalnikova, based on the book by Anna Schmidt - for viewers from 5 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Workshop role play from Oksana Zvidnaya, social anthropologist, student of Yegor Bakhotsky - for children from 3 to 10 years old.

Our time is the time of love. Love has become one of the main bugbears of modern civilization. Perhaps the most important. Now they are trying to connect absolutely everything with her.

In ancient, in ancient world love was not known. There existed other concepts: duty, honor, fidelity, devotion. But all this is gone, and instead, love was proclaimed the highest value. And if something is proclaimed to be the highest value, then, of course, many people try to cling to this highest value. In our understanding, love appeared when life became easier. When not individual people appeared, but whole layers of people who have free time and energy.

What can masquerade as love

1. Neurotic anxiety of parents

Parents worry that the child will not be able to find his place in the new, constantly changing world, and do everything possible to be able to. For example: "I love you and therefore I want you to have a good education." Or "Without of English language nowhere now. Yes, I understand that you don't want to. But it is necessary. Why? Because I love you!"

For such parents, the world is a train in which you need to have time to throw your child, and you need to provide him with something: hooks, suction cups, so that he constantly clings. The most advanced mothers (there is such a type of “Jewish mother”) jump with the child, holding hands.

2. That which love has supplanted (honor, devotion, duty)

Since these concepts have existed for several centuries, they cannot completely disappear - and as a result they disguise themselves as love. It looks something like this: “Well, listen, in our family everyone had a higher education. I know that you are smart, that you are good-looking. But I love you! Well, how are you going to study to be an auto mechanic?

In fact, this phrase means “How will I look people in the eye if my Vasya is left without a higher education? They’ll ask me who Vasechka is, and I’ll say: “Vasechka is an auto mechanic.” It’s to burn with shame!”

3. Mother's lack of meaning in life

If the mother has not been able to find something to live for, she makes the child the meaning of her existence. “Yes, I gave you my whole life! She left her job - just to take you to a developmental school at the French embassy. And now you say that you French not needed - after eight years of my uninterrupted vigil. And only four years of music school left out of nine!”

No one can be the meaning of another's life. This is unnatural and absolutely unbearable. Is there something that all children need? There is. They need to see next to them a person who has taken some place in this measure, who has found himself. Therefore, the main task of the parent is to make and find himself.

4. The desire to prove something to someone

This someone could be anyone. Often, parents themselves did not have enough love, so they consider it their duty that they must give it to their children in full.

“You never noticed me. You weren’t interested in my problems, you didn’t do homework with me, you didn’t, you didn’t, you didn’t ... I will do all this. I will talk to the child until he faints!”

5. Make a project out of a child

This is a less malignant version of the “child is the meaning of life” paragraph. When parents invest in a child, then to get this and that.

Where is love then?

We are animals. But we are not only animals - we are people. From a biological point of view, we have a maternal instinct. It turns on in 80% of women giving birth and continues until the child reaches the age of four, and then disappears. Ideally, next comes the human thing: caring for the cub. Then biology kicks in again, but in the opposite direction. Push back! Kick me out! He is 12 years old - why do you have him here? Get him out of here!

You need to do the following: catch everything that disguises itself as love, honestly talk about it to yourself and your children. And cut it off. And all that remains is love.

If a mother can laugh at herself, then she will raise children who can also laugh at themselves. And I do not know a method that would be more efficient.

Open charity festival for the whole family

"FIVE LECTURES ON LOVE"

Russian State Children's Library,

metro station Oktyabrskaya, Kaluga square, 1

Organizer: a project to support parents "Family Tree".

Partners Publishing house "Scooter", charitable foundation "Sunflower".

We invite journalists and bloggers to the festival!

All you need is love and, fortunately, love is in each of us. We love our spouses, children, parents, friends - but not always love brings us happiness. Sometimes with our love we not only warm and caress, but also tease and fetter, sometimes we hurt.

Some of us, already being parents, still do not know how to accept the love of loved ones and constantly feel abandoned and unnecessary.

How to make your love bring only happiness to you and your family? Is love too much? How to keep warm feelings and live in a family happily ever after?

On June 3, at the Russian State Children's Library, we will look for answers to these questions together with five well-known experts in the field of family and developmental psychology.

Festival program

Parent lecture hall

10.00 – Ludmila Petranovskaya: about loving your inner child.

12.00 – Valery Panyushkin: When is there too much love?

14.00 – Ekaterina Murashova: to love children means to let them go.

16.00 – Dima Zitzer: paternal theme in love.

18.00 – Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to keep feelings in a long-term relationship.

Children's area

10.00-19.00 - Express course of sand animation from "Sand Pro". Assembly and launch of glider models. Mousematics game with Zhenya Katz's students. Game library from the legendary Nikitin family. Team games in the fresh air from the Children's Center "Copernicus Fitness".

11.00-13.00 - Origami master class - for children from 5 years old.

13.00-16.00 - Master class in painting from the studio "Letal and Chagall" - for children from 3 years old.

15.00-17.00 - Construction of a magical city from "living" kinetic sand with the architects of the ARCHPOINT design bureau - for children from 6 years old.

17.00-19.00 - Entertaining lectures from the Polytechnic Museum - for children from 8 to 12 years old.

Game Zone

10.00-13.00 - Puppet show about love "The Frog King" from the storyteller Nadezhda Potmalnikova, based on the book by Anna Schmidt - for viewers from 5 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Role play workshop by Oksana Zvidnaya, social anthropologist, student of Yegor Bakhotsky – for children aged 3 to 10.

17.00-19.00 - Street theater with a performance on stilts and circus numbers "High Brothers".

Participation is free, pre-registration on thewww.festival.family3.ru. You can also purchase access to online broadcasting and recording of lectures. The cost of online access is 300 rubles. All funds raised go to charity.

Charity program

The festival gives each participant an opportunity to contribute to a common good deed and help three wonderful boys from Severodvinsk fight a serious illness.

The Glushkov brothers - Nikita, Timur and 7-month-old Lyova - have a common disease for three: primary immunodeficiency, Wiskott-Aldrich syndrome. Now only the drug Enplate can save them, the treatment of which costs 885,000 rubles a month. An unaffordable luxury for a simple family from a small seaside town: the boys' mother is a housewife, the father is a simple locksmith.

All the money collected in the charity box at the festival and received from the sale of the online broadcast for the festival will be sent to Charitable Foundation"Sunflower" - to help the Glushkov family.

Festival organizer -Family tree

We are parents helping parents like us to set up a harmonious and happy life in family. We opened useful resource, where you will find all the valuable information about the age and family psychology, education and development, health and safety of children, relationships with spouses, and you will also be able to receive competent psychological and emotional support from the best specialists.

Official partners of the festival:

Publishing house "Scooter" www.samokatbook.ru

We search all over the world and bring to Russia the best children's books, open new Russian authors and artists to the reader, build bridges between cultures and generations. Many of our books are recommended by librarians for personal and family issues.

Charitable Foundation "Sunflower" www.fondpodsolnuh.ru

We help children with congenital immunodeficiency and autoimmune diseases. We contribute to the organization of examination and treatment of children, provide social, psychological and legal support to their parents, work to raise people's awareness of primary immunodeficiency, and also help children with immunodeficiency to actively engage in life.